Cancer female calling me (aquarius) cold?

For whoever remembers my other thread I'm the guy who was in the 10 month relationship with a cancer.

Fast forward to the past few days, one day she's "baby" "I love you" "I miss you" "You're the only one my heart beats for."

Then the next the two days, it's one word short dry texts, pretty much no emotion.

Last night I just got sick and tired of it and asked her to tell me what she wants to do, all she tells me is that "The feelings come and go, it's just not like before" "It's just not there anymore"... I kindly asked her to stop skipping around and just come straight out with what you wanna say, she says "my heart says your name" but my mind is telling me differently, I just can't force the feelings to be there..

I told her off nicely that I'm done stressing myself out praying and stuff for US to somehow workout, and I'm taking my hands of the wheel of this car(relationship).

I texted her saying "I've been forcing myself back onto you, trying to push my way back in but I'll be done with that cause all it's doing is hurting me"

Her response "Oh..I see. I'm sorry you feel that way"

My response "It's cool. I'll keep my distance"..

Her response now is "Why are you being cold?"


THIS CHICK IS DRIVING ME NUTS! HOW AM I BEING COLD LOL?!?! YOU'RE THE ONE THATS BEEN COLD TO ME FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW.. Idk what else to say to her lmaooo.

If you really are serious about getting her back, Remaining consistent in spite of her inconsistency is your best bet. It might not seem right or fair, but it is what it is.

I'm not taking either side or saying either of you should tolerate sub par treatment though.

Posted by Andalusia
If you really are serious about getting her back, Remaining consistent in spite of her inconsistency is your best bet. It might not seem right or fair, but it is what it is.

I'm not taking either side or saying either of you should tolerate sub par treatment though.

I understand exactly what you're saying and I've been consistent but noticing her deleting stuff about us off her timeline it sucks to see and just puts me in this negative place where I'm like it's time to give up. Never been so confused in my life haha.

What was your response when she said you were the only one her heart beats for?

Posted by LunarMaiden
What was your response when she said you were the only one her heart beats for?

Pretty much told her that it makes me happy and reassuring that we have a future since It still beats for me. Told her she's the only one and will be the only one mine will ever beat for.