A Aries and Cancer Relationship . . .
A Aries and Cancer Relationship . . .
Understanding the Aries and Cancer Relationship
An Aries and Cancer relationship involves balancing Aries' assertiveness with Cancer's emotional depth. Compatibility depends on mutual understanding, with Aries providing energy and Cancer offering nurturing. While challenges may arise from differences in communication styles, their connection can be strong with effort and patience.
*little crab comes wobbling by and point at Aries* "Heeeeeey!!! What is the matter with you folks?? We're superduper people and yet you don't wanna mix with us 😢 I mean, WE LIKE YOU GUYS but it seems like you don't want to get to know us completely! And yes there are clingy crabs, but there are a lot of cool ones tooooo!!!! ..." *sigh*
*the ram looks down at the little crabby, can't quite make something out of it, but gets really annoyed by the creature.......... Ram puts his foot on it and covers it with sand. There there all cleared*
-> LOL!!!!!!
*the ram looks down at the little crabby, can't quite make something out of it, but gets really annoyed by the creature.......... Ram puts his foot on it and covers it with sand. There there all cleared*
-> LOL!!!!!!
Lol, but I've known this Aries for years amd it was said that Aries get bored quick with Cancers.
*the ram looks down at the little crabby, can't quite make something out of it, but gets really annoyed by the creature.......... Ram puts his foot on it and covers it with sand. There there all cleared*
i never put my foot on a crab, i like crabs, their lovely :-)
i never put my foot on a crab, i like crabs, their lovely :-)
*they're*
aprilbaby, that's what i think, we, the sensitive ariens, are the victims, but no crab ever notices it lol.
i guess it has something to do with dysfunctional communication 😉
i guess it has something to do with dysfunctional communication 😉
oh, and i like my crabs with soy sauce
*little crabby is sitting on the sand again, comfortable in the sun*
Hey Honey bunnies,
my niece is my age, she an aries (the only female aries I know besides my cat 😉) and when I watch her from a distance, I'm amused. She just can't help it, but she's so SOOOOOOO unbelievably wonderful. I see her butting her head, getting hurt and disillusioned (I sometimes think she does it only to amuse me 🙂 so we can both laugh about it afterwards), but she won't let her head down, she gets up and smiles at the world!!!
The thing is that cancers sometimes know that things will blow up in their (aries) faces and they would advice them to act more cautiously. Of course that seems a bit pedantic and arrogant. At the same time it whipes away the enthousiasm of the ram and it extinguishes their fire. But Aries will go on no matter what cancer (or anyone else for that matter) tells them to do 🙂 I know a lot of aries-boys too, and I let them be as much aries as they can be, and if they need advice I'll give it to them. But I will never try to prevent them from being who they are, incredible creature, and I think we can learn a great deal about them!
Hey Honey bunnies,
my niece is my age, she an aries (the only female aries I know besides my cat 😉) and when I watch her from a distance, I'm amused. She just can't help it, but she's so SOOOOOOO unbelievably wonderful. I see her butting her head, getting hurt and disillusioned (I sometimes think she does it only to amuse me 🙂 so we can both laugh about it afterwards), but she won't let her head down, she gets up and smiles at the world!!!
The thing is that cancers sometimes know that things will blow up in their (aries) faces and they would advice them to act more cautiously. Of course that seems a bit pedantic and arrogant. At the same time it whipes away the enthousiasm of the ram and it extinguishes their fire. But Aries will go on no matter what cancer (or anyone else for that matter) tells them to do 🙂 I know a lot of aries-boys too, and I let them be as much aries as they can be, and if they need advice I'll give it to them. But I will never try to prevent them from being who they are, incredible creature, and I think we can learn a great deal about them!
*she'ssss
*advissssse
*creaturessssss
my god, the mi-sssss-takes I make!! 😄
*advissssse
*creaturessssss
my god, the mi-sssss-takes I make!! 😄
Well I like Aries people very much...They have a lot of qualities that I admire.
"Cancimini, you may be the first Cancer I know (or water sign for that matter with the exception of may be Pisces) that seems to accept and be open to the differences of us Aries."
and she scoooooooores!! 😉 j/k
every single person had his flaws and strenghts. If people could accept that, they'd be much happier I think (but hey.. who am I? :-p )
and she scoooooooores!! 😉 j/k
every single person had his flaws and strenghts. If people could accept that, they'd be much happier I think (but hey.. who am I? :-p )
Hey all folks out there!
I gotta hand it to the both of you (Rams and Crabs)- knowing your flaws is half the battle, and to actually admit them is another quarter of it...I wonder if it is possible to be so aware of them that you can curb them when they arise? Is this victory? Or even possible? I have struggled with my weary ways time after time, and while I resent certain aspects of my innate personality (ie. being outrageously shy - which like you say, in turn seems cold and aloof to others...wallowing in my moods without attempting to verbalize the problem with others, etc.)I sometimes feel that this is what makes me me, as much as I would like to change it. I know quite a few Aries (my older sister, my closetst friend's fiance, a fellow my younger sister is dating) and I can tell you that something just really don't wanna mix between the Cancer and the Aries. It just hasn't worked in my experience. I think it's because Cardinal signs are in constant power struggles with each other. How do you guys feel about that?
I gotta hand it to the both of you (Rams and Crabs)- knowing your flaws is half the battle, and to actually admit them is another quarter of it...I wonder if it is possible to be so aware of them that you can curb them when they arise? Is this victory? Or even possible? I have struggled with my weary ways time after time, and while I resent certain aspects of my innate personality (ie. being outrageously shy - which like you say, in turn seems cold and aloof to others...wallowing in my moods without attempting to verbalize the problem with others, etc.)I sometimes feel that this is what makes me me, as much as I would like to change it. I know quite a few Aries (my older sister, my closetst friend's fiance, a fellow my younger sister is dating) and I can tell you that something just really don't wanna mix between the Cancer and the Aries. It just hasn't worked in my experience. I think it's because Cardinal signs are in constant power struggles with each other. How do you guys feel about that?
YOU CARDINAL, YOUR PARTNER CARDINAL
You are someone who always has to win. Your partner is someone who will always refuse to lose. Some astrologers argue that yours is the most unlikely match in the zodiac. I suspect they may be missing the point.
You need someone who will always keep you on your toes. That's precisely what you have got here. The two of you will never see eye to eye for more than a nanosecond. And that's precisely why you'll always keep wanting to look into one another's eyes.
Yes you'll argue. Wildly. Ridiculously. But never for long. Or at least, never for long about the same thing. You'll find something new to fall out about every day. And that will keep the relationship gloriously fresh. It will also ensure that your mattress requires regular replacement. But better a broken spring than a broken heart. And the happy truth about this particular planetary pairing is that, if the two of you ever manage to stop trying to outdo each other long enough to form a partnership in the first place, you will probably manage to make it last forever.
There are of course, more factors than this to consider before we can declare you an ideal couple. But you have passed the first test.
You are someone who always has to win. Your partner is someone who will always refuse to lose. Some astrologers argue that yours is the most unlikely match in the zodiac. I suspect they may be missing the point.
You need someone who will always keep you on your toes. That's precisely what you have got here. The two of you will never see eye to eye for more than a nanosecond. And that's precisely why you'll always keep wanting to look into one another's eyes.
Yes you'll argue. Wildly. Ridiculously. But never for long. Or at least, never for long about the same thing. You'll find something new to fall out about every day. And that will keep the relationship gloriously fresh. It will also ensure that your mattress requires regular replacement. But better a broken spring than a broken heart. And the happy truth about this particular planetary pairing is that, if the two of you ever manage to stop trying to outdo each other long enough to form a partnership in the first place, you will probably manage to make it last forever.
There are of course, more factors than this to consider before we can declare you an ideal couple. But you have passed the first test.
I guess it depends. The Aries man I am seeing now is someone I've known for 6 years. Even though we only dated for about a year, we still very much love eachother and we're currently just seeing what happens. There are times where we get into fights (mainly because of me, being the emotional one) but we compromise and get over it. There are times when I'll piss him off and he won't speak to me, and there are times where he doesn't want to be bothered with me period. There are times where he'll say the wrong things at the wrong time, says things in a jokingly manner (But i take everything almost seriously) and times where he doesn't like my mood swings. But all in all, we know what we want from eachother and we're happy. I think an Aries and Cancer relationship can work if you two REALLY work at it.
*Pinches you with my claw*
I hope you learned your lesson 🙂
out of all the aries i've met, i can honestly say that i either love or hate them. one of the most insightful, passionate and kind guys i know is an aries, while another aries guy i know is selfish, destructive, manipulative and just a plain $ #@!. it may depend on their other aspects like moon etc, or just life experiences in general.
the aries women i know are very intelligent, strong, hot-headed, free-spirited which = sexy to this scorp. =].
the aries women i know are very intelligent, strong, hot-headed, free-spirited which = sexy to this scorp. =].
Who's "booooo stay away"? lol 🙂
not a good idea. a mess, really. emotional mess.
Does anybody have some crab rangoon?
Let's put it this way: anyone would like eating "crab" better than living with one of us :+p
In my experience, it just doesn't work.
No can do for this Freebird - what I have found is that they have a bit of a difficult time just "letting go" and having fun or "letting go" of anything for that matter.
Message posted by: cancimini on 6/13/2006 11:47:25 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.234
"*little crab comes wobbling by and point at Aries* "Heeeeeey!!! What is the matter with you folks?? We're superduper people and yet you don't wanna mix with us I mean, WE LIKE YOU GUYS but it seems like you don't want to get to know us completely! And yes there are clingy crabs, but there are a lot of cool ones tooooo!!!! ..." *sigh*
*the ram looks down at the little crabby, can't quite make something out of it, but gets really annoyed by the creature.......... Ram puts his foot on it and covers it with sand. There there all cleared*
-> LOL!!!!!!
"*little crab comes wobbling by and point at Aries* "Heeeeeey!!! What is the matter with you folks?? We're superduper people and yet you don't wanna mix with us I mean, WE LIKE YOU GUYS but it seems like you don't want to get to know us completely! And yes there are clingy crabs, but there are a lot of cool ones tooooo!!!! ..." *sigh*
*the ram looks down at the little crabby, can't quite make something out of it, but gets really annoyed by the creature.......... Ram puts his foot on it and covers it with sand. There there all cleared*
-> LOL!!!!!!
YOU DIG ME!
hehe
hehe
According to this board almost EVERYONE seems to be having troubles with their aries amour - keep this in mind:
In a sign noted for independence it is often difficult to tie an Aries down.
If you have trouble getting your Aries partner to settle down, learn how to sing "If you love someone, set them free", because chances are you are always going to have to give them some space of their own.
This sign does not like to be stifled.
-🙂
In a sign noted for independence it is often difficult to tie an Aries down.
If you have trouble getting your Aries partner to settle down, learn how to sing "If you love someone, set them free", because chances are you are always going to have to give them some space of their own.
This sign does not like to be stifled.
-🙂
I have been attracted to a couple Cancers so far.
I think aries-men are attractive, and I'm not afraid to honour them.. but it would be nice to hear an aries say something nice about a cancer.
BUT I have to admit... the cancers I know are SO TYPICALLY cancer and still quite different from me (cancer-gemini). And yes, they are tiring sometimes as in .. if you don't shut the f*** up now, I'm gonna throw your sad ass out the door!!!!
Even Linda Goodman didn't have much to say about the pairing of aries and cancer. She makes it look a bit like cancers are all about family and money. Well, I'm not..
She's a good writer but I never liked reading about cancer and aries. It was a dull story, while cancer is in fact very sexy, intense, devoted and playful. Well, I am.. 😛
BUT I have to admit... the cancers I know are SO TYPICALLY cancer and still quite different from me (cancer-gemini). And yes, they are tiring sometimes as in .. if you don't shut the f*** up now, I'm gonna throw your sad ass out the door!!!!
Even Linda Goodman didn't have much to say about the pairing of aries and cancer. She makes it look a bit like cancers are all about family and money. Well, I'm not..
She's a good writer but I never liked reading about cancer and aries. It was a dull story, while cancer is in fact very sexy, intense, devoted and playful. Well, I am.. 😛
thx 😉
Message posted by: cancimini on 2/24/2007 2:09:23 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.232
"I think aries-men are attractive, and I'm not afraid to honour them.. but it would be nice to hear an aries say something nice about a cancer."
One of the cooler people I know is a Cancer.
"BUT I have to admit... the cancers I know are SO TYPICALLY cancer and still quite different from me (cancer-gemini). And yes, they are tiring sometimes as in .. if you don't shut the f*** up now, I'm gonna throw your sad ass out the door!!!!"
Incidentally, if you upset said Cancer, he doesn't shut the fuck up for a while either.
"I think aries-men are attractive, and I'm not afraid to honour them.. but it would be nice to hear an aries say something nice about a cancer."
One of the cooler people I know is a Cancer.
"BUT I have to admit... the cancers I know are SO TYPICALLY cancer and still quite different from me (cancer-gemini). And yes, they are tiring sometimes as in .. if you don't shut the f*** up now, I'm gonna throw your sad ass out the door!!!!"
Incidentally, if you upset said Cancer, he doesn't shut the fuck up for a while either.
I went on a trip with a cancer, a leo (best friend), a pisces and a taurus a while ago. Cancer-girl was a bit homesick I guess and it was drama all over the place. We all had a burn-out afterwards..
i'm cancer and he's aries and i swear we always fight - it's so passionate tho
this is from THE NOTEBOOK:
"they didn't agree on much. in fact, they rarely agreed on anything. they fought all the time & they challenged each other everyday.but inspite their differences, they had one important thing in common - they were crazy about each other"
thats me and my bf right there!! -in the end it always ends up being that we love each other so much we're afraid to lose the other - but i think i'm more able to handle the challenges - i love it - i love the passion- still tho doesn't mean it'll all work out -lately i've been thinkin bout things and his ex still seems to have an effect on him - si i think he lied to me bout being over her- so now there is "real" trouble in paradise- oh well I expect the worse but i hope for the best.
why can't he jus be upfront? sorry to stray jus frustrated
this is from THE NOTEBOOK:
"they didn't agree on much. in fact, they rarely agreed on anything. they fought all the time & they challenged each other everyday.but inspite their differences, they had one important thing in common - they were crazy about each other"
thats me and my bf right there!! -in the end it always ends up being that we love each other so much we're afraid to lose the other - but i think i'm more able to handle the challenges - i love it - i love the passion- still tho doesn't mean it'll all work out -lately i've been thinkin bout things and his ex still seems to have an effect on him - si i think he lied to me bout being over her- so now there is "real" trouble in paradise- oh well I expect the worse but i hope for the best.
why can't he jus be upfront? sorry to stray jus frustrated
I apologize for not saying something nice about a Cancer. They are beautiful people. They have deep sensitive emotions. They are giving and loving and affectionate.
That's all I got for now.
That's all I got for now.
My guess is that he was very surprised to discover that I'was not what he thought I would be.. and that he actually could be interested in me.
I am a very enthousiastic creature and fun to be with (if I may say so myself 😛 ), but I'm not very open to an interested aries that starts diggin in my emotional life.. 😄
I think he was a bit disappointed to find out that I didn't give in somehow, which caused him to lie..
Hey, every sign is allowed some selfprotection!
It's been a while since I've seen him, but I don't feel like playing games anymore. I've come to appreciate honesty a great deal and I've said it before.. he's a wonderful person, so when I see him next time, I hope we can have a decent conversation.
Thank you for your advice solitas (and others 😉), it was really helpful!
Message posted by: cancer12 on 2/28/2007 4:00:49 PM
this is from THE NOTEBOOK:
"they didn't agree on much. in fact, they rarely agreed on anything. they fought all the time & they challenged each other everyday.but inspite their differences, they had one important thing in common - they were crazy about each other"
thats me and my bf right there!!
--> You know.. this is funny, when I saw that movie.. I thought the exact same thing, cancer12. No kidding 🙂
I am a very enthousiastic creature and fun to be with (if I may say so myself 😛 ), but I'm not very open to an interested aries that starts diggin in my emotional life.. 😄
I think he was a bit disappointed to find out that I didn't give in somehow, which caused him to lie..
Hey, every sign is allowed some selfprotection!
It's been a while since I've seen him, but I don't feel like playing games anymore. I've come to appreciate honesty a great deal and I've said it before.. he's a wonderful person, so when I see him next time, I hope we can have a decent conversation.
Thank you for your advice solitas (and others 😉), it was really helpful!
Message posted by: cancer12 on 2/28/2007 4:00:49 PM
this is from THE NOTEBOOK:
"they didn't agree on much. in fact, they rarely agreed on anything. they fought all the time & they challenged each other everyday.but inspite their differences, they had one important thing in common - they were crazy about each other"
thats me and my bf right there!!
--> You know.. this is funny, when I saw that movie.. I thought the exact same thing, cancer12. No kidding 🙂
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