Aries Women Vs. Cancer Women

Actually, it doesn'tsound anything like a Cancer. Cancer's usually don't go out of their way to insult someone...really, they don't. It seems like sheis just a miserable bitch who hates herself.....Tell her "don't be mad at me...be mad atcha seeelllllffff."

Yah...thanks! I know..I was comparing her personality traits to my Cancer girlfriends..and there was no match. I guess she's just a pain in the butt! 😉

If you are an Aries girl you really don't have much to worry about, not many girls who are as hot as the ram! You happy extroverts are fantastic.

Well, I had two experiences with cancer females -- HOWEVER THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT ALL WERE LIKE THIS 🙂 SO PLEASE CANCER WOMEN DON'T FLAME ME 🙂 Anywho, one was the rudiest women I've ever met along with being slutty (not saying anything's wrong with sluts, it's just the behavior). The other was ver superficial ... she honestly thought her "stuff didn't stink" ... no joke and she enjoyed making other women feel inferior. Both of them hated being wrong about anything and if you made a mistake ... they didn't mind humiliating you one-on-one or in the public. In high school, the "mean girls" that I have encountered were also sagitt, leos some taurus and cancers. I was always cool with most aries women, if I ever had a problem I just walked away from them ... AriesBeauty4-19, I can totally understand what your frustration ... it seems that she annoys you on purpose and then pretends that she has said and has done nothing, right?

Yep. right on...it's funny how she even pretends like she's totally forgotten the whole thing too. Errrgh...whatever though...
I guess being considerate all the time..is what causes her to step all over me.
No more being MS. NICE....from now on..whatever she tries to say or do to offend me..i'm gonna SNAP..*growls*

Wow, I cannot believe that bitch! She is obviousssly jelous of you... I can tell by her sitting on YOUR mans lap... and because I've experienced that too, but instead she was my 'friend' I don't think I would have been bothered by anything else she's said (probably enjoyed it actually 🙂) I wouldn't have bothered with anything else she said BUT sitting on my guys lap would have had serious consequences! No, actually I would have just pushed her like a rag and given her a 'you're worthless and pathetic' look and sat on his lap myself... attacked her if she as much as 'peeped' at me lol

Don't let her step on you, piss her off! Be the merrier around her 🙂 Never give her a hint that she gets to you, think that she's pathetic and act accordingly... maybe openly ignoring her, looking through her or sending some sarcastic but hurtful comments her way (but nicely as if you didn't mean to be hurtful) and walk away, have fun with it! Make her MISERABLE lol Then you can attack her if she becomes too direct.

What is up with catty women like her? I hate them.

lol..thanks tauruschic..for the overwhelming advice. You made me feel sooooo sooo much better! *muah*
Yeah..I was just thinking..."ATTACK!!" like the army in Troy. (you know when all the men came running to attack.) lol haha but yah, it sounds more better the way you said it. Sneak up and attack like ummm.. hmmgh let me think..oh yah like...The movie Lion King where Nala sneaks up on Pumba. lol.. ;p hehe yah...whatever I just said. 😉

Cancers... it takes one to know (understand) one.. and to get back at one! 😄

She's frustrated, that's obvious. Why— Don't even bother to find out! 'Nough time wasted... The only thing she wants is to sting you time after time after time. It's one way a cancer will try to bring you down. And they do it in such ways, other people might not even believe you, 'cause they feel that she's so nice (nothing wrong with her right?). She enjoys the way she can bring you out of balance!

Now, if I were you... and you had her in private (cause otherwise people will think YOU are the bad person), please... DO EXPLODE!!! And don't mind if things get nasty! Let the beast go!! Things bothering you? Spit them out. Cause if there's one thing cancers can't handle it's direct negative emotions, it scares them and they hate loosing control of situations. Sometimes they just don't realise how bitchy they are being!! So confronting her might open her eyes and, she might even feel verrrrry ashamed. Ooow, and don't feel bad if she starts crying, unless she's willing to give in completely 😉

There, my secrets revealed! Gr?ties and success!!

Wow...

You got ahold of a bad one there...although I hate to be wrong too! 🙂

Believe you me, if you go off on her...she will probably shrink into a corner and cry...acting like she did nothing to you and wondering why you are so mean to her. LOL

DO IT!

lol...Wow! Thanks...I normally don't like to hurt people's feelings...but yes!! in HER case....her little words did not bring me down...she's just trying to flame me up. But she's more like a mosquito bite..it just BUGGS! lol..but yeah..thanks everyone for the advices. *smiles*

"Cause if there's one thing cancers can't handle it's direct negative emotions"

- Very very true! Hey that's no secret lol I just thought playing along a little might turn out fun hee hee 😛

And if she cries, point and laugh lol Although she sounds like the type of person that will wipe her tears away, laugh, be a bitch and maybe attack you if you're too direct and she's given up trying to manipulate you lol Now as much as I like crabbies (don't attack me with your pincers!) they can be manipulative and do a damn good job (if you let them) of turning things around on you, attempting to make you feel guilty. But in my opinion this crab knows exactly what she's doing *tc whispers 'they allll do h a h a h a'

But she does sound like an unusual crab... I was thinking that she was a bit aggressive in her ATTEMPTS at making ppl miserable but now I'm thinking she's dumb for a water sign. She was left uncovered! ah ha ha ha Well yeah, it's obvious even to others about what a bitch she is... wHiLe she tries to act nice, tsk tsk what a dumb combo. People like that are the easiest to attack btw. I had a friend like that and once I started finding things out through ppl, I'd clear them up and found out that they too thought she was a hypocrite... easy bait, you can say whatever and they'll believe YOU!

I should add that I'm still no shit-talker and didn't talk her down. Said what was true and kept it to a minimum, people know who I am and they can see what SHE is. Wasn't gonna give her importance by talking about her. As far as things between us went I played along for a little 😛 Then I cut her off completely... We were supposed to go to a 'big' party we'd been waiting for and we'd gone shopping for clothes and I psyched her out, lets wear this and that, it's gonna be so much fun, so and so will be there! etc. etc.... I'll pick you up laterrrr 😛 AH HA HA HA HA ha ha ha ha

It's very unlike me to be stupid like that but I had talked to her before and she was just full of bullshit. Later I heard she missed me and she had realized what a good friend I was... boo hoo.

lol... :p
Wow...that's sooooo freaken true though..that night she was being the most biggest vagina! she not only sat on my man's lap, she was all over her boyfriend's other friend as well...she even went to the bathroom with him..
that was one of the reasons WHY I didn't EXPLODE..cause I'd rather let the ppl there at my birthday party SEE her for WHAT SHE IS..rather then...POINTING it out...so yah.. but then again..I feel a bit wishy washy...I'd just rather get to the damn point and tell her I don't like her..then rather playing her stupid games..and hurting her little by little...when I can just END her world of being such an infected nipple! 🙂 lol....*evil laughs* muahahahahah

does someone have a problem? i think you need to work on enemies, too high profile. if you must get back at some one (I mean this, scorpio's are the most vindictive, unfortunatley) you must enter the world of dark secrets rather than a silly rumor point and laugh kind of thing.

What? Sorry..I didn't catch what you were trying to explain here...secretive? and then ..silly rumor point out and laugh kinda thing? I don't see why being secretive has anything to do with getting back at someone..

well, you see. secrets are meant for keeping to ones self, for a good purpose. When you know the secret you have power and that is the greatest of weapons. as well as knowledge. Once you aquire the secret you can use it to help yourself understand them, some call it profiling. When you know the secret you know them and then you will know what hurts them the most. Thats when you go for the kill.
Its the sneaky way to get to your enemies.

also, forgot...

reveal the secret near her enemies. That is double the effect but could get you murdered...heh, but you sound like a person who gets along with others so they'll forgive you im sure =)

lol..okay..thanks for the tip..but I have my own method of striking!
and i'm not quite sure who you are talking to...or do you even know what this whole topic was about.
And FYI, I do get along well with others...I'm not sure who I will go to forgiveness? Because I believe I didn't do anybody any wrong..so why should I? But in your case..i'll forgive you..if you even knew what this topic was about..because to me, it does not sound like we are on the same page. I couldn't make out who you were referring to..
"When you know the secret you know them and then you will know what hurts them the most. Thats when you go for the kill.
Its the sneaky way to get to your enemies."
This sounded like it was to me.....

"reveal the secret near her enemies. That is double the effect but could get you murdered...heh, but you sound like a person who gets along with others so they'll forgive you im sure =)"
Okay..and then comes this one...so... umm...okay??!

yes it was to you and what the hell did I do wrong that needed forgiveness.

You need to get your words straight...go and REread your sentences. Makes no sense. Guess you were keeping it a secret, that you weren't sure who you were making your sentences out to. First, it sounds like it was to me...then the next sentence comes along...and it sounds like you were making it to another person...pah! loser....

you were talking about some chic you hated above. and i was helping you to get back at her, my god, all i did and i get this? you must be retarded, Aries.
was that clear enough? do you know now i am talking to you? your foolish to make an enemy out of me.

"the next sentence comes along...and it sounds like you were making it to another person" -ariesbeauty419-

If you truly thought I wasnt talking to you then you would not have replied everything was to you for you and you ruined your chance, if you coulndt understand then ask for a restatement, not calling me a loser. We are through with the conversation. you should have thought things out better, ariesbeauty4-19.

Foolish? ha...
I'm glad you quoted that line above..(it's OBVIOUS) that I was asking for a restatement..What more did you need I ask? It's not like I didn't ASK you before in the previous messages..
But anyways..I do apperciate you jotting down your opinon. and NO nobody is going to get murdered..and NO nobody is retarted..and you're not a loser...it just irritated me when you didn't get what I was saying the first time..Thanks anyways.. 😉Case dismissed...

glad to see we could work things out, i suppose i have a bad side too.
sorry.

i think u r just making an issue of it. if she was an cancerian she would probably not have done all that. .But still u feel she is cancerian and coming in ur world then that is not a problem. she could just want to involve herself with u and ur party. There should be nothing wrong with u. Its her's way of socialising.Also she doesnot want to hurt urself in any way , thats for a cancer, for sure.Actually there is a physical attraction between aries people and the cancers. I think u r quite mature and can understand that.

cancerboy18,
How in the world can you call a person like that having "FUN" or let me say.."trying to include herself into my party"?
By sitting on my man's lap..and going into restrooms with other of HER boyfriend's friends?? you call that having "FUN"...think again!! I don't think so! that should have came naturally and strike anyone in the head by now!(HINT: IT'S WRONG TO SIT ON A GUY WHO IS TAKEN..AND UMM..IS YOUR BF'S BEST FRIEND??) DUHHHHHH...
On a serious note though... that is no way of "socializing.." i think it's more called.."HOE-ing" around.. 😉

On the other hand, I have many Cancerian girlfriends...and they are nothing like her..