Do Cancer men try and get you pregnant?!?!

Whats with my dude just all the sudden unloading all free spirited with no concern?! Im not mad or anything.... just like damn he really doesn't care.

We've talked about having kids in the future. Currently looking at houses. I was just surprised with how quickly he was taking that talk into consideration. This post is mostly a play on the stereotype of Cancers being baby crazy... Not like he is maliciously doing something. Maybe my tone didn't come across right!

In another thread someone posted with the topic of "How will you know a Cancer man Likes you?" A user jokingly replied "He'll get your pregnant".... So, i'm just joking about the accuracy.

Oh, no its not like that. We've been exclusive since July, have known each other quite a while outside of the relationship. It's not all the time and definitely in the heat of the moment with a confirmation first. We both have kids. I'm just saying since that talk I can tell that he would be very fine with such a thing happening. Im saying its not negative, but that perhaps these men in love are very much excited about having children with you. Its just very much the Cancer stereotype come to life.

I think my title kind of came off negative. My fault.

Posted by heliumfiasco
I think my title kind of came off negative. My fault.

I laughed

Oh my gosh. The thing I love most about him is how much he loves his daughter. Ive never seen anyone basically have their own language with their kid. NOTHING comes before her. It inspires me to be an even better mom.

Posted by heliumfiasco
In another thread someone posted with the topic of "How will you know a Cancer man Likes you?" A user jokingly replied "He'll get your pregnant".... So, i'm just joking about the accuracy.

And here I was going to make a crack about him mixing fertility drugs in the coffee he so nicely brings you....

Posted by heliumfiasco
Whats with my dude just all the sudden unloading all free spirited with no concern?! Im not mad or anything.... just like damn he really doesn't care.

OMG you too?

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by heliumfiasco
In another thread someone posted with the topic of "How will you know a Cancer man Likes you?" A user jokingly replied "He'll get your pregnant".... So, i'm just joking about the accuracy.

And here I was going to make a crack about him mixing fertility drugs in the coffee he so nicely brings you....

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Lol that'd be psycho!

😆

He likes the way it feels! Doesn't everyone?

Does he have you strapped in the basement? Sorry I watched Don't Breathe last night. Shhhhheeeeiiiittt....

There is definitely a difference between wanting to nail girl's brains out because she just turns you on so much, and actually wanting to get a girl pregnant. I'm not quite sure where the strong urge to actually want to impregnate someone comes from. Probably something intrinsic and biological, I dunno. But if I want to get a girl pregnant, no sh*ts are given and I won't be pulling out.

I find this to be true about crab men also; in my situation mars in cancer. We were dating, exclusively, and were not using protection. He consistently "uploaded all free spirited with no care" inside of me. Once or twice is a mistake but he did it every time (no matter my protests and no matter how angry I would get). So often I started to wonder if he was doing it on purpose. I think its important to mention that he had gotten a woman pregnant way before me but the child did not make it.

I usually do this for 2 reasons.

Because I feel like the person I am with I feel like is above my league and maybe they dont know it and its a way of entangling them to me somehow from now on. I am willing to throw caution into the wind because I feel like I have "firmly" decided that I will be attracted to them on some level from now on so even if things went wrong I won in a way by getting a girl I didn't think I could get pregnant or the thrill that she would give me the opportunity to do so.

Other reason is if i am with someone seriously and I feel like subconsiously giving into a need to get the ball rolling somehow. I feel like doing that maybe takes the fear away from a woman that I aint serious about her longterm.

It can be either selfish or giving reasons

and of course there is the fun part to it, very intimate when you do that

Posted by heliumfiasco
Whats with my dude just all the sudden unloading all free spirited with no concern?! Im not mad or anything.... just like damn he really doesn't care.

Interesting...my Cancer I've been talking about did that to me. We were having sex and I'm not on the pill for health reasons. He always wants to get off in me but we don't bcs I don't want to get pregnant. This past weekend he said he wanted to and then said right before he did...let's try it and see what happens. WTF?

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Whats with my dude just all the sudden unloading all free spirited with no concern?! Im not mad or anything.... just like damn he really doesn't care.

Interesting...my Cancer I've been talking about did that to me. We were having sex and I'm not on the pill for health reasons. He always wants to get off in me but we don't bcs I don't want to get pregnant. This past weekend he said he wanted to and then said right before he did...let's try it and see what happens. WTF?

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So what happened?

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by heliumfiasco
Whats with my dude just all the sudden unloading all free spirited with no concern?! Im not mad or anything.... just like damn he really doesn't care.

Interesting...my Cancer I've been talking about did that to me. We were having sex and I'm not on the pill for health reasons. He always wants to get off in me but we don't bcs I don't want to get pregnant. This past weekend he said he wanted to and then said right before he did...let's try it and see what happens. WTF?

So what happened?

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Nothing, lol. I think he's shooting blanks, honestly.