TaurusMarine
@TaurusMarine
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Cancer male and Taurus female's hard to get game
Ditch the zero and find a hero. I have a friend going through this with a Cancer man (probably just coincidence it's the same sign) but he has held off meeting her for two years. All flowery language, soul mates, blah blah and then flat does not show up when they are going to meet.
You wanna be her in two years??
You wanna be her in two years??
Unfortunately, he's not that into you and you'll waste a lot of time on this.
Thank you all for your comments - I appreciate that. I 100% agree with you but I"M CURIOUS. I'd like to have at leat one date with him and then DITCH him in THE very classy way I can 🙂
I'm very stubborn on the matter. He wanna play - I wanna play. So if you could give here any advice how to reveal his true colours and finally get him, that would be great.
I know it can sound as if I'm very cruel person (which I hope i'm not), but i was never playng with other people's feelings but got otherwise...
I'm very stubborn on the matter. He wanna play - I wanna play. So if you could give here any advice how to reveal his true colours and finally get him, that would be great.
I know it can sound as if I'm very cruel person (which I hope i'm not), but i was never playng with other people's feelings but got otherwise...
This one is easy, he is fugly.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.
Idk if I would meet after that saying, I'm a kisser and most likely going to happen in our first date. Be prepared.. takes the mystery right out.. Lol that is nerve recking and he is weird. Nah pass.
Posted by incandescentcancerHow did you know? 🙂 Actually he is not ugly but bit nerdy... he himself told that he wouldn't probably impress me as he is not that hot. But I met himself in public twice and think he's cute as I don't stick to people's looks. Besides he works with women and they all actually into him. Maybe I'm just kind of booty call which I would NEVER like to be. How would you act? 🙂
This one is easy, he is fugly.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm kinda weird too. But these mind games are energy consuming, I agree with you
Idk if I would meet after that saying, I'm a kisser and most likely going to happen in our first date. Be prepared.. takes the mystery right out.. Lol that is nerve recking and he is weird. Nah pass.
Posted by TaurusMarineThe solution is very simple, you need to tell him that you like his specific type of appearance. also maybe give him tips on dressing better etc. The more confident he feels, the more he will come after you. I don't think he is playing with your feelings, he is just not confident.Posted by incandescentcancerHow did you know? 🙂 Actually he is not ugly but bit nerdy... he himself told that he wouldn't probably impress me as he is not that hot. But I met himself in public twice and think he's cute as I don't stick to people's looks. Besides he works with women and they all actually into him. Maybe I'm just kind of booty call which I would NEVER like to be. How would you act? 🙂
This one is easy, he is fugly.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979Okay, then I want to win in that game 😉Posted by rabidtalkerYep this 1000 times
Unfortunately, he's not that into you and you'll waste a lot of time on this.
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I'm Taurus and stubborn. I have never actually used any forums on dating or whatever AND my being here actually says I understand a bit what's going on but wanna win and only then BOUNCE.
Posted by incandescentcancerThanks a lot for your answers here! I understand you're a Cancer. Are you girl or a guy? Because I m not very sure he wouldn't get territorial about his personality or worse he might get offended somehow. If you're a guy, how would you react?Posted by TaurusMarineThe solution is very simple, you need to tell him that you like his specific type of appearance. also maybe give him tips on dressing better etc. The more confident he feels, the more he will come after you. I don't think he is playing with your feelings, he is just not confident.Posted by incandescentcancerHow did you know? 🙂 Actually he is not ugly but bit nerdy... he himself told that he wouldn't probably impress me as he is not that hot. But I met himself in public twice and think he's cute as I don't stick to people's looks. Besides he works with women and they all actually into him. Maybe I'm just kind of booty call which I would NEVER like to be. How would you act? 🙂
This one is easy, he is fugly.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.click to expand
I don't get too emotional while texting cause I understand that face to face is different to online . I wanna win that one meeting to understand him better.
Posted by TaurusMarineI am a cancer male. Be subtle about it, don't upset the apple cart so to speak.Posted by incandescentcancerThanks a lot for your answers here! I understand you're a Cancer. Are you girl or a guy? Because I m not very sure he wouldn't get territorial about his personality or worse he might get offended somehow. If you're a guy, how would you react?Posted by TaurusMarineThe solution is very simple, you need to tell him that you like his specific type of appearance. also maybe give him tips on dressing better etc. The more confident he feels, the more he will come after you. I don't think he is playing with your feelings, he is just not confident.Posted by incandescentcancerHow did you know? 🙂 Actually he is not ugly but bit nerdy... he himself told that he wouldn't probably impress me as he is not that hot. But I met himself in public twice and think he's cute as I don't stick to people's looks. Besides he works with women and they all actually into him. Maybe I'm just kind of booty call which I would NEVER like to be. How would you act? 🙂
This one is easy, he is fugly.
You're probably hot, so he likes you but doesn't have the confidence to bring his fugliness into contact with your hotness.click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979Seems like that! I wanna make him mine and if he's just going through the motions, as I was advised - Ditch him. But I'm not sure he's not interested 😉
U stubborn bull
Does him not submitting to your request turn you on?
Posted by thinktoomuchThank you fo explaining me so vividly what to do 🙂Posted by TaurusMarineWhy do you engage in them then? You just said: if he wants to play, I wanna play.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm kinda weird too. But these mind games are energy consuming, I agree with you
Idk if I would meet after that saying, I'm a kisser and most likely going to happen in our first date. Be prepared.. takes the mystery right out.. Lol that is nerve recking and he is weird. Nah pass.
Come on girl, you like the drama and the chase. Just admit it. Nothing wrong with that, but that also mean, that rarely other peoples advice will be of use to you, ´cause you´re already set in your ways and you probably think differently about what love and passion is. Don´t conform. Do it your own way, and remember to take responsibility too and not come here and blaim him for being a dick, if it doesn´t work out.click to expand
Passion can be different you know. Yes, I admit that. But my chase here is different from being desperate. As I said I'm curious. I want to know what drives that man to play so eagerly.
Actually I prefer to be chased. When I pursue sth I do it subtly and that's because I'm not sure it's 100% dead.
If you have nothing to say how to win him through his own games, please don't at least discourage me by claiming you know what I am and what's waiting me there.
I know that better 😉
Don't think Cancer chase though? So how did you meet. You did all the work....
Posted by thinktoomuchI guess some might 🙂
And hey: who was calling you desperate—
Yes, I wanna go to the end if it vibes back... If doesn't leave it.
He's sort of ignoring me rigt now after I said I'm not a big kisser and not trying to impress him. So I can't initiate the talk...don't feel like that now.
I'm afraid now he can contact me too late. If too late I might forgive but never forget.
Can you just send him a casual text? Anything you know he's been up to lately, like, "Hey, so how did your ____ go?"
Or will you now not contact him out of stubbornness? How many days has it been?
Or will you now not contact him out of stubbornness? How many days has it been?
Since monday since he asked what else would I do to impress him and I answered I'm not trying. He posted he got the hint and; -). I don't know myself how and what he got.
Thats why I think me contacting him could mean I wanna 'impress ' him. What do you think?
Thats why I think me contacting him could mean I wanna 'impress ' him. What do you think?
If I knew the way a Cancer man's mind worked, I would be here! lol
The great thing about texting and messaging is that you can completely ignore whatever you want (this I have learned from the Crab I talk to... he evades stuff like I'm shooting at him). I think the best bet is one of two things:
Just ignore that and say something else completely; ask what he's up to for the weekend, etc. -
or -
Just say you don't think either of you needs to impress the other and you're trying to get to know him better.
I also know the guy I talk to seemed to prefer it when I sent him a message. He's insecure (romantically only) and if I made the move that way he'd talk all day long. But if he got too many feels or got uncomfortable, he'd hide on me for a few days. So when he says "I got the hint" he could now be thinking you're not interested in him physically... or at all anymore.
I completely feel your issue, because the guy I have been talking to on and off for almost nine months is so much better in person... but getting face to face with him has been all but impossible. I'm giving up, pretty much.
The great thing about texting and messaging is that you can completely ignore whatever you want (this I have learned from the Crab I talk to... he evades stuff like I'm shooting at him). I think the best bet is one of two things:
Just ignore that and say something else completely; ask what he's up to for the weekend, etc. -
or -
Just say you don't think either of you needs to impress the other and you're trying to get to know him better.
I also know the guy I talk to seemed to prefer it when I sent him a message. He's insecure (romantically only) and if I made the move that way he'd talk all day long. But if he got too many feels or got uncomfortable, he'd hide on me for a few days. So when he says "I got the hint" he could now be thinking you're not interested in him physically... or at all anymore.
I completely feel your issue, because the guy I have been talking to on and off for almost nine months is so much better in person... but getting face to face with him has been all but impossible. I'm giving up, pretty much.
Posted by GalOnTheCuspThank you so much! i think I'll use your advice. Just Im not sure hes into me as he's got lots of pretty women within friends. I'm not jealous but his being online now could meet hes flirting with someone else. . He also wrote he believes it's not good to move with impressing each other,then added he's completely lazy in real life.... So im now in WTF mode..
If I knew the way a Cancer man's mind worked, I would be here! lol
The great thing about texting and messaging is that you can completely ignore whatever you want (this I have learned from the Crab I talk to... he evades stuff like I'm shooting at him). I think the best bet is one of two things:
Just ignore that and say something else completely; ask what he's up to for the weekend, etc. -
or -
Just say you don't think either of you needs to impress the other and you're trying to get to know him better.
I also know the guy I talk to seemed to prefer it when I sent him a message. He's insecure (romantically only) and if I made the move that way he'd talk all day long. But if he got too many feels or got uncomfortable, he'd hide on me for a few days. So when he says "I got the hint" he could now be thinking you're not interested in him physically... or at all anymore.
I completely feel your issue, because the guy I have been talking to on and off for almost nine months is so much better in person... but getting face to face with him has been all but impossible. I'm giving up, pretty much.
Earlier when we talked about meeting I said he seems not very adventurous as he prefers to stay in whatever happens. On this he replied Adventure? A romantic one? I said I appreciate friendship above all. And he hadn't texted me for the whole week.
But how can I talk about romance when I dont know the person??!!!
I guess I'm really desperate now asking for advice complete strangers online. I have never had any misunderstandings with guys - they either liked me or not and I took that...
But how can I talk about romance when I dont know the person??!!!
I guess I'm really desperate now asking for advice complete strangers online. I have never had any misunderstandings with guys - they either liked me or not and I took that...
Well...if someone reads this., I want to liven up my topic a bit.
So last week "my" cancer finally called but for 5 min or so.
Didn't contact me all wekend.
On Monday he calls again, texts me about my sexy voice. I call him handsome blah blah. Then he asks me if I want to have some handsome man in my life.
I answer I have business to finish first. He calls me beautiful and keeps silent.
Today I text him, we speak about communicating ideas. He says he's bad at communicating ideas. Then he talks about coming to my place. I reply I'd definitely invite him if I knew him better first. Then he replies he'd come too if he knew me. Then he says he doesn't know what to do. We end with good night or so.
Your thoughts?
P.S. Don't be too mean, please.
So last week "my" cancer finally called but for 5 min or so.
Didn't contact me all wekend.
On Monday he calls again, texts me about my sexy voice. I call him handsome blah blah. Then he asks me if I want to have some handsome man in my life.
I answer I have business to finish first. He calls me beautiful and keeps silent.
Today I text him, we speak about communicating ideas. He says he's bad at communicating ideas. Then he talks about coming to my place. I reply I'd definitely invite him if I knew him better first. Then he replies he'd come too if he knew me. Then he says he doesn't know what to do. We end with good night or so.
Your thoughts?
P.S. Don't be too mean, please.
Posted by Pisces15The problem is I feel as if im doing all that leg work. I have already asked him out earlier but he rejected twice. So when I asked what shall we do he replied "No ideas....😉".Posted by TaurusMarineMaybe take the lead, and suggest someone to go one day / evening? You're not pushing, but simply helping him along. Tbh that also shows you're not lazy and wait for the men to do all the leg work! Although you don't want to be doing this all the time . . a relationship is a two-way thing IMO.
Well...if someone reads this., I want to liven up my topic a bit.
So last week "my" cancer finally called but for 5 min or so.
Didn't contact me all wekend.
On Monday he calls again, texts me about my sexy voice. I call him handsome blah blah. Then he asks me if I want to have some handsome man in my life.
I answer I have business to finish first. He calls me beautiful and keeps silent.
Today I text him, we speak about communicating ideas. He says he's bad at communicating ideas. Then he talks about coming to my place. I reply I'd definitely invite him if I knew him better first. Then he replies he'd come too if he knew me. Then he says he doesn't know what to do. We end with good night or so.
Your thoughts?
P.S. Don't be too mean, please.click to expand
Thus, I dunno. I'm pretty much giving up.
Posted by Pisces15See, this man doesn't want to invest. I guess he might want just sex as the things he suggests is to come over either to his or my place. I'm not ready for such a move. And I communicate my thoughts but he seems not to listen.Posted by TaurusMarineFire some suggestions . . that's what I did when I was dating a Cancer guy. He said he wanted to see me again, but wasn't sure where to go or what to do, so I fired choices @ him and he chose one, and then we sort of came to agreements on what day fitted best with our schedules. I am no longer seeing the guy because I asked a Q which I don't think he liked and I rejected his sexual advances because I wasn't ready (too early when you don't really know someone). But how you've described this guy is very very similar to how my Cancer guy was with me, although he never 'blew' me off on arranged dates!Posted by Pisces15The problem is I feel as if im doing all that leg work. I have already asked him out earlier but he rejected twice. So when I asked what shall we do he replied "No ideas....😉".Posted by TaurusMarineMaybe take the lead, and suggest someone to go one day / evening? You're not pushing, but simply helping him along. Tbh that also shows you're not lazy and wait for the men to do all the leg work! Although you don't want to be doing this all the time . . a relationship is a two-way thing IMO.
Well...if someone reads this., I want to liven up my topic a bit.
So last week "my" cancer finally called but for 5 min or so.
Didn't contact me all wekend.
On Monday he calls again, texts me about my sexy voice. I call him handsome blah blah. Then he asks me if I want to have some handsome man in my life.
I answer I have business to finish first. He calls me beautiful and keeps silent.
Today I text him, we speak about communicating ideas. He says he's bad at communicating ideas. Then he talks about coming to my place. I reply I'd definitely invite him if I knew him better first. Then he replies he'd come too if he knew me. Then he says he doesn't know what to do. We end with good night or so.
Your thoughts?
P.S. Don't be too mean, please.
Thus, I dunno. I'm pretty much giving up.click to expand
That's why maybe I will need to switch on my ice cream facade for cancers at all.
@Pisces15, thank you for being here with me.
You're very thoughtful.
I should think of making more pisces friends🙂
Cancers, Amen.
You're very thoughtful.
I should think of making more pisces friends🙂
Cancers, Amen.
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Posted by Pisces15Fire some suggestions . . that's what I did when I was dating a Cancer guy. He said he wanted to see me again, but wasn't sure where to go or what to do, so I fired choices @ him and he chose one, and then we sort of came to agreements on what day fitted best with our schedules. I am no longer seeing the guy because I asked a Q which I don't think he liked and I rejected his sexual advances because I wasn't ready (too early when you don't really know someone). But how you've described this guy is very very similar to how my Cancer guy was with me, although he never 'blew' me off on arranged dates!You're a pisces woman and you had difficulties with a Cancer guy?? I find that hard to believe, I love Pisces women...lol
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberHilarious! Honestly, I would really wanna meet a cancer stellium and see how that turned out.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
We all here dealt with some immature cancers, measured-weighed them and found them unworthy...
The point here is that it's no good to start a two-legged race with a one-legged person.
The point here is that it's no good to start a two-legged race with a one-legged person.
Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
Posted by TaurusMarineGo on cafeastrology.com On the right side menu, you'll see free charts and reports. Click on that and do his free birth chart. Input his birthday along with place of birth and it shall reveal to you his placements.Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
Posted by aquarius09OMG... It's very long... To cut it short:Posted by TaurusMarineGo on cafeastrology.com On the right side menu, you'll see free charts and reports. Click on that and do his free birth chart. Input his birthday along with place of birth and it shall reveal to you his placements.Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancerclick to expand
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Leo
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra.
Did I get it correctly?
Posted by TaurusMarineI believe ksamcancer is the guy to talk to on this one. He's a cancer with Virgo moon. Virgo moon can be pretty anal retentive about their partner. There is a checklist in their head for what they are looking for. And if you don't meet, then they will not be entertaining you other than small talk. His Mercury in Gemini shows me that he's looking for mental stimulation and talk about something intellectual. The only way you will win a date with this dude is either talking about intelligent things that he's into and not mere flirting.Posted by aquarius09OMG... It's very long... To cut it short:Posted by TaurusMarineGo on cafeastrology.com On the right side menu, you'll see free charts and reports. Click on that and do his free birth chart. Input his birthday along with place of birth and it shall reveal to you his placements.Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancer
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Leo
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra.
Did I get it correctly?click to expand
Posted by aquarius09I always provided an intellectual talk. And he said his interests were close to mine. That was exactly him who switched to flirting. I always firted back... I decided to ditch him. My last message was on Thursday like Seems we don't click either because of your indecision or lack of interest..Posted by TaurusMarineI believe ksamcancer is the guy to talk to on this one. He's a cancer with Virgo moon. Virgo moon can be pretty anal retentive about their partner. There is a checklist in their head for what they are looking for. And if you don't meet, then they will not be entertaining you other than small talk. His Mercury in Gemini shows me that he's looking for mental stimulation and talk about something intellectual. The only way you will win a date with this dude is either talking about intelligent things that he's into and not mere flirting.Posted by aquarius09OMG... It's very long... To cut it short:Posted by TaurusMarineGo on cafeastrology.com On the right side menu, you'll see free charts and reports. Click on that and do his free birth chart. Input his birthday along with place of birth and it shall reveal to you his placements.Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancer
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Leo
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra.
Did I get it correctly?click to expand
And I guess I mentioned word closure. He read that and just logged out. Since then he s immediately Off when sees me online.
Whatever. I guess he's not just into me .
Posted by TaurusMarinePosted by aquarius09I always provided an intellectual talk. And he said his interests were close to mine. That was exactly him who switched to flirting. I always firted back... I decided to ditch him. My last message was on Thursday like Seems we don't click either because of your indecision or lack of interest..Posted by TaurusMarineI believe ksamcancer is the guy to talk to on this one. He's a cancer with Virgo moon. Virgo moon can be pretty anal retentive about their partner. There is a checklist in their head for what they are looking for. And if you don't meet, then they will not be entertaining you other than small talk. His Mercury in Gemini shows me that he's looking for mental stimulation and talk about something intellectual. The only way you will win a date with this dude is either talking about intelligent things that he's into and not mere flirting.Posted by aquarius09OMG... It's very long... To cut it short:Posted by TaurusMarineGo on cafeastrology.com On the right side menu, you'll see free charts and reports. Click on that and do his free birth chart. Input his birthday along with place of birth and it shall reveal to you his placements.Posted by aquarius09Ok, give me a link how do I know that.Posted by TaurusMarineSo then why are you asking about a CANCERIAN man in the CANCER forum and categorizing the male as a CANCERIAN in your OP?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIDK... I'm not into horoscopes.Posted by aquarius09Sun - Cancer
What is this loser's chart looking like?
Moon - Cancer
Rising - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Cancer
Pluto - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Neptune - Cancer
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Cancer
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Leo
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra.
Did I get it correctly?click to expand
And I guess I mentioned word closure. He read that and just logged out. Since then he s immediately Off when sees me online.
Whatever. I guess he's not just into me .
I've seen this indecisive and hot and cold nonsense from one cancer only and prior to him I've never had any guy do this hot and cold nonsense that you hear about the most on DXP. I suppose this behaviour is indicative of disinterest and overall emotional unavailability but know one thing: this behaviour ALMoST ALWAYS comes from a man/woman who doesn't know how to be single and probably never has been single in true sense of the word. So what they do is they have a queue that you get on. In their drought season when they don't have their top girl/priority entertaining them for whatever reason, they contact the next girl on the queue.
The problem is that these types of selfish people prosper on the basis of people like you or pretty much anyone that chooses to entertain their sporadic entrances. What really should happen is people should shut them down after three occurrence by letting them know that this hot and cold, indecisive bullshit will not be tolerated and set the boundaries. You wanted to play this game and you yourself got fed up and naturally and eventually people do get tired of other people's selfish behaviour. I say you cuss him off and cut him off cut throat. That's the best lesson for people like that and it's discipline101 which they missed from their mom.
The problem is that these types of selfish people prosper on the basis of people like you or pretty much anyone that chooses to entertain their sporadic entrances. What really should happen is people should shut them down after three occurrence by letting them know that this hot and cold, indecisive bullshit will not be tolerated and set the boundaries. You wanted to play this game and you yourself got fed up and naturally and eventually people do get tired of other people's selfish behaviour. I say you cuss him off and cut him off cut throat. That's the best lesson for people like that and it's discipline101 which they missed from their mom.
Posted by TaurusMarineHe has a girlfriend or is married. Alot of women who unknowingly entertain men who are taken miss the obvious red flags. he'll text or messege online because he can not talk to you on the phone while at home with his GF or wife, or out with her. And when he does talk to you on the phone, its either late at night when GF or wife is sleeping,at work, or when he is out and not with her. Aside from that, some men will be happy to let you spend your energy on them knowing full well that they are not interested in you, which is why you find that you are the one doing most or all of the initiating. Im highly into astrology, but i know that no matter what a guys sign is, men are Hunters, they go after what they want. if he wants to hang out with you,he will arrange it or at the very least NOT cancel the plans you set up. He will call you to hear your voice. Men show you how they feel, so if you are confused,hes not into you,if he is,trust me, you'll know and wont be on here asking. He sucks anyways.
I have known this cancerian for 6 MONTHS. We met twice on business. He kept constantly texting, not calling, not asking out. I initiated twice asking him for a casual hang out. Even if he agreed, he turned me down the day it was set. I got silent, Didn't initiate any talk. He came back, texted, asked and so on. I finally got fed up and didn't initiate the talk
. 3 months passed and Voila...he appears again and again online. Texts once or twice a week when he is not busy, we flirt, talk and again no calling, not asking out.
The communication however online is vivid and we both seem to enjoy that pretty much but... I wanna real person, not a robot!
I gave him a clear note I prefer face to face comunication. He agreed it's time to face each other...we set a meeting......and again he cancells it!!! I'm very cold like aha, yes. no. thank you. But he keeps texting me, fliring with me...
The last text was about him wanting to impress me with a "BIG KISS....." I responded I'm not a big kisser and he went on like I probably wouldn't have impressed you and blah blah. I said I am not sure how I feel and that I don't want to rush into anything. He says he agrees not to rush and ....SILENCE. He's online but not texting me.
THE QUESTION. I really care for this guy but I really need to MEET in order either HOLD THE FANTASY I've got in my head or just LOSE it. Help me out with advice! Especially cancers! 🙂
Thanks for your time and answers. He's not married though but I agree with @aquarius09 that hes trying to bear his loneliness with some entertainment from the next on the queue. It was almost always him to initiate the talk but it was me who asked out. I already understood his lack of interest. Dont want to talk to me. Think he doesnt want either. im sure he'll text me again in a week or month but i definitely wont be there answering his selfish desire to entertain.
Guess my topic here is over.
Guess my topic here is over.
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