I have been dating a cancer man for a month. It was going well and have enjoyed his company. He says a lot of things that he doesn't follow through with like certain date plans. We were not intimate at all until the other evening, he spent the night but no sex because I am not ready. When we were in bed he told me after discussion about still waiting that he is still online looking at women. I asked if he is still meeting anyone and he said no. He asked if I am still on, told him I am but have't gone on since I am not looking for someone. I told him that we would need to delete profiles before having sex. I am being cautious for myself because I have taken a lot of time to heal after some bad situations. He knows this about me. Since that night he has been distant. I asked him about it today and he said it is other stress. I told him that he hurt my feelings to be intimate with me knowing he is out there and not telling me before. It feels almost like he was passively trying to hurt me for not having sex. He did not reply to the comment about being hurt. Should I even bother with him anymore? He seems like a good person but I am not sure I trust this
