Cancer men evil

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Taurusgirlsparkles
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So I was dating this cancer man born in July for a couple of months. We would talk everyday and see each other every other day. He always went out of his way to spend time with me. Recently we got into our first fight and he got annoyed that I was texting to much and said I’d i couldn’t be patient to move on. I said fine I would out of anger. He then blocked me from my cell number. That rejection upset me so I called from my home phone to apologize and he just said he wanted nothing to do with me and to move on and said some other embarrassing hurtful things. I know he was stressed with work and his father was ill but I don’t think it’s a good enough excuse to intentionally try to break someone’s spirit/heart. How could someone be so cold after just one disagreement that was so petty to begin with. Can anyone help me to understand. Now I feel like I did something wrong but deep down I know I didn’t....
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Posted by Taurusgirlsparkles
So I was dating this cancer man born in July for a couple of months. We would talk everyday and see each other every other day. He always went out of his way to spend time with me. Recently we got into our first fight and he got annoyed that I was texting to much and said I’d i couldn’t be patient to move on. I said fine I would out of anger. He then blocked me from my cell number. That rejection upset me so I called from my home phone to apologize and he just said he wanted nothing to do with me and to move on and said some other embarrassing hurtful things. I know he was stressed with work and his father was ill but I don’t think it’s a good enough excuse to intentionally try to break someone’s spirit/heart. How could someone be so cold after just one disagreement that was so petty to begin with. Can anyone help me to understand. Now I feel like I did something wrong but deep down I know I didn’t....

call him from your work phone and appologise to him

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TaurusBull1977
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You're being pushy.

Out of curiosity,

Who initiated most of the calls, text messages, and spending a great deal of time together in the beginning?

Was it you...or the Cancer?

Dilemma#1

If it was the Cancer, your sudden 'pushiness/lack of patience' can be due from insecurities stemming from inconsistencies in patterns of behavior. Bulls can be reactionary, when there is a sudden shift or change in behavior. If a routine, or certain pattern becomes interrupted, this can put us in panic mode. You may have been the demise of your own break-up.

Dilemma #2

If you were the one who initiated all the calls, text messages in the beginning, then your Cancer was never really emotionally invested, and now he is just looking for an excuse to bail.
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Posted by Taurusgirlsparkles
So I was dating this cancer man born in July for a couple of months. We would talk everyday and see each other every other day. He always went out of his way to spend time with me. Recently we got into our first fight and he got annoyed that I was texting to much and said I’d i couldn’t be patient to move on. I said fine I would out of anger. He then blocked me from my cell number. That rejection upset me so I called from my home phone to apologize and he just said he wanted nothing to do with me and to move on and said some other embarrassing hurtful things. I know he was stressed with work and his father was ill but I don’t think it’s a good enough excuse to intentionally try to break someone’s spirit/heart. How could someone be so cold after just one disagreement that was so petty to begin with. Can anyone help me to understand. Now I feel like I did something wrong but deep down I know I didn’t....
You wanted to apologize, for what? Seems as if you think you did something wrong; other than, "I was texting too much". Cancerians can be "jealous" if you don't spend time with them, ignore them, or reciprocate (as he did when, "He always went out of his way to spend time with me").

Ahhhhhhhhhhh (light bulb goes off), YOU want to apologize for "ignoring him". And he blocked you. Hmmmmm. Being a "water" sign myself it is NOT childish/evil (by you)/insecure; all adjectives used here from other DXP members about a Cancerian man. I keep reminding y'all to visualize the PINCERS on the crab. It's his way of "releasing" you from his grip. Cancerian men are "moody" and "sensitive"; they crawl inside their shell when "hurt" and all you see is their beady eyes peeking out of the shell.

Don't stalk him by trying to get his attention to apologize. No use crying over spilled milk. NOW, this is the one time I want to tell you to wait until he "calms down" and reaches out to you. May take days, weeks, months, or years.

Instead of getting advice here why don't you Google how Cancerian men act when pissed off? I'm too busy to do that for you.

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Good luck

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva