HELP!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by vesper on Saturday, March 25, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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@vesper
10 Years

I'm doubting the situation and I am not afraid to lost this cancer man. I just need a clarification in why such manner that you wanted it to end up the conversation again with ''BYE''. Why can't he just be straightforward to tell me ''I won't be able to contact you in a few days or weeks'' because of work etc. whatever his doing in his personal life. PLEASE CANCERS HAVE SOME CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

I don't mind if you sent me messages with '' I'll chat to you soon with smiling face and a waving hand that indicates BYE''. To me it's not enough i have a bad reputation taking that as a JOKE

After two weeks without having any proper communication from him and ask me to spend time with him this past few days and now his doing the same thing again. Boy! It will backfire you once i open my mouth in no time i'm no angel even if i'm INTROVERT myself i will tell him straight to his face how he treated me in such manner (so bad) i will question him in person and make him realize that.

I am taking for granted with this cancer man. am i?

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@LadyNeptune
11 Years25,000+ Posts

I dated an immature cancer like this. When he contacts you in another 2 weeks let him know that you wanted to hang out but he went ghost. And now your involved with someone else. Boy, bye.

Maybe then he'll treat his next victim with a little more respect. Maybe not.

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@vesper
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
I dated an immature cancer like this. When he contacts you in another 2 weeks let him know that you wanted to hang out but he went ghost. And now your involved with someone else. Boy, bye.

Maybe then he'll treat his next victim with a little more respect. Maybe not.

I don't know, i don't have a solid proof if his seeing someone else. But I have the feeling that he does

Ghosting for 2 weeks is no surprise it's just too obvious :/

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@vesper
10 Years

Posted by MagicMona

Posted by vesper

Posted by MagicMona
yes. leave. not worth the trouble.

Can I just tell him 'Not to obligate himself to contact me and stay gone?'

yes. would be wise

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I did

He said that his fully aware that there was a missing gap last time although he was busy and want to have a talk about it :/

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@LadyNeptune
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by vesper

Posted by LadyNeptune
I dated an immature cancer like this. When he contacts you in another 2 weeks let him know that you wanted to hang out but he went ghost. And now your involved with someone else. Boy, bye.

Maybe then he'll treat his next victim with a little more respect. Maybe not.

I don't know, i don't have a solid proof if his seeing someone else. But I have the feeling that he does

Ghosting for 2 weeks is no surprise it's just too obvious :/

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No I said tell him that YOU are seeing someone else. He missed his chance.

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@vesper
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by vesper

Posted by LadyNeptune
I dated an immature cancer like this. When he contacts you in another 2 weeks let him know that you wanted to hang out but he went ghost. And now your involved with someone else. Boy, bye.

Maybe then he'll treat his next victim with a little more respect. Maybe not.

I don't know, i don't have a solid proof if his seeing someone else. But I have the feeling that he does

Ghosting for 2 weeks is no surprise it's just too obvious :/

No I said tell him that YOU are seeing someone else. He missed his chance.

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Oh!

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