cancer man cheated on me!

What advice do you want? Do you want someone to tell you whether or not to stay with a cheating man?

@Kim31 is right, why even waste your time on a cheating punk. You don't need him. Be thankful that he showed his true colors. He obviously didn't love you, because if he did, you would be his only love. You can forgive him, but forget his skum azz. You can do better without him, believe that

The man you suspect is leading a double life is jealous you spoke to a family member? Do people have sex with family members where you're from?

I understand wanting to talk about the pain he's caused you. We can do that. But there's no point in discussing him. Mail his shit back. If that's too expensive, have a friend go with you to drop it off outside his home and leave immediately.

Set up a time so he knows to come out and get it but don't give him a chance to suck you into conversation and be done.

If he does come back for his clothes, meet him at the gas station in a public place, & give them to him. Other than that, you shouldn't have to talk about anything.

You know how to get his stuff back to him without dealing with him. You want a dialogue with him on your own terms. Why?

Well idk what to tell you lol. Just fed ex or post office his shyt to him lol. That's IF he calls, & since you disconnected his #, you shouldn't have to answer him. Try not to lose your mind over him. He ain't worth it

Well if he don't ask for his clothes, then don't worry about it. Move on to better things in your life.

You have control over the phone, right?

She's concerned about him coming back for clothes. She's worried about him while he isn't too concerned about her. For her sake she needs to get rid of the excuses AND ALL POSSIBLE EXCUSES.
You're more familiar with your own situation and his. Get him his clothes back and get on with it.

So he has a key too, well i would get the locks changed asap & keep a pocket knife on you, just in case his dumb azz get any thoughts.

@Kim31 & @Sonofthunder is right. There isn't much else talk about lol

Switch it back on and send a text requesting a time, date, location, etc. Do whatever you need to do so you you can stop worrying about him and concentrate on yourself.

This whole post is about you bullshitting yourself because you aren't done.
You stayed with a man who you thought was leading a double life for fucks sake. I'm not mad at you for it but I'm not going to ignore it.
Hold on to his stuff, worry about it, some more, wait for him to randomly come back for it and get hurt some more.

I don't know where you are but never say you'll destroy someone's belongings. Evidence, my dear.

Cheater: where's my stuff?
You: you already picked it up.
Cheater: no I didn't.
You: yes you did! You came like a month ago and got all of it. Did you leave something? Tell me what you left and I'll look for it...

Please! stop worrying ok, if he comes by, that's IF he does, give him his stuff & say by. He might not even show up. Just change your locks on your door, since he has a key to your house. It's that simple & i'm sorry if you feel scared, but you shouldn't. You are a strong beautiful woman. Be strong ok

I did know. I was trying to be nice. HELLO!

I'm supporting you by being honest.

You want bullshit, try Leo or Libra forum.

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Posted by Kim31
Hold on to his stuff, worry about it, some more, wait for him to randomly come back for it and get hurt some more.

You couldn't tell, from the original post that this is exactly what she wants?

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You may have a point, but hopefully for her sake, this don't happen

@Bullseye123 No ones trying to be mean to you. Like Kim said, we are trying to help by telling you the truth & what you need to hear. Not trying to be harsh at all. Just keeping it real.

You have a right to be emotional. Stir your emotions in the right direction. No matter what words you choose, its pretty obvious you want him in front of you. Face it and deal with it before you get fucked again.

Well we did the best we could to help y'all. At the end of the day, it's up to her to do the right. Hopefully she thinks with her heart, not her feelings.

a big thanks to all you who read my post & commented x

@BullsEye Just do what makes you happy. Find something that puts joy in your heart. Then remember what we said. I wish you the best ok

Just got with it. Once the scissors go through that first shirt its smooth destroying! Not that I know from personal experience. Just guessing...😐

Taurus love plenty sex meh.. especially when treated and spoiled, yes tauruses you like to be spoilt. So all i can say give him a nice bumper session treat him well and he will be loyal to you. He cheated, musbe something you did. jus sayin jus sayin.

Why not, Aqua?