Cancer men, how do you deal with problems/stress...?

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
shell--------->ignoring everyone-------->Crying to self---------> dealing with the problem------->re-establishing socially

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
shell--------->ignoring everyone-------->Crying to self---------> dealing with the problem------->re-establishing socially

Aww no, now I just want to give my cancer a hug. but it's probably best not to contact him for a bit?

Give him a hug. I wouldn't say not to contact him, but don't be angry if he ignores you

we like to know you're a ride or die, just don't pester us to respond or to fake small conversation or care about anything else but ourselves ...yes emotionally selfish when something wrong happens ..we short circuit ...

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
shell--------->ignoring everyone-------->Crying to self---------> dealing with the problem------->re-establishing socially

Aww no, now I just want to give my cancer a hug. but it's probably best not to contact him for a bit?

Give him a hug. I wouldn't say not to contact him, but don't be angry if he ignores you

we like to know you're a ride or die, just don't pester us to respond or to fake small conversation or care about anything else but ourselves ...yes emotionally selfish when something wrong happens ..we short circuit ...

I really appreciate all your advice!

It's so tough but that's the last thing I want to do is to pester him lol! Would you say I should comfort him physically (not sex) like offer him a massage or home cooked dinner? Is it ok to asks if he wants to talk about his problem or just let him bring it up?

im not a crab guy, but yes a massage and a good dinner would be nice. Maybe a movie on netflix to zone out.

well guys don't bring up their problems right! not the kind of guys that scorpio women like.

you can ask him about it and see if he opens up. If he doesn't...then don't proceed.

but alcohol makes for loose lips, so bring wine with that dinner.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
shell--------->ignoring everyone-------->Crying to self---------> dealing with the problem------->re-establishing socially

Aww no, now I just want to give my cancer a hug. but it's probably best not to contact him for a bit?

Give him a hug. I wouldn't say not to contact him, but don't be angry if he ignores you

we like to know you're a ride or die, just don't pester us to respond or to fake small conversation or care about anything else but ourselves ...yes emotionally selfish when something wrong happens ..we short circuit ...

Yes, invite him for dinner, massage, anything to nurture him. He will never forget. Even if he refuses if his hole is too deep, he will appreciate it. I always get annoyed with friends (usually air or fire!) that don't understand that all I want is a hug. If I'm bad I'll retreat not to get away from you but to recharge. The loved ones are always welcomed inside my shell.

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I just realized He onced had jokingly said he just wants a hug and talk about his day. I didn't really picked up on that and had to ask him later if everything is ok. It can get so confusing when he'd sarcastically say stuff like that since he jokes around a lot but I guess that's his way of asking to hold him? 😢 I feel so bad now.

Btw he is a Cancer with cancer in Venus, moon in Leo.

Thank you for the advice!

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
shell--------->ignoring everyone-------->Crying to self---------> dealing with the problem------->re-establishing socially

Aww no, now I just want to give my cancer a hug. but it's probably best not to contact him for a bit?

Give him a hug. I wouldn't say not to contact him, but don't be angry if he ignores you

we like to know you're a ride or die, just don't pester us to respond or to fake small conversation or care about anything else but ourselves ...yes emotionally selfish when something wrong happens ..we short circuit ...

Yes, invite him for dinner, massage, anything to nurture him. He will never forget. Even if he refuses if his hole is too deep, he will appreciate it. I always get annoyed with friends (usually air or fire!) that don't understand that all I want is a hug. If I'm bad I'll retreat not to get away from you but to recharge. The loved ones are always welcomed inside my shell.

I just realized He onced had jokingly said he just wants a hug and talk about his day. I didn't really picked up on that and had to ask him later if everything is ok. It can get so confusing when he'd sarcastically say stuff like that since he jokes around a lot but I guess that's his way of asking to hold him? 😢 I feel so bad now.

Btw he is a Cancer with cancer in Venus, moon in Leo.

Thank you for the advice!

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He just wants you around. I don't talk about my problems a lot when I'm going through them, but I like to have people around. He is your bf? Take him out, be around him without being annoying, you don't need to mention the problem, he will open up if he wants. Don't just wait for him to reach you, sometimes we get stuck in a hole. Just be there with and for him essentially. That's all he needs.

Posted by Scvrpio
lets say financially, losing your job or not getting that promotion you've been waiting for?