Cancer And Aries

I was reading about the Cancer sign at work today. As I was reading a woman I work with noticed my book. We started talking and she said that she is an Aries. We've always had a hardcore attraction for each other. After talking with her, she said that she would never date a Cancer. We are way too emotional. I started laughing at her and walked away. I think it would be really fun to date her. I need a good challenge. Anyone ever date an Aries?

I dated an aries before and we had fun when we were together but he had personality issues. Like for instance he's black and he would say I'm not dating black woman anymore because they always have their hand out. Then he would say he's not dating white woman anymore because his X played mind games with him and cheated on him. I'm biracial so I found it disturbing. He also had a problem with me dating other people and only wanted me to date him. I was very upfront and honest in the beginning that I wanted to date other people that I was still getting to know him. He was just weird to me. He also seemed to get jealous when I went out with my friends like he actually followed me to a club I was going to.

I like 'em. they're exciting!

I am a female Aries who happens to know a Cancer man - we are friends and that is all it will ever be. He is way tooooo emotional for me - he is threatened that I happen to have male friends and cannot understand that I can be just friends with them. He thinks that when he meets a woman and dates her...he is now in a relationship with her...there is no need to be friends first. Hmmmm....humphfapumph! I say! Needless to say, he has never been married and wonders why he cannot find a mate.

He has gone into his "crabshell" deep...very deep under the sand. I may hear from him and I may not.

Well...as they say, "Like sands through the hour glass - so are the days of our lives."

they can get obnoxious and boring after a fashion, but i get along with them as friends OK.

i have dated two aries males: the first was a horrible experience...he was soooo into himself and soooo arrogant...not for me at all. and the second was completely the opposite. he was so giving and he would do anything for me and he is a great listener and a great friend...

ha! oh yeah, we're fun alright. but best make sure you take your vitamins mister man. cause we like action. i'm an aries, recently married to a cancer. um, it can be a bit of a roller coaster. i'm childish, demanding, aggressively sexual, and i want the world and I WANT IT NOW!! but, i'm also energetic, engaging, quick witted, chatty and highly affectionate. quite frankly, i'm delightful !! i make sure i tell him i appreciate the nice things he does, and i remember to constantly praise him for how sexy and handsome and gorgeous and capable he is, and how safe he makes me feel. i let him take care of me cause he seems to need to be "of service" to me. and he looks after my health, which i simply don't. actually, i've really ticked him off with some cavalier comments on this subject. whew. cancer men are nurturers, yeah? i let him think he's in charge at home, but fuss over him when he's sick. and i cook for him, and keep the house pretty clean. we have differences about how casual i am with the animals and how i get bored easy and need lot's of variety with things that he likes to have done with routine and protocol. so, if ya wanna fall for an aries gal, let her boss you around a little but NEVER act like a victim (!), try not to smother her, control the jealousy, do NOT fawn over her or tell her how much you love her until, well, until you're about to ask her to marry you. challenge her frequently, don't be too sure a thing, and give her lot's of strenuous sex. keep in mind that an aries woman is always looking for a man just strong enough to tame her a little, without dominating her completely. my guy will try that, and i'll whirl around and let him have it. then he just laughs with delight. silly man.

This is funny, redhedgurl, your posts are hilarious...LOL.

I did notice that Aries and Cancer are v.often attracted to one another, and I know two very successful, long-term (over 30 years) marriages in my circles between these two.
There is definitely an attraction there, and if both people give and take, it can last.

ha. thanks for the compliment! (oh, and keep em comin'!! ha.) yes, i have always been drawn to the crabby boys. don't know why. they're all limpid gazes and deep mystery. and they have this touch of feminine energy, without compromising a bit of their masculinity that drives me wild! all man, but tender. good lord. i go out and slay dragons and burn the world up with my energy, then come home to a man that runs my bath and lights candles, and can snuggle without boredom for hours. he cooks, he cleans, he nurtures. wow. ok, he pouts, he hides sometimes, he's bossy and moody too. one wrong word from me (oh, and he sure won't tell me what it was, or forgive me quick, no matter how unintentional it was!!) and he's in the dumps for hours. moping and looking at me with "those eyes." but then he comes back out and suddenly he's wrapped around me looking for love and reassurance. i never know what's next. and i kinda like it sometimes............

LOL, you have it all worked out. Very sweet too "can snuggle without boredom for hours", I am the same. Some people may find that rather cloying, I must admit.
You could be writing astrology books, very well described Cancers...that's exactly what they are like.

oh my. the men are just as needy. a bit clingy when they feel insecure or notice another man scoping their woman. they have no problem getting all cuddly in front of their male friends either. yes, my guy was a challenge. and the male cancers have some of the feminine energy, while staying very male. it's unusual. the trust and safe thing. oh yeah. that's the major feeling entering a relationship with a cancer engenders. my guy makes no bones about the fact that it's his job to take care of me. not cause it's what i want, but cause it's what HE needs. it seems to feed some part of him. cancers are this odd mix of allure and irritation. it takes patience and work and there will be feuds, but it can be magic too.