Cancer Male Leo Female - Taking Back Control

I love this man more than life itself... however I have not seen him since Feb/08...because he disrespected me during that month. Long story... but let me say that he pursued me for a year with a vengeance and once I called him on it...he said "I don't know where you are coming from!" I walked that day.

Yes we have had nominal communication since then... Usually me beating him over the head for being a child. Oh.... You should read some of the things I said.....

Any hoot in ... 09/09... I realized that a number of missed calls on my cell since 07/09 had come in from him... OK.. his cell... his company yada yada... which I ignored... again long story...

Once I realized.... I again confronted him on the calls... Yup typical man... (ok a Cancer) no response... So I sent him Susan's Wild Horse YouTube vid... upon arriving in LA... The last segment mean a lot to me and to him... Why— Because I believe we were together in a former life... I knew this man from the get go.. I could feel him... I just knew him... I have never felt this way about any man in my life before... It was magic...

I let it go at that.. and made zero communication with him in 2010... but on Xmas day 9:02 in the morning... my cell registered a text from an unknown no. I just knew it was him. I went through my phone a few days later to discover a four more calls from July 2010... So that to me confirmed what I already knew.

Although he covered New Year on the initial message... I suspected that he would send me a N. Year message as well... since I had not responded to the 1st message.... Yup that new message came in at 11:10 in the morning...
I still did nothing... until some 18 hours later... When I sent him this ....

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/new-texting-language-for-all-men-by-us-female-1851951/?p=2

I chose my response to his Xmas text.. carefully... as Boo Boo... would mean something to him...That was the simple message I sent him on Halloween 2008... I needed to confirm what I already knew as it was an unknown number to me. His response to blowing him away with Sorry...confirmed what I already knew... WTF... "I'm your Darling"

Now since January 2, 2011....somehow he made his way home into my brain.. So I guess he has control of me again.... How do I take back that control... over my being—?

Part 2

I want to send him back to the curb... since I have not heard from him since.... I found that in the past if I kicked him to the curb.. with n/c...thereafter.... I was able to move on ... from his stranglehold on me.... I have not seen him in 3 years...

Is he psychotic or something.... Why would he contact me ... via text... now—? Is he just messing with me again— Help!!!!

Psychotic? I dunno, you know him better than we do. However, he is a cancer and cancer's are not fond of letting go completely. My first bf was (is) a cancer and he continued to find ways to contact me a good 7 years after our relationship ended.

Stay vigilant and avoid him like the plague.