Look woman. You gotta be straight forward with him. Either friend zone each other forever, or start being in a relationship. Try making the first move. Maybe he is just scared of losing you if he makes the first move and it doesn't work out. So yes, make your move, if it works, well n good.. Else be friends. First move could be giving him a passionate kiss on his lips or just telling him you like him more than as a friend. Whatever your choice is.