Libra ghosts

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Azlann on Saturday, July 29, 2017 and has 10 replies.

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@Azlann
9 Years

Posted by Rozaeon
It depends, have you done something ? Or she just ghosts you out of nowhere ? Or it's a general question ?

Can you, please, give a little more background

Just a girl I dated for a month. And then she went travelling for a month

It seemed to be going well, lost a little steam just before she went away

No negative events before the trip

Just feeling if I don't initiate contact, then she won't :l

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@compy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Azlann

Posted by compy
Contact her. You are the man.

I will initiate

But feels like 'impending friend zone' territory

Definitely want to avoid that!

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Do it in a friendly way and keep your senses at bay until figuring out what's going on. We don't like pressure, but if we like someone, he will know.

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@Azlann
9 Years

Posted by Arielle83
No she'll tell everyone you're obsessed with her when really she's just rude.

Haha we don't have any mutual friends though

I can go as hard as I like

But I don't want to scare her away

Need to find the balance

Pun intended

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@amiolou
9 Years

Im a libra woman..... honestly. She sounds like shes lost interest cos your not on the same page as her or sees you only as a friend. If you want her back then you need to connect with one thing she is interested in, sex is important to us.... we need to be able to fill comfortable with a guy to say what we like so I suggest you ask her without being crude joking about, we like driven men that know what they want in life like workwise.... even if your happy being dustman etc, We can deal with shyness but communication is a must