Are Capricorns really shy—?

Iv started seeing this cap and he was shy at first... I stayed over his we had a drink(I'm sure he's a alcoholic but I don't wanna ask yet) in the morning he was so cuddly when I was talking about leaving he kept saying no... I fell asleep early around 8 woke up to a few messages about random stuff... Is this a sure sign he's interested?

Also he does not have a job anymore and he didn't seem very organised said he had to clean his room before I came his birthday is 24th December

Posted by clownloyal
idk I feel like early caps are more shy and insecure of themselves especially when they don't have a career to prove themselves worthy of

He's a fair bit older than me say 26/27 or so

He's actually 30 soo in guessing that I'm just abit of fun to him?

Posted by RooSagicorn
Not shy, they just take awhile figuring out what they want. When they do, believe me they don’t seem shy anymore.

I would say they are reserved, which is good thing

No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

I didn't realise he was that age.... I like him but obviously it's a off put... Probably just abit of fun?

Whattttt

Honey if you had read my comments you would have seen I didn't know his age. I only just seen it.

And I move on quickly nothing wrong with that. He is not just some random person

Yes so what? I knew he was abit older I genuinely go for abit older. Your starting to do my head in luv. If you ain't gonna be useful you know where to go🙂

Clearly your older that me and wanna give me a bit of a grilling hahaha

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Posted by Baby340
Clearly your older that me and wanna give me a bit of a grilling hahaha

Not grilling.

I simply said slow your roll.

Perhaps take a timeout from men for a bit and tend to the baby?

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How did I know you would switch it as if you ain't been getting funny with me then. I do look after my baby are you mad? She sleeps through the night she's not difficult I have time on my hands ATM until January

Yeh he's a Scorpio doesn't that say it all? We are on good terms he helped me with my ID. An I really didn't realise his age. when I was younger I wasent really botherd Iv had a messy life. And what I choose to do on my nights off is up to me it's not affecting me being a mum.

You make it sound sound like he's a nasty person keeping me from my baby which is not the case it's the way your wording it. I had a choice to go out or stay in with him and I stayed with him. I don't often get a break.

I don't want a boring life I not exactly want what Iv had but I will never be someone to sit at home and do nothing and I am always on the look for a potential love interest

Posted by clownloyal
this thread got wild, but if you're 18 and he's 30 you are nothing more but an ego boost to the man

OMG thank you. This is all I wanted to know.

No '-' They're just quiet freaks

Posted by ellesbelles
I think I am channeling P-Angel....lol

Look she answered it with out being personal hahahah so tell me had this taken up enough time of your dull day

All I wanted was opinions not a drilling from some old lady.

Posted by Baby340
All I wanted was opinions not a drilling from some old lady.

No. You want a drilling from an old man.

You know what I know non of you. Non of your shit ass opinions matter to me I will ALWAYS do what I think I just wanted other people's opinions not other people taking there shit out on me mate

I know about the age gap and I'm not taking it seriously. I wanted people's opinions not drillings lol

Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Posted by Baby340
I know about the age gap and I'm not taking it seriously. I wanted people's opinions not drillings lol

You'll get what you'll get and there is no way you can 'order a la carte!' answers here!!!

He wants your ass to cuddle because he is older and has nothing to do and you giving it to him! Of course he is interested!

And if you pay his bills he might even marry you! Go ahead!

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Posted by Baby340
I know about the age gap and I'm not taking it seriously. I wanted people's opinions not drillings lol

Okay, now don't forget to do your chores or no allowance for you. 😛

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I will tell you one thing I'm a single mum working part time I get my own money I don't have family around me for help hunny.

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

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Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

I have thought about it... Like you didn't need to be so brutal could have said it in a different way

I think the old people are just concerned. You’re young, have a young child and you’ve said you have no help. Inviting older men with young pallets into your home isn’t the most wise thing to do.

But on topic, I have social anxiety and would definitely identify as shy.

That guy sounds like a loser tho. Find someone not on the dole.

Posted by hippiecrite
I think the old people are just concerned. You’re young, have a young child and you’ve said you have no help. Inviting older men with young pallets into your home isn’t the most wise thing to do.

She wasn't there my friend looked after her for a night so I could get out omg. I'm not going to bring strange men around my fucking baby your all a joke.

Posted by hippiecrite
But on topic, I have social anxiety and would definitely identify as shy.

That guy sounds like a loser tho. Find someone not on the dole.

Yeh I get what your saying the penny had finally dropped

And I went to his as if he came to mine...

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Posted by Baby340
He's actually 30 soo in guessing that I'm just abit of fun to him?

you are 18 he's 30



no diss that's creepy

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Creepy af!!!!

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Posted by Baby340
He's actually 30 soo in guessing that I'm just abit of fun to him?

you are 18 he's 30



no diss that's creepy

Creepy af!!!!

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Well done Sherlock wanna medal.

Hey OP when I said creepy it wasn’t a diss on you but on him because he’s prying on young girls. If he has his shit together and considered you in a respectful way perhaps it wouldn’t be so creepy but since he’s an alcoholic (your words) and disorganized (disorganized and messy environment can also mean messy life in general) and unemployed he shouldn’t be engaging a young mom into his life. Like he has nothing positive to give you especially if he knows that young girls usually fall for feelings than projections of a healthy relationship.

And sad part he’s all up on you because women in his own age group know to stay away from someone who can’t contribute to their life beyond hugs and kisses.

Also I don’t think it’s fair that people are grilling you on your parenting skills since they don’t even have the details. These days it’s sonhard for parents because suddenly everybody’s an expert in ECE.

Wish you luck and from personal experience use your heart to find what you want but use your head to know how to get there.

But to answer your question caps aren’t shy they are reserved.

Posted by stillstillwater
Hey OP when I said creepy it wasn’t a diss on you but on him because he’s prying on young girls. If he has his shit together and considered you in a respectful way perhaps it wouldn’t be so creepy but since he’s an alcoholic (your words) and disorganized (disorganized and messy environment can also mean messy life in general) and unemployed he shouldn’t be engaging a young mom into his life. Like he has nothing positive to give you especially if he knows that young girls usually fall for feelings than projections of a healthy relationship.

And sad part he’s all up on you because women in his own age group know to stay away from someone who can’t contribute to their life beyond hugs and kisses.

Also I don’t think it’s fair that people are grilling you on your parenting skills since they don’t even have the details. These days it’s sonhard for parents because suddenly everybody’s an expert in ECE.

Wish you luck and from personal experience use your heart to find what you want but use your head to know how to get there.

I appreciate that I asked him earlier how old he was and we haven't spoken much since that. I was asking myself when I found out his age what's he doing with me then I don't understand. And I look after me and my baby because that's my responsibility and I'm very protective because I have no one else around... I might move on quickly but so what atleast I'm not moping around being a debby downer atleast? Or plotting my revenge haha. Thank you for this comment people should leave my baby out of it

I look back and get why people are saying but the way they were saying it and bringing my baby into it as of I'm a bad mum is just not on.

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Posted by stillstillwater
Hey OP when I said creepy it wasn’t a diss on you but on him because he’s prying on young girls. If he has his shit together and considered you in a respectful way perhaps it wouldn’t be so creepy but since he’s an alcoholic (your words) and disorganized (disorganized and messy environment can also mean messy life in general) and unemployed he shouldn’t be engaging a young mom into his life. Like he has nothing positive to give you especially if he knows that young girls usually fall for feelings than projections of a healthy relationship.

And sad part he’s all up on you because women in his own age group know to stay away from someone who can’t contribute to their life beyond hugs and kisses.

Also I don’t think it’s fair that people are grilling you on your parenting skills since they don’t even have the details. These days it’s sonhard for parents because suddenly everybody’s an expert in ECE.

Wish you luck and from personal experience use your heart to find what you want but use your head to know how to get there.

I appreciate that I asked him earlier how old he was and we haven't spoken much since that. I was asking myself when I found out his age what's he doing with me then I don't understand. And I look after me and my baby because that's my responsibility and I'm very protective because I have no one else around... I might move on quickly but so what atleast I'm not moping around being a debby downer atleast? Or plotting my revenge haha. Thank you for this comment people should leave my baby out of it

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100% you can be a great mom and have a personal life however suits you. The two don’t have to conflict like people make it out to be.

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Aww elle you riffin about the op being intimate with an older man. Big deal we all make mistakes and move on. No need to keep rubbing it in. Yeah the dude had relations with a minor but that will come back to haunt him. In the meantime, it's none of your business what she does with her life.

I don't know if Capricorns are really shy. Some of the ones I know aren't. Most are extremely outgoing and very loud and likes to talk sex and try and hook up with you like this Capricorn lady I know personally who be all up on me wanting me to be her next husband but that shit ain't happening because she's too open and loud with a big ass mouth. She likes putting on a show to me around a bunch of people and I'm not for that. I'm private and like to stay that way. And I'm already settled. I don't need nobody else.

I don't know about Capricorn men but Capricorn women on the other hand seem extrovert.

It's polite to ask her if her pms are open BEFORE you ask to see her feet.

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You old peoples must get so bored with your little no life's being patronising haha ohh well I hope my drama gave you a fun evening you boring fuckers

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Aww elle you riffin about the op being intimate with an older man. Big deal we all make mistakes and move on. No need to keep rubbing it in. Yeah the dude had relations with a minor but that will come back to haunt him. In the meantime, it's none of your business what she does with her life.

I don't know if Capricorns are really shy. Some of the ones I know aren't. Most are extremely outgoing and very loud and likes to talk sex and try and hook up with you like this Capricorn lady I know personally who be all up on me wanting me to be her next husband but that shit ain't happening because she's too open and loud with a big ass mouth. She likes putting on a show to me around a bunch of people and I'm not for that. I'm private and like to stay that way. And I'm already settled. I don't need nobody else.

I don't know about Capricorn men but Capricorn women on the other hand seem extrovert.

It's polite to ask her if her pms are open BEFORE you ask to see her feet.

You old peoples must get so bored with your little no life's being patronising haha ohh well I hope my drama gave you a fun evening you boring fuckers

Don't take it so hard. It's not an aim at you in any way shape or form. That's my infamous troll gif I throw at people when they come in for the kill.

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Look just like her you try switching it now saying it's not aimed at me the picture goes perfectly with the comment I'm not divvy. Like wev established his intentions are wrong and I feel like a dick because of it so just drop it now mate

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Aww elle you riffin about the op being intimate with an older man. Big deal we all make mistakes and move on. No need to keep rubbing it in. Yeah the dude had relations with a minor but that will come back to haunt him. In the meantime, it's none of your business what she does with her life.

I don't know if Capricorns are really shy. Some of the ones I know aren't. Most are extremely outgoing and very loud and likes to talk sex and try and hook up with you like this Capricorn lady I know personally who be all up on me wanting me to be her next husband but that shit ain't happening because she's too open and loud with a big ass mouth. She likes putting on a show to me around a bunch of people and I'm not for that. I'm private and like to stay that way. And I'm already settled. I don't need nobody else.

I don't know about Capricorn men but Capricorn women on the other hand seem extrovert.

It's polite to ask her if her pms are open BEFORE you ask to see her feet.

You old peoples must get so bored with your little no life's being patronising haha ohh well I hope my drama gave you a fun evening you boring fuckers

Don't take it so hard. It's not an aim at you in any way shape or form. That's my infamous troll gif I throw at people when they come in for the kill.

Look just like her you try switching it now saying it's not aimed at me the picture goes perfectly with the comment I'm not divvy. Like wev established his intentions are wrong and I feel like a dick because of it so just drop it now mate

What are you saying, you saying I'm with elle now and against you? Is that what I'm hearing here? Thats not even half true. Elle came at me with a stupid feet post which at first I chuckled before throwing that gif at her. That's why I did that. She responded with a stupid troll response so I reply back with my troll gif.

Dawww nevermind. If you don't like geminis humor and trolling just say.

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Obviously that old lady has done my head in and I'm in a sensitive mood taking everything to heart. I have lots of Gemini friends and they ready are the funniest of people

Like I thought you two were having a laugh about messaging me and about seeing my feet

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

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Yeah! I am fascinated by stupid people.

I am coming for more to see if maybe brick fell on your head and you had changed and realized that old unemployed alcoholic is NOT way to go?

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

Yeah! I am fascinated by stupid people.

I am coming for more to see if maybe brick fell on your head and you had changed and realized that old unemployed alcoholic is NOT way to go?

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Yes like now I have looked at the situation properly he is no good for me just need some time to realise still no excuse for bringing my baby into this and everything else

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

Yeah! I am fascinated by stupid people.

I am coming for more to see if maybe brick fell on your head and you had changed and realized that old unemployed alcoholic is NOT way to go?

Yes like now I have looked at the situation properly he is no good for me just need some time to realise still no excuse for bringing my baby into this and everything else

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Baby— Nooooooo!!!!

So you will feed one bum and one innocent child? Are you rich or...urghhhh

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

Yeah! I am fascinated by stupid people.

I am coming for more to see if maybe brick fell on your head and you had changed and realized that old unemployed alcoholic is NOT way to go?

Yes like now I have looked at the situation properly he is no good for me just need some time to realise still no excuse for bringing my baby into this and everything else

Baby— Nooooooo!!!!

So you will feed one bum and one innocent child? Are you rich or...urghhhh

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I feed me and my baby— When we went to the pub he paid for drinks. I'm definitely not rich

Posted by DeadInside
stop wasting your time with gemitati she's one of the most disgusting user on the whole dxpnet

Why's that? Because I stick up for myself against you lot? Bringing my baby into things? I'm so sorry for looking after myself must remind myself to let people talk down to me to save arguments.... LOL

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Posted by Parkourler


No offense, but you are 18 and you are dating a 30 year old unemployed potentially needy alcoholic. why?

Apparently there is no other takers...

She was just about someone else and now this...

Dxp got to filter out people by age.

Well you all know my username yet you come back for more. Clearly I'm more interesting than you are babes

Yeah! I am fascinated by stupid people.

I am coming for more to see if maybe brick fell on your head and you had changed and realized that old unemployed alcoholic is NOT way to go?

Yes like now I have looked at the situation properly he is no good for me just need some time to realise still no excuse for bringing my baby into this and everything else

Baby— Nooooooo!!!!

So you will feed one bum and one innocent child? Are you rich or...urghhhh

I feed me and my baby— When we went to the pub he paid for drinks. I'm definitely not rich

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He paid for drinks meaning he can afford to feed family? You are 18!!!

Why rushing into crap with crappy people—

🙏 Give her brains!!! Please dear God!