i think i royally messed up with a Virgo male...i'm not sure, but i really like him...i may have said something to creep him out on accident and now i can't get him to email me back...so i'm kinda kicking back and waiting and giving him his space,i have waited so long for him and i really screwed it up i think...I really want to be with this guy...is there anyway for me to redeem myself—
virgo male

Consider it a blessing in disguise ..... for this behaviour will be a permanent fixture .. meaning, even if you do get him back, and do it EVERY TIME you are human and say something he doesn't like or approve of.
If that's acceptable to you ... then you might as well thicken your skin right now and be indifferent .. for if you allow your feelings to get hurt over something he will do monthly ... then you will be a pile of messed up emotions in which he will then ditch you for being emotionally out-of-control.
Damned if you do .. damned if you don't.
If that's acceptable to you ... then you might as well thicken your skin right now and be indifferent .. for if you allow your feelings to get hurt over something he will do monthly ... then you will be a pile of messed up emotions in which he will then ditch you for being emotionally out-of-control.
Damned if you do .. damned if you don't.

"even if you do get him back, and do it EVERY TIME you are human and say something he doesn't like or approve of."
I meant to say ... even if you do get him back, he will do it EVERY TIME you are human and .....
I meant to say ... even if you do get him back, he will do it EVERY TIME you are human and .....
Thanks, that's what i'm doing but it's soooooo hard...but thanks for the insight Starfish225 and PAngel. my friend at work says i shouldn't even bother with him until monday and tell him i've been too busy at work. That way it seems like i have no time for him. so i guess i'm going with that plan..Thanks again i'll let you know how it goes!

P is right.
i'm cool with what she said...i have a thick skin, i just wasn't sure how to deal with a Virgo...now that i know i'm good and i think i'll be able to manage...Thanks
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