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Cancer Men and Illness
Posted by ChrisIsKodakThat's what I've been doing a bit. My usual MO is logic since I am very logical for a woman, lol. I just look at him a certain way and he looks super guilty, like he's been caught. He acted like a little kid. How long will this take?Posted by confusedlibra78Nitpick and guilt trip till success.
My Cancer bf of 10 months told me Weds night that he had a nosebleed earlier in the day and he'd never had one before. The next day as I was driving him to work it started gushing uncontrollably. Scariest thing I have ever seen in person. I ended up rushing him to the hospital. Blood work was fine and they got it under control. Blood pressure was super high. He also drinks and takes Adderall.
On the way home from the ER, he started to bleed again. Got it under control again at home it kept bleeding off and on throughout the night. He continued to drink and smoke despite me telling him that it was making it worse. I wanted to take him to the ER last night and the doctor this morning and he refused.
My question is, how do I handle him. With my ex Sag husband I would just be relentless until he caved. I get the sense this won't work with a Cancer. I tried being gentle but he wouldn't budge. I'm so worried about him and don't know what to do to help him. Any advice?
Don't use logic, use emotions on him to make him think.
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Posted by ChrisIsKodakWhat about crying? I was crying but didn't let him see it. Or telling him that it hurts me to see him sick?Posted by confusedlibra78Nitpick and guilt trip till success.
My Cancer bf of 10 months told me Weds night that he had a nosebleed earlier in the day and he'd never had one before. The next day as I was driving him to work it started gushing uncontrollably. Scariest thing I have ever seen in person. I ended up rushing him to the hospital. Blood work was fine and they got it under control. Blood pressure was super high. He also drinks and takes Adderall.
On the way home from the ER, he started to bleed again. Got it under control again at home it kept bleeding off and on throughout the night. He continued to drink and smoke despite me telling him that it was making it worse. I wanted to take him to the ER last night and the doctor this morning and he refused.
My question is, how do I handle him. With my ex Sag husband I would just be relentless until he caved. I get the sense this won't work with a Cancer. I tried being gentle but he wouldn't budge. I'm so worried about him and don't know what to do to help him. Any advice?
Don't use logic, use emotions on him to make him think.
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Posted by MiZLeoHe takes it by mouth
Tell him to stop snorting the Adderall
Posted by topesHe's 33, actually. He's a bartender and it's part of that life style . However, he's an addict and I can only do so much to help him. I was hoping this would wake him up.
Tell him at his age (I'm guessing 40ish) it's time to get off the grog and smokes. It's a selfish and stinking gross habit. It's all starting to catch up with him. Tick tock.
How do u put up with it.
Honestly, he's the same sober as he is when drinking, so it's easy to ignore that he has a problem at times
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On the way home from the ER, he started to bleed again. Got it under control again at home it kept bleeding off and on throughout the night. He continued to drink and smoke despite me telling him that it was making it worse. I wanted to take him to the ER last night and the doctor this morning and he refused.
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