Cancer ladies: Bae/Boo/Sweet-thang Questionnaire...

Cancer ladies when it comes to those that sweep you off your feet or potential suitors that you find everything just falls into place....
What do you notice about their social personality and in relation to yours?


Are you the more forward or aggressive one or do you expect them/want them to be?

Do you need a guy to show you "all the signs"
(trying to talk to you consistently, *just so happens* to be around you, smiling when they see you, etc.)
or do you not mind going up to them and judge them by their response instead of initiation?

Are you private when it comes to your relationships (what happens between you two stays between you two)
or do you not mind a guy that vents or announces updates to numerous people?

Do you like people who lean towards the more extrovert-side or the more introvert-side (ie.social butterfly vs. loner) when it comes to long-term relationships?

Are you an extrovert or more of introvert?

Are you a homebody or do you get stir crazy easy?

I like to hear about the people you were in longest relationship with, or your most fulfilling.
No bias here. Doesn't matter if your single, married, engaged to be engaged, etc.
If you're single then the pattern of the guys you find yourself continuously attracted to on more than a superficial level is interesting to me too.

I'm too old to try to figure out somebody. Extrovert all the way lol!

Yes to all of that!

Posted by Pearls
Cancer ladies when it comes to those that sweep you off your feet or potential suitors that you find everything just falls into place....
What do you notice about their social personality and in relation to yours?


Are you the more forward or aggressive one or do you expect them/want them to be?

Do you need a guy to show you "all the signs"
(trying to talk to you consistently, *just so happens* to be around you, smiling when they see you, etc.)
or do you not mind going up to them and judge them by their response instead of initiation?

Are you private when it comes to your relationships (what happens between you two stays between you two)
or do you not mind a guy that vents or announces updates to numerous people?

Do you like people who lean towards the more extrovert-side or the more introvert-side (ie.social butterfly vs. loner) when it comes to long-term relationships?

Are you an extrovert or more of introvert?

Are you a homebody or do you get stir crazy easy?

I like to hear about the people you were in longest relationship with, or your most fulfilling.
No bias here. Doesn't matter if your single, married, engaged to be engaged, etc.
If you're single then the pattern of the guys you find yourself continuously attracted to on more than a superficial level is interesting to me too.

What do you mean by "social personality"? How they behave towards me, or towards others, or.....?

I'm heavily cardinal with fixed taking second place (very little mutable), so I've found that it's usually a mix: we both end up instigating (I tend to attract and gravitate to men with lots of fixed and cardinal energy).

I don't mind a guy showing all "the signs". Takes the guess work out of it.

I'm highly private, but it also depends on the information and what's going on. Announcing an event, like a bday party, is no big deal, but private matters are.

Probably a little of both, nothing too extreme either way.

Homebody.

Longest: marriage to my Taurus ex about 15 yrs.
Consistently I'm attracted to tall men, but that's it on the superficial end. It's more about body chemistry, personality, character, etc. and less about actual looks.

I need balance. Im a homebody ao i need fornus to be homebody and be able to go out travel meet ppl. I have to be in the mood. I like extroverted ppl because i can be both depends on my mood how i feel. All my exs were extroverted and a lil crazy and me im quiet chill laid back. Its like a balance i calm them down they fire me up it keeps the excitement. I do go after what i want though if im interested in you ill do all the leading. Yes we do need attn and love. U only need to give me a little bit it goes a long way. I love strong personalities though

And im private etc

My longest fulfilling rel was with a libra though I don't catch feelings easily inrarely do and all ppl I fell head over heels for were leos, and air signs Only......what does thst mean for me? Oh and when i was younger scorpio males but never really got to kmow scorpio men like that because ive been a lesbian since 15 but all my highschool friends males are scorpios which is a power sign never met any women scorpios. But anyway yes all the ppl i feel for were leos and air signs.

@kissmygrits - LOL I wish it were that simplistic.

Posted by kissmygrits
Yes to all of that!

x ∞

@Pureserenity - Flawless post. There isn't a line you wrote that didn't ring a bell for me especially about the giving part. It made me feel good and it's how I showed affection but it made guys want to be on their worst behavior. I had to force myself to do things the "traditional" way and just receive also. Anyways like I said flawless post. Never delete your account because that post is worth remembering as a Cancer.

Posted by lovely77
I need balance. Im a homebody ao i need fornus to be homebody and be able to go out travel meet ppl. I have to be in the mood. I like extroverted ppl because i can be both depends on my mood how i feel. All my exs were extroverted and a lil crazy and me im quiet chill laid back. Its like a balance i calm them down they fire me up it keeps the excitement. I do go after what i want though if im interested in you ill do all the leading. Yes we do need attn and love. U only need to give me a little bit it goes a long way. I love strong personalities though

Do you think opposites attract? Do you think they can stay together (being a Cancer & from a Cancer's point of view of course)?

That's what I've been pondering for the most part. It seems you're more knowledgeable in this area.

@MoonArtist -
Introverted vs. Extroverted in general as a person towards everyone.
You been with guys that were open with others but closed towards you or vice versa?

@SensitiveBlues - Which guy did you feel you had the most in common with (was a fellow extrovert)
and which was the least like you?

Posted by Pearls
@MoonArtist -
Introverted vs. Extroverted in general as a person towards everyone.
You been with guys that were open with others but closed towards you or vice versa?

Got it. Usually the guys I've been with have been more introverted than me.

Yes i really really do. And all the air signs i dated strangely had alot cancer friends and exs too. But in general i feel i need someone who can get me out my shell get me out the house and out my comfort zone. If i date someone too much loke me it gets boring and i feel they dont push me to grow its too balanced. Sometimes u need imbalance to be balanced. I also feel the ppl i dated i added value to them too to help them grow we both gave to eachother. But with aries ppl i have so much in common with them its so crazy and the opposite of what astrology says about us. With my ex libra we did so much stuff together i miss it. Traveled explored they were extremely talkative and knew wlot of ppl which help me meet alot ppl and be comfortable to meet others. I cant be in my shell at home all my life and i balanced them out too its like beauty and the beast Bell calmed the beast down and they fell in love. I personally spiritually feel we attract who we are we just think they r different but trust me its something there that your soul attracted @pearls

@Lovely77 - I think I remember you saying you went with a lot of Libras or your best relationship was with a Libra?
I think that was you. Don't quote me on that though....

Anyways, You perplex me. I'm curious about your chart now.
Have a link to it posted somewhere?

Posted by candyclouds
I'm a scorpio but I think although Cancer girls can be very very crazy and date extroverted crazy people, they are better off with more introverted serious guys because deep down they are homebodies and need lots of attention.

If I were a guy I'd definitely date a cancer girl !!! they are very sexy.

This right here. I'm an introvert (and cancer). I was with a very extroverted Pisces man for many years. We were just too different and did not get each other. The introvert/extrovert presented problems many times in our relationship. I've done much better in relationships with introverts.

Yes that was me i ha e virgo moon venus taurus scorpip rising cancer mars and Mercury sat Jupiter sagittarius i think Lilith taurus asc taurus i think the earth in my chart balances me out i have 1 Capricorn some where too. Best way i can describe my personality is very understanding humble hard worker loving caring not overly emotional or sensitive but i secretly in private hold my emotions in etc i dont press or tell ppl about it. I think i can pretty much handle and get along with anyone. Im very spiritual so i dont let much negativity get to me. I say if things happen in life always find the silver lining and be positive etc. When it comes to love i fight for it and give chances because so many ppl are hurt and have walls u just never know. And er need more ppl thats going to be patient and break down walls etc lol. But give aries a chance.

Posted by lovely77
My longest fulfilling rel was with a libra though I don't catch feelings easily inrarely do and all ppl I fell head over heels for were leos, and air signs Only......what does thst mean for me? Oh and when i was younger scorpio males but never really got to kmow scorpio men like that because ive been a lesbian since 15 but all my highschool friends males are scorpios which is a power sign never met any women scorpios. But anyway yes all the ppl i feel for were leos and air signs.

What's your Venus sign?

Edit: NVM. You answered it. Lol

Lol venus taurus @ariesintrovert16

Extrovert with great looks smile & drive. 4years w/sag & 8years w/aqua. Life's too mundane w/cap & cancer hides heart to long.
I've never chased anyone nor have I ever laid my heart on the table first.