Most to least likely to stay in a toxic relationship?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Gooober on Wednesday, October 28, 2015 and has 43 replies.

Signs Most Likely to Stay in Toxic Relationships

Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio are more prone to staying in toxic relationships due to emotional attachment and fear of loneliness. These signs often prioritize harmony over self-respect, making it harder to leave unhealthy situations. Understanding these tendencies can help in recognizing relationship patterns and seeking healthier connections.

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Watching this cancer woman on tv enabling this Leo asshole is making me sick, lol.
She so desperate and pathetic. He just does what he wants bc he knows she'll return and kiss his ass. Then he had the audacity to cheat on her with her Scorpio ex best friend. I have to give it to the Leos, you guys have people wrapped around your fingers lol. All this guy has to do is tell her sorry and say it won't happen again every time and she's back. Then this asshole has the audacity to get angry with her for telling him that's she's tired of him treating her like crap and then he'll say he doesn't need her bc he has other women waiting on him. Lmao! He said that to both of the women. Oh, and can you believe the cancer actually said that she knew her role? L.M.F.A.O

Pisces
Cancer
Taurus
Libra
Virgo
Capricorn
Leo
Gemini
Sagittarius
Scorpio
Aries
Aquarius

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@lisabethur8
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welll in reall life, the ones that come to mind, do have leo dominant, leos about them, as women in general can't HELP themselves...it's the devil in disguise...
and women just want to BURN.

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@BetaBanana
11 YearsCapricorn

Personally what I've seen
Cancers all the way
one of my best friends is an Aries sun she really goes through a lot don't know anything else about her placements
Scorpios
I'm cap sun Scorpio dominant I will endure a lot of shit for someone I've invested time into idk wtf is wrong w me lol

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People who have experienced tough situation know what is acceptable and worth compromising..

Least likely to stay in bad situations..HMMM. According to dxp all of 12 signs and how ever many people sign up here.

People have experienced it more than others to turn that intuition into knowledge, power, and strength and Just got to know when it's time to let go. Do I let go right away?nope not in my past.

Hm so far Gemini, Sagittarius and Aquarius can detach quickly than I..

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Posted by TachiMichiko
it's not Scorpios.
they will chop
off your penis.

lol

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
People who have experienced tough situation know what is acceptable and worth compromising..

Least likely to stay in bad situations..HMMM. According to dxp all of 12 signs and how ever many people sign up here.

People have experienced it more than others to turn that intuition into knowledge, power, and strength and Just got to know when it's time to let go. Do I let go right away?nope not in my past.

Hm so far Gemini, Sagittarius and Aquarius can detach quickly than I..

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don't know about that last part. Maybe if they're dominant airy types. Hate to sound like a broken record, but my first two ex's i stayed in there even though it's toxic. i mean you live and learn, but i thank god that i got out of it even through the pain and heartache. People would call that stupidity too, from the outside and it probably is, but after learning astrology on a deeper level, I understood and it did make me feel better, that i wasn't alone in this.

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Posted by Gooober
Watching this cancer woman on tv enabling this Leo asshole is making me sick, lol.
She so desperate and pathetic. He just does what he wants bc he knows she'll return and kiss his ass. Then he had the audacity to cheat on her with her Scorpio ex best friend. I have to give it to the Leos, you guys have people wrapped around your fingers lol. All this guy has to do is tell her sorry and say it won't happen again every time and she's back. Then this asshole has the audacity to get angry with her for telling him that's she's tired of him treating her like crap and then he'll say he doesn't need her bc he has other women waiting on him. Lmao! He said that to both of the women. Oh, and can you believe the cancer actually said that she knew her role? L.M.F.A.O

Pisces
Cancer
Taurus
Libra
Virgo
Capricorn
Leo
Gemini
Sagittarius
Scorpio
Aries
Aquarius

Cancer, Aries and Scorp men...I have seen them all endure not so great relationship conditions.

As far as women I would say Sag and Aquarius. Virgo women always seem bored/unhappy in their relationships, but I think if it came to the point of it being unhealthy, they would be out.

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@Scenic
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Those who grew up in a toxic environment, those with low self esteem, those that won't leave until they feel they've put enough effort into fixing the relationship, those who have kids with the person. Don't think its sign related as much as it is other factors like the ones mentioned above.

Im a little salty about the water sign stereotyping : (

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Posted by laFille
In theory Moon and/or Venus in the 12th House.

Moon in the twelfth house; this is very accurate. I stayed with my Cancer ex from three years ago much longer than I should have. And he was one of the most abusive and toxic people I've ever known. It also doesn't help to have a Taurus Venus lol at least for me, in this situation. In love, I dig my heels in and stay until it's not a possibility to do so any longer.
So from personal experience, those two placements have kept me lingering in the past.

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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Doesn't it have to do if you come from a dysfunctional family or not?

or father/mother issues?

apart from that
maybe any placements with obsession? or 12th housers? or lilith-sun-synastry?

yall mentioned Sagittarius. Now I'm one and I've been bound to a man with potential for toxic relationship. I left his city to live far from him, we are technically not in a relationship but we do not start a new life with somebody else too. Two loners who check once in a year if the other pig is still thinking of him/her. We have Lilith-Sun-Conjunction in the Synastry. We both have had (withthemselves) unhappy parents. We both have signs of obsession. Like "there must be more into it, we have to get it right". It's been 16 years. Next year he's gonna be 50. What is the label of this thing? Is this love? Should I move back to his city and we check it for once in our lives? If it's love........ fck love.

No. I don't think so. These people choose to stay in toxic relationships either bc they're desperate, they don't want to be lonely and or the sex is great.

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Posted by Nevermore
Sounds like me. But it was as I was unconscious and unaware what kind of relationship position I was in.

So you weren't aware what so ever at any point you were being treated wrong? You've never thought not once that something wasn't right? I find that extremely hard to believe. Js.

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Posted by Nevermore

Posted by Gooober

Posted by Nevermore
Sounds like me. But it was as I was unconscious and unaware what kind of relationship position I was in.

So you weren't aware what so ever at any point you were being treated wrong? You've never thought not once that something wasn't right? I find that extremely hard to believe. Js.

The insecurity cause this, especially the desperation to feel loved that you didn't received or felt from your parents. Even all the people warned about this person, but you were deluded in love and being naive.

I'm actually awaken and learned a lot of lesson after the last toxic relationship I had.

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Well, I'm glad that you're awaken now and have learned from your experience....

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I agree im a cancer i take alot except cheating if u want het rid me cheat on me everything else i deal with until i reach my limit..i hate this about me in wish i could say f u walk away. Maybe also alot stff dont bother me either which could explain alot. My tolerance is high so to some tbey cant deal with it but most cancers not all can b laid back dont feed that much into negativity so we take alot because we have hopes and see good in everything u could curse me out id b like oh ok how was ur day u need a hug. Im just very optimistic but cheat on me im ghost

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by BlackMamba
i change my mind. ARIES, they're doormats.

victoria beckham and Ben Afflecks wife, whatever her name is

I agree. Aries will put up with alot fo shit before they consider leaving. The men seem to leave faster. The women seem to get turned on by conflict and turmoil and stay.

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Posted by BlackMamba
i change my mind. ARIES, they're doormats.

victoria beckham and Ben Afflecks wife, whatever her name is

yeah but she's dominant pisces with a 12th house dominant too.

looking deeper into astrology, it makes her want to MERGE with her taurus/cappie hubby, and he loves it.

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ooooh on Jennifer Garner (who divorced Ben Affleck)

she's not domiannt pisces but her 12th house is packed wth gemini mars, moon, venus saturn...Jeez.

you're probably right, she takes alot of beating (not literally but metaphorically too)

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jennifer_Garner

Born: April 17, 1972, 10:00 AM
In: Houston (TX) (United States)
Sun: 27°44' Aries AS: 4°24' Cancer
Moon: 21°15' Gemini MC: 19°39' Pisces
Dominants: Gemini, Aries, Cancer
Moon, Neptune, Mercury
Houses 12, 11, 10 / Air, Fire / Mutable

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From what Ive seen.

Pisces and Cancer tie followed by

Aries, Leo & Taurus tie

My experience with Leo females is they always manage to turn things around THEN they cant quit thinking about the cheating so they split into another similar situation. Also, after a couple of situations that aren't pretty Taurus usually learns the hard way and starts going for better treatment with better men.

Virgo, Capricorn, Saggitarius, Gemini women flee the fastest.

For MEN;

From what Ive seen...

Pisces seemed almost drawn to abusive situations especially with fire sign women, they get bored by real women who actually care and like them, its so strange to me.

Cancer men I know always go after women they are attracted to, selfishly they don't care if the woman even likes them back so they end up with someone not so into them. Many cancers secretly pine for glamourous Libra and Leo women and can never let go.

Scorpio men deal with a lot of abuse before they let go, sometimes they never let go.

Males Easiest to walk away from abuse & cheating;

Leos, Geminis, Sagitarius, Capricorn.

Leos & Geminis always have 1 foot out the door any sign of poor treatment.