Cancer man experience.. Help!!

Talking to a cancer guy, I'm a Libra. Met him online and got along very quickly, very funny. After a few hours of talking he asked to take me out the weekend ahead, I said yes. On the day he cancelled literally last minute due to a family event. I didn't say anything, just let him do his thing. So he rearranged something for the following day, but apparently he went out the night before and was "feeling unwell". I still didn't say anything at first, but the next day when he messaged me I just had a go at him. I told him about himself and that he needs to fix up. He then said how much he wanted to see me and how much he liked me blah blah blah.. Over the phone he said we will go out on the following weekend. The weekend came and I didn't say anything, I wanted to see if he remembered what he said. Saturday night came, it was about 5-6ish. He still didn't mention out date. So he then asked me what my plans are tonight and I said " I'm going out to a bar with a few friends, since you didn't bother to rearrange our date".. The same night I saw him at a club which he hardly does in the same area I said I would be in.. WTF!!

He then messaged me how I was and all of the small talk, he didn't reply to my message but saw it. Ignored it for the whole day. I heard from him the next afternoon like nothing had happened. He then tries to be manipulative when telling him how he's been acting and how it's making me feel about this all. Making me feel bad for him and using so many excuses like I'm an idiot. He apologised many of times and said numerous of times how much he wants to see me and meet me...

I was dealing with a cancer moon aqua guy who was like this. Kept saying he was very interested however kept blowing me off so I stopped talking to him. I think actions speak louder than words.

I dealt with one cancer loser who was like this. He kept leading me on for his amusement and petty ego. Total asshole. When he did it the second time, I punked him off so well that he never came out of his shell again. Putting him in his place was the best thing I did.

he isn't worth your time........ he is just being a dick if i do say so myself

Posted by aquarius09
I dealt with one cancer loser who was like this. He kept leading me on for his amusement and petty ego. Total asshole. When he did it the second time, I punked him off so well that he never came out of his shell again. Putting him in his place was the best thing I did.

I had one put me in my place but I actually spent a significant amount of money to make it right with this person so we could at least be friends again down the line. I like in an aspect that Aquarius can be bought off to take the negative Urananian vibes off me where I can't sleep at night. It was more of me being ashamed at my behavior when i shoudn't have taken their actions so personally. I can't do that spiel with Virgo as they will toy with you endlessly. I mean I have my games too but damn lol.

Also I probably did the same thing that Cancer guy did to you. I lead her on because I knew she was too good for me and I hoped it would make her want me more. I felt like there was such a small window and I sensed it had opened by her but by the time i decided to act on it I am sure this person was no longer interested and went nuts when she closed it because I thought it was still open lol. She had a Sag moon. She was a freespirit lol.

As for the Libra OP if a Cancer meets you online most likely he is looking for primarily a sexual aspect to this relationship in the longterm.. He isn't going to let you feel that way or else u will stop talking. He has you right where he wants you lol. Based on how he is acting it doesn't seem like a romance to him unless yall just click in some way that is totally random. Libra and Cancer makes excellent friends but not really lovers unless there are other placements in which it could lead to more.