Cancer/Cancer love hate endless headache

After 3 years FWB told me he loves me...Ive wanted to hear him say those words for so long and now that he did...I Dont feel any different. This is the same crazy cancer who didn't think a relationship would work,asked for a baby and runs into hiding every few months...

I'm thinking I may should just go with the flow..I tried to meet other guys and those plans would fail.. He keeps coming back...mabey this is as good as it's gonna get ...idk I'm out of ideas ...any advice?

I would tell him to be clear on what he wants from me and how he plans not to hurt me like he did previously.

It sounds like he's afraid or possibly doesn't fully understand what he wants

I feel guilty because all of his past incidents caused me to feel less for him...I don't even reach out for him when he disappears anymore... I just know he'll be back. Lately he really has been tryna behave like a normal person and I really appreciate it but after everything.. Its like yay u finally decided not to be a dick ‘

I feel like I ran out of love for him...n I see him trying really hard and I feel so guilty for not really caring anymore.. When he said I love you..I just kissed him cause I couldn't say it back...I'm wondering if its because I've developed a small crush on someone else or am I just tired of his crap n now that he finally sees me as someone worth taking serious it seems like bullshit...sorry to ramble on but my head is fukin spinning©

It seems difficult and I totally understand how you are feeling and why you are feeling the way you do. So he has been running into hiding for a long time at a time, this whole period? Just like that?

Posted by Leo123_
It seems difficult and I totally understand how you are feeling and why you are feeling the way you do. So he has been running into hiding for a long time at a time, this whole period? Just like that?

No he start a cheesy fight to have a reason to give me the silent treatment for a few weeks only to come back being more attached to me happened like 4 times now...last two times I attempted to move on ..

And if u ever see his big pitiful eyes lol '

Wait no the first time was a...year¶...then the second time like a month or two... The last two times were like two weeks or so....we met 2013

This is terrible... Why do guys do this?

I hope you find happiness.

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