Cancer Man worries!

This cancer guy I've been dating for about 4 months makes it clear he doesn't want a relationship with me yet when I tell him he's broken my heart & hint that I'm gonna leave him alone though I love him so so much he won't text back yet will such much effort into contacting me as far as on his break , will text me good morning or even good afternoon even going as far as inviting me over within the next few days. I know he loves me but if he doesn't want to be with me wth— Helpp

Posted by Cena354
This cancer guy I've been dating for about 4 months makes it clear he doesn't want a relationship with me yet when I tell him he's broken my heart & hint that I'm gonna leave him alone though I love him so so much he won't text back yet will such much effort into contacting me as far as on his break , will text me good morning or even good afternoon even going as far as inviting me over within the next few days. I know he loves me but if he doesn't want to be with me wth— Helpp

Why do these women keep posting the same exact shit?!?!?
GIRL! He is using you! You are providing him FREE BOOTY. He will fight for that, but he will not be in a relationship with you. Cancer men are known to linger in situationships even if they are not going anywhere. Take his word for it. HE DON'T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!!

The more you keep letting him back in, the more hyou are only being used. Learn to LOVE yourself and MOVE ON!
He is just not that into you!

Sorry!

What sign are you?

Sag

OH LAWD!!!!

Wait, are you assuming he loves you or has he actually said it. This is one sign that's all about that inner feeling crap and they don't do well with hiding their emotions in my opinion no water sign does. If a Cancer loves you he??ll be trying to make you his. When they want something they grab and take it for keeps, and God help those that try to take you away or if you try dating others while dating them. Yikes.
Truly an all or nothing sign when it's real, so if he's playing games and giving you the run around then he's just another selfish man that wants to string you along while he figures out what he wants.
You might as well stop telling him your going to leave him alone too, because it's falling on deaf ears. You can show him better than you can tell him.

Posted by pinklibra
Wait, are you assuming he loves you or has he actually said it. This is one sign that's all about that inner feeling crap and they don't do well with hiding their emotions in my opinion no water sign does. If a Cancer loves you he??ll be trying to make you his. When they want something they grab and take it for keeps, and God help those that try to take you away or if you try dating others while dating them. Yikes.
Truly an all or nothing sign when it's real, so if he's playing games and giving you the run around then he's just another selfish man that wants to string you along while he figures out what he wants.
You might as well stop telling him your going to leave him alone too, because it's falling on deaf ears. You can show him better than you can tell him.

FALSE!!!
He is NOT stringing her along. He clearly told her from the beginning (as she stated) that he did not want to be in a relationship with her. Therefore, that isn't stringing someone along. That is a FACT that this chick refuses to take seriously. Her bad. She should move on in my opinion or just continue to be FWB with him at her own risk. He will drop her once he finds a woman he really wants to be with.

Don't threaten to leave him alone unless you mean it and have every intention of following through on it. Otherwise, you lose all credibility.

Posted by truecap
Don't threaten to leave him alone unless you mean it and have every intention of following through on it. Otherwise, you lose all credibility.

+100

Yeah when we chill we don't always have sex you know we actually haven't in weeks & it isn't a problem . He's a very closed off person in the beginning we argued a lot and I think he dwells on that

Posted by Cena354
Yeah when we chill we don't always have sex you know we actually haven't in weeks & it isn't a problem . He's a very closed off person in the beginning we argued a lot and I think he dwells on that

She is delusional... Still not getting it. Enjoy sweety 🙂

Just focus on being his PLATONIC friend and nothing else. Go out and date other people.

Posted by truecap
Don't threaten to leave him alone unless you mean it and have every intention of following through on it. Otherwise, you lose all credibility.

^^This.
I don't necessarily think its sign dependent either.
This will be interpreted as (pick one or all):
1. You don't really mean it and are trying to manipulate him
2. You do mean it and he will decide not to invest any more time with you

Keep in mind this is in context of him expressly stating he doesn't want a relationship...

Posted by cancergoddess143

Posted by Cena354
This cancer guy I've been dating for about 4 months makes it clear he doesn't want a relationship with me yet when I tell him he's broken my heart & hint that I'm gonna leave him alone though I love him so so much he won't text back yet will such much effort into contacting me as far as on his break , will text me good morning or even good afternoon even going as far as inviting me over within the next few days. I know he loves me but if he doesn't want to be with me wth— Helpp

Why do these women keep posting the same exact shit?!?!?
GIRL! He is using you! You are providing him FREE BOOTY. He will fight for that, but he will not be in a relationship with you. Cancer men are known to linger in situationships even if they are not going anywhere. Take his word for it. HE DON'T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!!

The more you keep letting him back in, the more hyou are only being used. Learn to LOVE yourself and MOVE ON!
He is just not that into you!

Sorry!

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+1000000

NOT FALSE! (It was my opinion. You don't have to agree. I was talking to the OP, NOT YOU.)

To the OP: Perhaps I should say, he's playing the situation to his advantage and you??re allowing it.
Damn. Better—
SMH.
Sagg, run for your life. You may think you love or like, though I'm not sure how a fast paced fire sign such as yourself fell for a water sign, but you need to get away from this guy. Just my personal opinion you are reacting to your opposite, and maybe his friendship wooed you, Cancer men are very sweet and giving and all that jazz. However when they get into their feelings over you, unless you are moved by your emotions they will drive you nuts with all their whining. Fire signs don't seem to have the patience for people that cry wolf all the time, or are just too damn emotional, that's why they normally either end up with an Air sign or another fire sign.
Anyway, bottom line he doesn't want a relationship and you obviously do so you should date someone that wants you the way you want them.