Lolitafuego
@Lolitafuego
8 Years
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Posted by LolitafuegoSounds like some bull?
Hi everyone. I will try to be as brief as possible with this. I have been in an affair with a cancer man for 11 months and he is driving me crazy. I am married and he has a long time girlfriend. He is also 12 yrs younger than me. We met thru work as we work for the same company. He came on very strong at first and of course thru the months has become somewhat distance...sime vecause of my doings....im a sagittarius by the way.
4 months into our affair i left my husband...i thought cancer man would jump at chances to be with me....wring...he retreated and wondered if i had other friends....got passed that however he continued to be distant...so i disappeaeed for about a month.. during which he texted me and even called leaving messages asking how im doing. We have since reconnected once again and it seemed to fo smooth except he is stingy with his affection. We have said i love you to each other.
Friday i let my emotions and hormones do some serious writing and sebt a long message....needless to say he is now upset with me. He said i was pressing him and he doesbt handle that well...i apologized asked if he can still love me....he said yes...we still talk however i think he will use this to manipulate the situation in his favor...how can i get him to come after me once again....should i wait...withdrawal...or chase him again—?willhe witdrawal more—?...please help—?
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4 months into our affair i left my husband...i thought cancer man would jump at chances to be with me....wring...he retreated and wondered if i had other friends....got passed that however he continued to be distant...so i disappeaeed for about a month.. during which he texted me and even called leaving messages asking how im doing. We have since reconnected once again and it seemed to fo smooth except he is stingy with his affection. We have said i love you to each other.
Friday i let my emotions and hormones do some serious writing and sebt a long message....needless to say he is now upset with me. He said i was pressing him and he doesbt handle that well...i apologized asked if he can still love me....he said yes...we still talk however i think he will use this to manipulate the situation in his favor...how can i get him to come after me once again....should i wait...withdrawal...or chase him again—?willhe witdrawal more—?...please help—?