Cancer Men/Women

How many of you want each other?

I personally find cancer women hot, I was in a relationship with one for 3 years. It was good on many levels.

Been there, done that. Fellow crabs possess many of the qualities I desire in a S/O, but it's very difficult to find one that has matured already. The last person to break my heart is a Cancer. I'm done with relationships and will remain happily single henceforth.

Posted by lou.m

I think it's easier to be a cancer female than a cancer male though in society.

Why do you say this? I am a cancer Sun with a cap moon, I wouldn't say I am uncomfortable in society at all.

Posted by M00Nchild
Been there, done that. Fellow crabs possess many of the qualities I desire in a S/O, but it's very difficult to find one that has matured already. The last person to break my heart is a Cancer. I'm done with relationships and will remain happily single henceforth.

So if you did find a mature cancer, you aren't averse to it?

I understand the pain is a big backdrop to your situation, I have been through it 3 times. I generally recover and move forward.

I have a few Cancer female friends the one I talked to the most I wouldn't have a relationship with her we get a long and understand each other not sure if I would go out with another Cancer as myself I do find Cancers vary you really can't say us Cancers are exactly the same.

Posted by Twodrinks

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Posted by queencancer
We get each other on an intense level but it feels more like dating your twin.

For this reason I wouldnt again. I think a lot of people would say the same not just cancerians. I imagine two gems together would annoy each other after awhile and two aries would just kill each other after while.

Two scorps = one dead body.

I've been in an aries/aries relationship. It's pretty boring actually. I mean sure we do have disagreements but since we have the same temperament were over it minutes after its happened. I think with same sign couples it just becomes complacent. You both possess the same attributes so it's not forcing you to learn or grow in any way.

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The growth aspect is a great point.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by M00Nchild
Been there, done that. Fellow crabs possess many of the qualities I desire in a S/O, but it's very difficult to find one that has matured already. The last person to break my heart is a Cancer. I'm done with relationships and will remain happily single henceforth.

So if you did find a mature cancer, you aren't averse to it?

I understand the pain is a big backdrop to your situation, I have been through it 3 times. I generally recover and move forward.

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Nope. I'm staying single. It isn't worth it to me anymore. If you find one, though, go for it! We mature Cancers are awesome.

Posted by M00Nchild
Been there, done that. Fellow crabs possess many of the qualities I desire in a S/O, but it's very difficult to find one that has matured already. The last person to break my heart is a Cancer. I'm done with relationships and will remain happily single henceforth.

It will come back to you soon enough, and you will reach out for it.

Posted by Scruffles
I've never had a Cancer boyfriend but I guess it can work if you're both mature.

I think we're better suited with Earth signs though.

We NEED earth signs to keep us grounded....

I am 50 years old and still learning things about myself i didn't know. " My cap" brings that out in me. Don't know if the relationship will last, it is difficult at times. But i have never met anyone that could help me to learn that much about myself than he is doing. I feel like i am changing ( for the better)

I'm definitely a big supporter of such combination. Then I got to know Cancer men (outside of my family) in real life and I'm finding myself not so charmed.
The door is still open for new Cancer men to walk in but I'm not so passionate about this link as I once was. They can act like catty girls sometimes from what I observed.

I have a hard time worrying about my own emotions and keep them in order it would drive me insane when I have to constantly watch what I say or do to make sure someone doesn't have the same emotional reactions as me. My first boyfriend was Cancer and he was so insecure and immature he guilt tripped me for a month straight before we broke up.

Some cancers can not handle another cancel. Look at your ascending sign.

I'm a big fan of cancer women and i wish there were more threads on this.