Cancer guy is confusing me n himself

Hi im a Libra girl.i met this cancer guy last friday night in a party.i was dancing n i realized he watched me..he is cute tho,so somehow we ended up dance together.He cudnt stop starring at me n smiing,he made me blushing..And we kissed all night..he was such a great kisser,he seemed nice n gentle..

In the end we went home to his place,he is in vacation here so he stayed in a hostel which means he shared with 3 other people.but that night his room was empty.so we slept in his bed,kissed all night but he didnt wantto have s ex so i accepted that n we slept..

Next day after i was back home i texted him n asked why did he brought me home but he didnt want to have sex with me,he said he didnt know...it doesnt matter for me.so we kept in touch untill he invited me for dinner next day i said yes n we had a very simple dinner,after dinner we decides to have some drinks somewhere.so we went to one place n had drink n chats. Was really nice

Untill time we had to go home,he said he still wanted to chill n spent times with me.but it was late..he said we cud hang out in his hostel so we went there n i dnt know why we ended up in his bed kissing n almost naked n still he didnt want to have sex.it was pretty awkward suddenly he was quite.

I asked whats wrong he said nothing it was just him thinking n he didnt feel right to have sex with me..we were supposed only have dinner but we ended up in his bed AGAIN.i told him its totally fine ,for me doesnt mater if we had sex or not but i liked to hang out with him.he said sorry for the awkward moment..so we moved outside for a while n i went back home

Since that he seemed different,the way he texted me also different,always takes longer time n no more sweet calling like Sweety,Beautiful,etc..he often read my text but didnt aswer straight away..

It makes me think probably he lost his interest in me..i didnt plan to go home to his place either for the second times it was just naturallyhappened .why is he so confusing?he makes me feel insecure..shud i feel insecure?

He seems also confused about himself he said he actually also wanted to have sex with me but there are many things in his head n he said it was not me but its him who is strange.

What i have to do now with this guy?ive ben acting cool with him..like nothing happened bcz he doesnt want to talk about those nights

He's on vacation, doubt he is looking for anything serious at this time with someone that isn't where he lives. Most cancers don't like LDR. Plus, you are already neurotically keeping scores on texting, after only a few days at the most. He doesn't owe anything to you right now, and probably wanted to hook up with you for fun. He probably has someone he views as a priority back home, and his vacation is wrapping up, so he doesn't have to pretend anymore.

You are right..i shud not worry n expect anything from tourist..

I was thinking maybe he was afraid to get a deep feeling with me if we had sex even he really wanted it so much,thats what i caught from him those nights.he was totally confused between he wanted me but he was also afraid .But he promised me next time we meet up he wud not take me to his place anymore to avoid the same situation.

Honestly im so impressed with how he cud control his action n emotions,i never met anyone like him.he got chances twice to have sex with me but somehow he didnt do it even i knew he wanted it.he is different,i think thats why i start to have feeling with him now.its scare me...

Not surprising to me that he didn't have sex. Almost all the Cancer men I know, like sex, are whores when younger, but they don't need it. They can go long periods without sex. It's really not that important to the guys I know that are Cancers.

Probably felt guilt, got someone and couldn't do it, hesitated.

I see..i understand. He wud just be here for a month and he is alone.I cud see he tried to be carefull in what he did.. I cud see he liked me alots,he admited it,i cud see he didnt want to finish the night with me after we hang out,he held my hand,starred at me deep into my eyes,he kept asking me what i wanted to do and i said maybe home,i asked him back n he was a bit shy but he said he still wanted to hang out with me..

I cud see he wanted me..but its sad we had to put it on the side. The he kissed me those nights,the way he looked into my eyes,he did that all night..he was very gentle..

He still texted me sometimes but not like before. I understand.I cud feel he tried to not showing his feelings n just be friend?

I like him so much..he is such a sweet guy..is it wrong if i miss him?i cant lie i hope he wud text me n tell he want to hang out with me again.

Last time he told me he changed his place,that makes me think maybe he was afraid if i come to his old place?oh please tell me im jus overthinking bcz im a libra

Yesssss.YOLO.LOL.

I think i took it too serious?😄

We both are young ,same age.28.

I just want to hang out more with him.possible?😁

Or he won't after the last time!

My god, crab men got the craziest fucking chicks chasing them. Lol

Dude is leaving back home. Probably has a chick waiting there. You spent like 5 seconds with the dude and your tailspinning.

Lmao

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Posted by nikkistar
My god, crab men got the craziest fucking chicks chasing them. Lol

Dude is leaving back home. Probably has a chick waiting there. You spent like 5 seconds with the dude and your tailspinning.

Lmao

K i literally went on a date ONE time with ONE cancer guy and i ran for the fuckin hills.

Dont nobody have time for their bipolar psychotic episodes.

I really dont get what all the hulabaloo is about cancer men.

Bitches be trippin.

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Lol. If I didn't understand and tolerant Cancers, I would feel the same. My s/o is one and my two bestfriends are cancer dudes as well. Theyve all told me stories and it makes me lulz cause I thought most of this shit they do would make chicks run. Then I come here and see all these threads and its like hahahhahaa 'it does'.

Thanks for being helpful.

I never text him first n i dont think i wud do that.im just wondering.im not that stupid

And i dont want any relationship as well i just want to hang out with him is that wrong?