Why are Earth Sign people passive and making drama? ( only my observations).

Hello,

so from what i have observed among my friends eart sign people usually make drama in a company and kind of 'wait', stick to, or rely on other people 'leaders'.

i have met so many eart sign people - i have agood connection with them because of my moon in capricorn sign ( ithink so) and some times i feel like they can not be 'more' i dont know- expressive, open. like they were kind of in a nutshell.

i do not mean its bad . because as we all know. people are different and we can not only rely on our observations because worldis full of different people.

so among my friends among those people achiving a goal is a very diffcult 'process' i know they are workaholic, hardworkers,very patient but they can not relax.

i remember and i am mentioning this i guess 1000 times here. some years ago 3 years ago from now. i met new friends. new group. it was a group that my Taurus ex best friend had. she was the queen bee. she was good at work but only MAKING drama in a company.

all the attention must have been on her. she didnt like when someone was talking to me ( aries) or other cool girl ( leo).

and this scenario also is connected with my other friends from university - Two Capricorn friends and One Virgo.

i have a feeling that they like me because they know somehow i have an energy to push them into something. i can lead them ( in some university project, or outside my university) but they do not give me anything back.

i felt from those years that they only needed me to push them to work or to change a mindset of life, give them a hand because someone was feeling miserable, depressive. but i was not given anything back.

because when i was entering the company almost all eyes were on me.

and its not that i am feeling used.

now when i am not friends anymore with those virgos and taurus people i see that ok they are kind of 'stable', they have stability in life, good work, maybe some relationships BUT they can not "CHANGE' anything in their lifes by themselves.

there is always someone FIERY upon them.

taurus girl had a good sag boss who was encouraging her all the time,

virgo only relies on LEO that i also know.

I am only RELYING on MYSELF and i am the creator. i do what i want. i mean i CHOOSE and im not passive.

is it something bad?

i mean, some men are maybe afraid of me, that i am kind of an 'organisor', lecturer or sth.

not like 'only student', only 'work' 9-5pm and etc.

i always take the initiative. even in relationships and its very often that i get rejected.

but then i see that men like that i was giving a hand first . its usually after one or 2 years that they can mention it.



its only my observations. what do you think about it?

i do not wanna be rude here, its only my point of view.

or maybe its only my nature that i need to be the 1st, lead or sth?

maybe i am 'the problem'?



thank you

@looksmaxcamp

i am but im only mentioning. because now i am surrounded by all Capricorns. and they are always asking me for advices.

virgo was just an example.

Posted by aquarius_man

Posted by joanne_p

or maybe its only my nature that i need to be the 1st, lead or sth?

maybe i am 'the problem'?



thank you

no, they are the problem

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oki

So, out of all of the elements Earth is the one with the most drama——

I smell a small brained Aries attempting a little reverse psychology

Good Try

First of all, you're not the problem! Why would you think that? If you're a go-getter and others rely on you that's a strength. So many times women back down from leadership because they don't want to intimidate but I say own it if you got it.

I guess if you're not getting anything back set some boundaries of how much you're willing to give. Also, there are people who will just take and there are people who will give.

I have a sag friend that gives a lot and I'm always cognizant that I want to return the favors. However, fire signs being extroverts almost always have better connections or hook-ups.

For me most Caps I've met always yield a helping hand even when they don't know you well. A Cap acquaintance just literally lugged around my scooter for me in his car to help me get it home and brought all his tools to fix it up for me. Then I have an Aries friend who is constantly asking me for things... also could be because she's young. However, we both propel each other to start projects whether it's working out, cooking, going out etc.

For the most part, I haven't received back from Taurus and Virgos though so may be I agree on some level.