I prefer responses from Cancer males. but Cancer women can help.

Im hoping this forum is filled with professional astrologers that can shed some light on this Cancer + Cancer thing Ive gotten myself into. Im a cancer woman dating cancer male. Known him for over 7 months. We are sort of at a rocky point in our relationship/friendship now (I don't even know what the hell we are). Long story short, he doesn't have a job, not that he's lazy, he's just finishing grad school so he's finding his place. He has a JD & MBA. He's capable, he's just finding his place as I said before. Any who, I wrote him this letter and emailed it to him. He didn't say anything about it. I did write in the letter "Im not looking for a certain reaction or response from you, I just want to tell you whats on my heart" It wasn't too lovey dovey, just more so how he influenced me in positive ways and that I like him.

He is really hot and cold. And it is pissing me the fuuuuck off. Im a cancer so i know all about the shell story. I bought this guy a tie for christmas. I didn't get anything. We were at that awkward phase where you kinda dont know if its too soon to get them something and if you do get something should it be very expensive... you get the drift. I wasn't really planning to get him crap either, it just kinda was one of those things where I wanted to see how he would respond to getting something so soon. (He took a pic wearing it and sent it to me) 🙂

So, the pic thing was kinda my confirmation to go further. Thats when I wrote the letter. He got it bc I said something to him about going days w/o calling and his response was "is this bc I didn't say anything about the letter".....Moving on along....

We are long distance right now but before we lived ten minutes away from another. We loved to watch movies together, go to the bar and watch games, I met a couple of his friends, he shared stories with me about his mom (plus right?) But..

He always seem to detach away from me, and I am sick of his shit. Well I text him and said "Why are you cold towards me, I feel ignored which makes me want to disappear on you" and he responds

MY PHONE BROKE

How the hell is your phone broke but you replied! I am over his shit. Or maybe he replied via lap top. IDK, he has been complaining about his phone acting weird, he actually had to get it repaired so maybe his story holds validity. Either way, him not being fully open with me only causes me to think he is full of craap or isn't feeling me....

What does this mean for me?

Oh I always cooked for him too! He loved my cinnamon pancakes and bacon burgers. And we've had sex. (If these points matter)