Cancer man, Libra woman?

Hey ya'll it's me again 🙂

Cancer guy. Let's call him Jessie. Rising in Libra. Moon in Sag. Venus in Gemini. I'm Libra girl. Rising in Sag. Moon in Aries. Venus in Leo.

Jessie and I were acquaintance's a few years ago when he worked with my ex. We went to high school together, him a few years older. Have a few mutual friends. Anyway, saw him for the first time last week in a few years. I said "hi" and he did not remember me. Apparently he did after, as he requested me on Facebook. Just the normal "what's up?" and whatnot. He asked to hang out sometime. Sure. Told me he always had a little crush on me. Well, me too buddy. I did not say that, but he's hilarious.

Anyway, I was supposed to go to this secret festival near my home town with another friend on Saturday night. I live in the boonies and the festival is similar to burning man, although it was my first time hearing of it and it's only 24 hours long. Jessie asks if we can hang on Saturday. Yes sure (and before you trolls that come out and say I should have hung with the other friend, it was another potential date but I just wanted to go to knockoff burning man). What are we going to do? I'm not sure! Until Friday night when he texts me and said he had just heard about a secret festival. Do I want to go? "F#*K yea." We went to dinner first which was just as glorious. But apparently the festival is themed differently each year and this year was Egypt. Um. I am Egyptian. Like what?

Literally a 50 foot Pharaoh with different variations of Cleopatra belly dancing around. It was AWESOME. He loved it too, and I met a lot of his friends. He was holding my hand often of putting his arm around me. We got back to my place. Watched the Dave Chapelle Show for a while, had lots of sex then went to sleep. Woke up, lots more sex then did our own thing. He wanted to hang out tonight after I got out of work at 8 and spend the night. I was looking forward to it, but kind of happy he cancelled because I felt bad him driving all the way here (45 minute drive, we both worked 11 hours, and I offered to cook dinner) but I understand he was busy tonight.

Anyway, what are Cancer men like? I know they're hilarious and I am hoping he really is as into me as I think.

He hasn't had a serious gf in about 7 years. I know cuz I asked after he asked me my dating history

Posted by Erinelda

Cancer men are great. They don't love bomb or ghost you at all.

Love bomb? And yeah like I feel comfortable that I'll hear from him and I don't feel ditched. I'm thinking if we don't hang out again tomorrow (he asked to reschedule for tomorrow from tonight) then mehh but I just feel like it's nothing to worry about

Girl, things seem fine. Get off dxp before the haters get here and try to mind fuck you in all negative ways possible.

Posted by pinkbird03

Girl, things seem fine. Get off dxp before the haters get here and try to mind fuck you in all negative ways possible.

Thank you 🙂 I wouldn't mind brushing up on my wise a $ $ skills though lol

Posted by Erinelda

Not all of us are haters, some of us just think we are funny when we're not.. thank you very much.

I thought you were! ❤️

Posted by Erinelda

Not all of us are haters, some of us just think we are funny when we're not.. thank you very much.

Excuse that dramatic emoji lmao but Kenneth is my favorite!

Posted by librak924

Posted by pinkbird03

Girl, things seem fine. Get off dxp before the haters get here and try to mind fuck you in all negative ways possible.

Thank you 🙂 I wouldn't mind brushing up on my wise a $ $ skills though lol

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Are you new to dxp? Just don’t follow anyone’s advice without completely thinking it through. Make ur own decisions. You know your situation better than anybody.

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Posted by librak924

Posted by pinkbird03

Girl, things seem fine. Get off dxp before the haters get here and try to mind fuck you in all negative ways possible.

Thank you 🙂 I wouldn't mind brushing up on my wise a $ $ skills though lol

Are you new to dxp? Just don’t follow anyone’s advice without completely thinking it through. Make ur own decisions. You know your situation better than anybody.

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Not new, I've def beat off the trolls before. Just a boring Wednesday night on I decided to hop on this

Aaaaand he ghosted me. We had a second date on Thursday night. Came over, I cooked dinner, we watched tv. Just talked before we went to sleep he said we’re not dating, but seeing where things go. He showed me pics of him as a child. Thought all was well. He had to wake up before me, I think he said “I love you” half asleep after his alarm went off. I stayed asleep. He kissed me goodbye.

Then nothing. Had a huge fam party on Saturday. Told him not sure if too soon to ask, but welcome to come. Said had another party to go to but hang out again soon.

Now, he’s huge into sports as is my family. Like my cousin literally built a td garden replica in his backyard. The party consisted of us playing sports in the backyard. I snap chatted him that. Nothing. But he kept looking at all my stories. Nothing. My aunt died yesterday on the same day as my best friend died 3 years ago. Nothing. Last night I (stupidly, drunkly) apologized for whatever and said I’m a half wit when it comes to that stuff but I had fun. Nothing.

Wtf gives? I know I’m maybe thinking too much about it but he went from 100-0 in a matter of 2 days

Also this is kinda why I came here. I know things were too good to be true he was reallyyyyyy digging me 😢

Really confused here

Posted by librak924

Also this is kinda why I came here. I know things were too good to be true he was reallyyyyyy digging me 😢

"Too good to be true." But, did he work for any of it? SMH

Posted by emeraldgem

@librak924 - "He hasn't had a serious gf in about 7 years"

And you thought you'd be the one to break the spell. See that, thar comment? Why that looks like a RED FLAG to me.

Ehhhh I kinda thought that was possible. So do you mean like “well gee no wonder no serious gf in so long?”

I changed my mind, actually. Fuck this dude. I had my vents and whatever. I worked 12 hours today and it took every molecule of my being to keep it together. Hell, I sold 2 cars. Like my best friend died 3 years ago yesterday, and my aunt died yesterday. That’s a double whammy. I told him about my aunt a few nights prior, just I’m sad but she’s been sick for a while. It was all posted on fb when she passed. He doesn’t have the courtesy to even text “condolences” after he told me all about his life, asked about my life, and told me he wants me to meet his family and stuff?

FUUCK that forget him. I’ll be back later, folks