Cancer Men SHY? NO WAY!! My wknd w/a Cancer

Hello friends!

No cancer bashing here! For a year friends sister trying to set me up with her 34 yr old brother who comes back to town 4x year (he in West, me in East). I am 40. Nothing would come of it, he lives other side of country, but he knew my younger brother and his fam knows my family. He is a MAJOR mama boy and VERY family oriented and was brought up with good values and a great guy per my friend.

Last minute, I was asked to meet them out for drinks while here at TD to finally meet him. I walked in the bar and Mr. Cancer was all over me. His West coast dimeaner, manors ,politeness, and "over the top" ways made me think he was gay!

I am Scorp, so PDA is not my thing. I was horrified.

"OMG, you are gorgeous, where have you been, I'm in love..bla bla" he kept touching me, trying to dance w/ me and also kissing me every momment he could. His bro-in-law had to tell him to leave me alone. I think he was a bit excited about me being older as well, it was mentioned.

He got to me after awhile. We left and came to my home. Long night, GREAT PASSIONATE (most I have ever seen). He was a MAJOR snuggler (me , not so much). At one point, mentioned I wanted a child and he said "well, let's go!"(hey, I'm 40, make $ & no kids yet, dont want the drama)WOW..any guy would be horrified.

Most romantic, passionate 24 hours I ever had. He would not let me get outta bed next AM, wanted to "hold me" "touch me" "look at me" "Snuggle". I was ready to get him back to his sisters (It has been 2 years since man at my house), but he kept pushing me down next to him "want to be here all day w/ you". He made me feel sexy to be naked (I had surgeries last year so a bit anxious about my scars). He was amazing.

He then got out of bed (after the 4th "session" of the morning) and took over my kitchen to make me a full course breakfast. SHOCKED!

We spent day 2-gether at house, he was so attentive (rubbbing my back, holding hands, kissing, compliments, questions, saying how happy he was). It was a LOT.

He went to NY that night w/his dad and called me next day "Had a fabulous time w/ you, in NY, call me, will be lvng for West tomorrow" I did call back and we plan on getting together for XMAS.Hopefully hear from him b4 then, I dont push.

Friends all said he was excited to meet me. Will be a great F* buddy but nothing more...long distance, age.

These guys are intense! Want another round!!!

PS..."kids: don't want the drama"= been married 2x, did not work, looking to have a baby or adopt at this point w/o marriage

Yeah sounds like a cancer man! Who said cancer men were shy! The only thing shy about them is their secrets!

Cancer guys are never ever shy (in the bedroom, inclusive)! I'm a cancer and I'm never shy. Just that at times, I prefer to be quiet.

Thanks All!

Hope I hear from him again (how long do I have to wait for that to happen?!) He will be here in a few weeks so cross fingers...I need to get me more!

OR...it was all a lovely one night stand with breakfast included :-)

Actually, his sister just invited me over for a drink Friday.

And YES, all I have seen about cancers are they are SHY "You have to make the first move with a cancer"...hmmm.

Just like us scorps though, we bond after sex even though we may not act like we did. I am friggin 40 and wondering when he will call me now and if he really liked me as everyone said? This is sad....ha!

So yes, let's hear more about cancer, let's get the inside scoop!

My x cancer baby Daddy! Was a romantic too that is how they get you hooked! Lol! Gosh we have birthdays two days apart mine is the 15th and his is the 13th... We started seeing eachother shortly before that! When we first started seeing eachother he spent every night with me for a week and the dissspeared for a week after then our birthdays came and he kept me locked indoors for two days made me breakfast in bed and we had the most romantic lobster dinner with my own bottle of Moet and candles! Everything! I must say he treated me like royalty! And 8 months later I found out he was the biggest whore ever! Thus I say the secrets!

That was the biggest cheater... DXP is funny they replaced the W word with just like me.... Lmao 3lm crackin up they got jokes!

Wow honey, that stinks....sorry to hear that!

There is no way for that to happen here, he in LA me here. It is what it is.

Cancers seems to want to "take care of ppl". He told me about a girl he was seeing last year who got kicked out of her house and he invited her ot live with him. She was a mooch he said (no working, cleaning, nothing) and kicked her out.

I was told by my friend today that he said "I wouldn't know what top do with a girl who makes more money than me". Are they insecure about those things?

Have not heard from him since Sunday...*sigh*.

Wouldnt mind having some phone s*x right now since work stinks...hehehehe

Cancer men ARE NOT shy as astrology claims. I have met some very BLUNT Cancer men who don't bite their tongues about NOTHING!

Cancers shy?? LOl not the ones I have come encounter with! ...My mom is a cancer and shes more outgoing than me at times, but as far as the guys. This one I have posted comments about all through the message board just blew my mind. Is my first time dating a cancer, and I am not to sure how to take him, but I have to admit they are pretty flippen awesome in the bedroom dept (wink wink) ...He was hands down by far the most passionate and caring. sophie68 I wish you the best of luck with him 🙂

Libragal...your cancer is just WAY over the top as far as the controlling issue.
Too bad mine lives 2000 miles away (will see him in a few weeks~~yummy)

Funny...cancers sister just called me to say hi and was mentioning me to her mother.
The subject of me wanting to have children came up and cancers mom said "Well, does she and your brother get along?"

I might be trying for a little crab! That is, IF I can get prego. I have to dust off some eggs....

Yeah he is, and I think honestly he has that issue more b/c he his ex wife cheated on him with 3 different men right after she gave birth to their son. I have sat and tried to figure it out and thats the only thing I can come up with...Because the man is a sweetheart not to mention gooood in bed lol 😛....I just have to keep putting him in check with the controlling issues.....So u see him again on x-mas?

Just be careful Libragal, k?

Regardless of their sun, men who come on that heavy is a red flag. You're beautiful and deserve a good man.

Yes, he called yesterday...coming a few days b4 xmas and staying 10 days.
:-)

I mean sign...not sun

I will be sweetheart, and thanks for being concerned. 10 days huh? LOL..Well just remember to take breaks for water and food to keep your engery UP..(winks) 😛😛😛

ENERGY I mean lol

Hi UC~ I agree with you. He was one of the most pshiest men I ever met even meeting for the first time....and continued with a lot of affection after the fact.