@Lanvin1
16 Years
Posted by Tahlia
well actually, speaking as a Cancer i can't really stand Leos, with the exception of one. but i can't stand him either but i'm obsessed w him. they're too attention seeking it's annoying and think the world revolves around them when no one really gives a shit. i even stopped hanging around w a Leo female b/c of this behavior. they ae good people deep down though i guess i'll give them that. they really do have warm hearts, but also too superficial. just my opinion though.
lol Im a Virgo and I understand what you mean. I have a friend and who is Leo and she is the same way. The thing is with Leos they are naturally dominant, so to be around them you have to put the brakes on every so often and just be honest with them. Because if you dont they will be oblivious to how you are feeling. They usually respect when people are honest with them. I love Leos because they are so full of life. They never seem to hold grudges. Just a lot of fun and they are fearless, and they dont allow people to tell them that they are less than the best.
I dated a cancer for 6 almost 7 years. It was a great relationshiop my issue was the mood swings and not being open minded about anything. As for virgo I have been digging this virgo guy for almost a year and its been an up hill battle for me. He has a temper, he doesn't apologize, he doesn't think things through, and he is just wild...but i adore him so much. I was caught at first sight and I hate it. As for being compatible I think we are oil and water we only mix when shaken and then we dissolve but still I just really like him.
But back to the questions I think that when you are putting these two signs together its all about the actual person and the sign just falls into place
i'm a leo whose first bf was a cancer and current bf is a cancer (some 9 years later). the first sucked in every way possible and my current one is awesome beyond belief. first was a june cancer and current is july? maybe there's a difference? there's something to be said about age and maturity too.
never had a virguy. usually not into them. was strangely, and intensely, attracted to one this past winter but i think i intimidate (or scare) him. whenever we're around each other now he keeps a distance and performs the infamous stare.
my current is a second decan actually. my first did have a lot of gem in his chart interestingly enough. my current is a triple whammy (sun/moon/asc) cancer.
yes he is but, get this, he's extremely balanced! his merc and our venus are in leo so maybe that helps.
Posted by Reaper
I love virgos more . The virgals are some of my favorites .
Hmmm.. Interesting. You just posted in the Cancer board about how you love cancer women.
So ironic... Im currently in a relationship with a Virgo guy and was previously in one with a Cancer guy. I am still EXTREMELY close to the Cancer.... he had commitment issues and I finally decided to move on from him (well sorta we still talk daily). I love them both dearly. Funny thing is... I cant really say which one Im more compatible with because they both have some really great qualities that I adore. But they are also both Leo cuspers which is pretty crazy too and they both have a lot of air and fire influences in the other portions of their charts. Im also a Leo/Virgo cusper so maybe this is why Im able to relate better to either sign. IDK.
My Cancer is my best friend and he is having a tough time dealing with my new relationship, but he stands by me and is still there for me and says he is never going anywhere. If he didnt have other issues, I think we would be together. My Virgo is such a fantastic mix of Alpha male with a warm side that I think has to do with his Libra Moon. I am so comfortable with both of them. Ive always had great relationships with both signs, even if they didnt work out romantically for the long haul, we've always remained close.
I think either sign can be a match depending on the other influences in the charts. Communication is the key. Im initially very attracted to Virguys but in the past it has fizzled fairly quickly. Not so much this time, YET.
I am a Leo female and my personal experience with virgo and cancers is this...
Female Cancers: a couple of my best friends are cancers...I have to be patient with my cancer girls... but we sure have good times!
Male Cancers: A headache... better yet a migraine! I push cancer males buttons like no other but it's like they love me so much they hate me. however, older cancer males are easy for me to bond with and communicate on a deeper level. I think that's just maturity but they are soooooooooooooooooo sensitive this males.
Female Virgos: I have had some virgo female friends who in my opinion were good people at heart yet very jealous and insecure.
Male Virgos: Some of my best friends. These guys I have always been gentlemens and true friends to me.
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Is Leo more compatible with Virgo, or Cancer?