Cappie desire

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by taurus575 on Thursday, September 7, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@taurus575
9 Years

Are Capricorns better with Libra or Taurus?

Are Capricorns the one who take it slow?

This guy met a Libra girl during a day outing and got engaged to her next month. Me, being a Taurus is just a friend to him but I think he as a secret desire for me. I can tell just the way we talk.

He already told me how much deep connection we share, better than his girl. He cannot talk about it freely as he is in a relationship.

I feel is this could be the case where he is regretting to have a Libra? I hope she is making him happy/happier than I could.

We went for a date few years ago but he was suffering out of a lost ex-gf so we did not do anything much.

But maybe he already judged that I am not a good match for him at that time? He shows ten times more interest in me now.

No physical relationship at all btw us.

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

He's made his mind. He can regret not being with you forever, but he made his choice.

I wouldn't entertain him, honestly. Caps like to do that. Commit to someone, then complain to another woman about the woman he chose. I know at least 4 Cap males that do this.

IF you have any emotional ties to him, cut them because he is going to marry her and use you to fill his voids if you are not careful.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by taurus575
He already told me how much deep connection we share, better than his girl. He cannot talk about it freely as he is in a relationship.

Your story doesn't make sense. He can't talk about it and yet he talks about it— Girl get your story straight.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by taurus575
I think he as a secret desire for me. I can tell just the way we talk.

We went for a date few years ago but he was suffering out of a lost ex-gf so we did not do anything much.

He shows ten times more interest in me now.

No physical relationship at all btw us.

Oh hun. Your on another plane of delusion here.

You can tell he has a secret desire for you in the way he talks? Wow if a dude brushes against you do you start planning the wedding??

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@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

so this is the second time he's been close with someone else but shows interest with you - post break up and now in a relationship (and jumped in quick on this one)

hmmmmmmmmmm

he isn't putting her first if he's thinking of you - and why is he thinking of you when he could have made it with you way prior

just

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by tcta
so this is the second time he's been close with someone else but shows interest with you - post break up and now in a relationship (and jumped in quick on this one)

hmmmmmmmmmm

he isn't putting her first if he's thinking of you - and why is he thinking of you when he could have made it with you way prior

just

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Take it with a grain of salt. Cause the 'interest' op speaks of is simply the dude chatting to her. She's a little delusional.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by jane84
Why do you care who is more compatible?

She wants us all to fuel her little fantasy and tell her SHE is the better choice.

Thing is he had his chance. He took her on a date and didn't want to pursue anything further. Leave the dreamland your living in op and come back down to earth with the rest of us!!

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Caps are pigs like that. No he does not fancy you. I know a cap who tried cheating on his gf with me. They love to entertain other girls on the side. Totally not trustworthy and don't fall into the trap. If you do they will go away really fast and over compensate to their current gf.

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@capricorngirl25
9 Years

Posted by taurus575
Are Capricorns better with Libra or Taurus?

Are Capricorns the one who take it slow?

This guy met a Libra girl during a day outing and got engaged to her next month. Me, being a Taurus is just a friend to him but I think he as a secret desire for me. I can tell just the way we talk.

He already told me how much deep connection we share, better than his girl. He cannot talk about it freely as he is in a relationship.

I feel is this could be the case where he is regretting to have a Libra? I hope she is making him happy/happier than I could.

We went for a date few years ago but he was suffering out of a lost ex-gf so we did not do anything much.

But maybe he already judged that I am not a good match for him at that time? He shows ten times more interest in me now.

No physical relationship at all btw us.

I am a cap girl and I have both libra and taurus best friends. I dated a taurus guy and he was incredible, he matched me in so many ways i didn't even think possible. It ended because of his age he was 25 and just too immature. But i can picture when he's 30 he would be perfect. My best guy friend is a libra and i couldnt picture dating him, he's too all over the place, not stable how i like my men. But he's a great friend and i did read that libra and cap make great friends.