This cancer man and I have had an off and on relationship for about two years. We started off our relationship pretty serious and talked about marriage a lot. He was head over heels for me. After a couple of months into our relationship it got messy and we ended things. He would pop up here and there and it seemed like he still wanted me or cared however other times it seemed like he was just horny. Around a year ago he came back and said he wanted to work things out and wanted to get married. That didn't last and we again ended things on a bad note. Fast forward a couple months ago he said he still cares about me and is really attracted to me but doesn't know what he wants in life. ( he doesn't have a stable job, isn't where he wants to be in life) I feel he over thinks things too much like he's scared I'm not the wife he wants, or if we'll end up in divorce/ doesn't have enough money saved ect....
I don't understand why he doesn't want me when he says any man would be lucky to have me, but why doesn't he fight for me if that's the case? We are both around the same age early 20s he's about 3 months older than me.
Whenever we are together he can't keep his hands off me and he is very sweet, attentive and caring. He stares into my eyes for hours and is all touchy. We have a lot in common and we both want the same things in life. Faith is very important to him and he is trying to be a born again Virgin ( I'm a virgin) and feels that is speaking will cause him to go astray. He says he's not ready for marriage and says its best for us to not speak because it'll tempt us.
My question is do you think he's only attracted to
Me physically?? Or do you think he still wants me??
Whenever we are together he can't keep his hands off me and he is very sweet, attentive and caring. He stares into my eyes for hours and is all touchy. We have a lot in common and we both want the same things in life. Faith is very important to him and he is trying to be a born again Virgin ( I'm a virgin) and feels that is speaking will cause him to go astray. He says he's not ready for marriage and says its best for us to not speak because it'll tempt us.
My question is do you think he's only attracted to
Me physically?? Or do you think he still wants me??
WoW! To be with you for two years and he hasn't had sex with you. Little one, while he was with you he was having sex with "other" women because, yeah, he was horny. The other women are no longer in his life and he came full- fledged back to you. He sees that you are the same and it's HARD for a man to want to be like you (a virgin). He CAN be one, but it's really, really hard (he has to have a strong will power; and it's his choice). I am SURPRISED he doesn't have a steady job nor has saved money. Most of your Cancerians are hard working men (they are the jack of all trades); and although SOME save money, he hasn't. I'm very, very surprised to hear this. Also, remember, he's Cancer. He crawls inside his shell and all you see is his "beady" eyes lurking out. Remember also, that Cancerians tend to get moody and melancholy and they crawl inside their shell until they are ready to come outside. Only a knight in shining armor would fight for their woman. He's not quite there yet; is he? No. Yes, Cancerians are attentative, but once you're gone the real world creeps up on them (waking up in the morning to NO job, zero balance in his checking account and or holes in his pocket). He sees others better off and again, his "melancholy" mind kicks in by telling you that, "Any man would be lucky to have you." Is this what you want? Do you want to marry a man that is not stable? A man that crawls inside his shell and comes out when he's ready? Do you have the patience for this? Are you ready to proceed with the relationship KNOWING he's still going to get sex from another woman since you're a virgin and he wants to be a "born again virgin?" Can you believe me when I say, "There are PLENTY of fish in the sea?" You've got allot to think about. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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