Tete
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Cancer guy and gemini girl
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During that second date he didn't make any move on me, none, we just talked and talked and talked.... no kissing, nothing, which made me feel very good. He said that i wasn't only a pretty body and face, but that i was a woman with lots in my head and that if everyone thought about life like i do things would be different.
He was tired and had to be up early the next day so we called it a night. He walked me to my car, mentioned something about my body and kissed me good night.
I texted him that i was home safe, he apologized cause he was tired, i wished him a nice travel and that was it.
So i wonder what is up with him? and i would love to hear from him again, do you think he would reach me when he is back?
During that second date he didn't make any move on me, none, we just talked and talked and talked.... no kissing, nothing, which made me feel very good. He said that i wasn't only a pretty body and face, but that i was a woman with lots in my head and that if everyone thought about life like i do things would be different.
He was tired and had to be up early the next day so we called it a night. He walked me to my car, mentioned something about my body and kissed me good night.
I texted him that i was home safe, he apologized cause he was tired, i wished him a nice travel and that was it.
So i wonder what is up with him? and i would love to hear from him again, do you think he would reach me when he is back?
I think he genuinely likes you and wishes for more, but he's being logical about this by not wanting an LDR
Posted by aquarius09
I think he genuinely likes you and wishes for more, but he's being logical about this by not wanting an LDR
I understand that and that's one of the reasons I wasn't expecting anything else, but that second date really surprised me and it surprised me even more that he didn't even suggested sex.... I was expecting him to just tree trunk me.... And I'm so glad he didn't made me respect him and feel respected.
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your company
Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your company
Posted by Pisces15Thank you! i really hope he does, he is a very busy man too and travels a lot, and he is older than me by 7 years... and i agree with you, i dont like to be pushed neither, so ill just give it time and cross my fingers hoping he was interested and impressed enough to want to see me whenever he comes back for more work.Posted by TeteDefinitely do not push him! I am currently friendly with a Cancerian, and I have learnt from this forum in the space of 48 hours, they like space and not to be pushed into something without deep thinking into the situation. I only talk to my Cancerian when I am spoken to because I do believe that everyone should have space, not feel suffocated because I don't like it and I can imagine for the person on the receiving end, they won't like it either.Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your company
Personally, I think he'll be in touch again in the near future - just give it time 🙂click to expand
Posted by TeteDon't text him and let it be. This is long distance anyway. Given that he reached out to you again after the first date to meet up for a second meeting despite the fact that he told you that he won't be seeing you again, I'd say that he'll come see you again if he's ever in town.Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your companyclick to expand
Posted by aquarius09Thank you!Posted by TeteDon't text him and let it be. This is long distance anyway. Given that he reached out to you again after the first date to meet up for a second meeting despite the fact that he told you that he won't be seeing you again, I'd say that he'll come see you again if he's ever in town.Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your companyclick to expand
I wont text him... ill let him be, and ill hope for the best... Im happily enjoying a nice memory and the music he recommended me to listen. I hope he is listing the music i recommended to him and that he smiles whenever he remembers me 🙂
Posted by Pisces15Uhhh you should reach out every now and then with a hey. Communication does work both ways.Posted by TeteDefinitely do not push him! I am currently friendly with a Cancerian, and I have learnt from this forum in the space of 48 hours, they like space and not to be pushed into something without deep thinking into the situation. I only talk to my Cancerian when I am spoken to because I do believe that everyone should have space, not feel suffocated because I don't like it and I can imagine for the person on the receiving end, they won't like it either.Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your company
Personally, I think he'll be in touch again in the near future - just give it time 🙂click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsI agree and trust me, I'm really tempted to do so, yet as he was so clear about things I don't think it would be a good idea.... Not just yet.... If I ever get to see him again then I think it would be ok 🙂Posted by Pisces15Uhhh you should reach out every now and then with a hey. Communication does work both ways.Posted by TeteDefinitely do not push him! I am currently friendly with a Cancerian, and I have learnt from this forum in the space of 48 hours, they like space and not to be pushed into something without deep thinking into the situation. I only talk to my Cancerian when I am spoken to because I do believe that everyone should have space, not feel suffocated because I don't like it and I can imagine for the person on the receiving end, they won't like it either.Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your company
Personally, I think he'll be in touch again in the near future - just give it time 🙂click to expand
Posted by TeteHey Tete! I think he said that whole "don't expect anything from me" as a disclaimer to not expect anything in case the second date didn't go well, and like others have said we hate to feel "pushed" into a decision without time to process. That's why I hate dating, because the expectations of the other person and I'm still trying to figure things out. But anyway, since he really enjoyed your company I definitely think you will be hearing from him when he gets back :>😉 He just wants the space with out"pressure" or expectations to make his own decision on whether he will pursue you or not. And when I say feel pressured, it's exactly that...a feeling we get regardless what is said or the intention, it is just a vibe. So just keep being chill and awesome 😄Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your companyclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterThank you for your reply.... i have many other questions for you.... BUT, im really ready to not hear from him again.Posted by TeteHey Tete! I think he said that whole "don't expect anything from me" as a disclaimer to not expect anything in case the second date didn't go well, and like others have said we hate to feel "pushed" into a decision without time to process. That's why I hate dating, because the expectations of the other person and I'm still trying to figure things out. But anyway, since he really enjoyed your company I definitely think you will be hearing from him when he gets back :>😉 He just wants the space with out"pressure" or expectations to make his own decision on whether he will pursue you or not. And when I say feel pressured, it's exactly that...a feeling we get regardless what is said or the intention, it is just a vibe. So just keep being chill and awesome 😄Posted by aquarius09I like to think so, but he said before the date that he doesn't know if we would ever see each other again.... Do u know much about cancers and think he might reach me when he is back? I dunno when he would be back neither and I don't want to text him so he doesn't feel pushed :/
A fine, upstanding gentleman indeed 🙂 The second date is a result of him enjoying your companyclick to expand
Welcome, as always! This guy sounds like a friend of mine, only Sun/Venus reversed...does he have Gemini Venus? What are his placements?
Posted by MoonbutterIve no idea about his placements as i dunno his exact birth day.... i know he is a cancer because in the first date i guessed it, i told him that acording to what he had shared with me i could tell that he was either a Leo or a late cancer.... and late cancer it was!
Welcome, as always! This guy sounds like a friend of mine, only Sun/Venus reversed...does he have Gemini Venus? What are his placements?
Posted by TeteAhh ok...I'm gonna go with my gut then 😉Posted by MoonbutterIve no idea about his placements as i dunno his exact birth day.... i know he is a cancer because in the first date i guessed it, i told him that acording to what he had shared with me i could tell that he was either a Leo or a late cancer.... and late cancer it was!
Welcome, as always! This guy sounds like a friend of mine, only Sun/Venus reversed...does he have Gemini Venus? What are his placements?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI message to your inbox you a bunch of question i have roaming in my mind, hope you dont mind and have the time to reply 😄Posted by TeteAhh ok...I'm gonna go with my gut then 😉Posted by MoonbutterIve no idea about his placements as i dunno his exact birth day.... i know he is a cancer because in the first date i guessed it, i told him that acording to what he had shared with me i could tell that he was either a Leo or a late cancer.... and late cancer it was!
Welcome, as always! This guy sounds like a friend of mine, only Sun/Venus reversed...does he have Gemini Venus? What are his placements?click to expand
Posted by TeteYup, I did 🙂Posted by MoonbutterI message to your inbox you a bunch of question i have roaming in my mind, hope you dont mind and have the time to reply 😄Posted by TeteAhh ok...I'm gonna go with my gut then 😉Posted by MoonbutterIve no idea about his placements as i dunno his exact birth day.... i know he is a cancer because in the first date i guessed it, i told him that acording to what he had shared with me i could tell that he was either a Leo or a late cancer.... and late cancer it was!
Welcome, as always! This guy sounds like a friend of mine, only Sun/Venus reversed...does he have Gemini Venus? What are his placements?click to expand
Update.....
You were all right.... Cancer guy is back in town today and texted last night to make plans for the weekend :O
Please advise so i dont screw up as i usually do hahahahahahahahahaha
You were all right.... Cancer guy is back in town today and texted last night to make plans for the weekend :O
Please advise so i dont screw up as i usually do hahahahahahahahahaha
Just go with the flow honey! And don't bring Venus in Gem into this. I'd be happy if someone I was digging contacted me.
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