Cancer Men view on sex?

Hi,

I was wondering what a cancer man would think of a woman who becomes physically intimate too quickly? Does he lose respect?

I met a cancer man through mutual friends at a party. Got a bit too drunk and ended up hooking up with him. He did contact me in 2 days to meet up and we went out for dinner and drinks. That week we both had lots going on (different social circles) but we'd see each other after so hooked up 2 more times that week.

By this time I felt that my behavior was probably giving the wrong impression. We ended up not talking for 1 wk then he txted me this past Fri asking how I was. It was late so I responded Sat. He wanted me to come by his place but I was worried that I was just a booty call so refused. He txts me again late night wanting to meet up. I didn't respond until today. He invites me over to his place for wine and TV and I agree but say that I need to leave in 1 hr because I did not want to sleep with him. We make out but when he pushes for more I tell him I was not comfortable and that I think I gave him the wrong impression of me. He says I was over-analyzing and that I hadn't given him the wrong impression but if I wanted to have a conversation of this we could do it at another time. I still left and he seemed quite upset.

My question is am I only a booty call or does he actually like me? If he does actually like me, how do I go about fixing this mess— Or will he just not want to talk to me any more after this?

from what you wrote sounds like you are a booty call..if he truly liked you he would not have seemed upset when you said no and left..

I'm in the same sort of situation, so I understand what you are going through. Things moved too fast and now they are at a kind of stand still - at this point its kind of a wait and see sort of situation. Unfortunatly its not something you can take back, only move on from...

Can you be upfront with him? I would let him know that although circumstances got a little out of hand early on that you are not looking to be simply a booty-call and that if he's okay with that you would love to see where things go from here...

Best of luck!

I was thinking that I want to be up front and talk to him about it. However I was reading about all the typical cancer characteristics and wanted to figure out the best approach. Should I wait a couple days before contacting him or just do it today?

do it today unless you think waiting will gain you something..my motto is the sooner the better..

There is usually no such thing as a booty call for sober cancers, especially if it's at their place.

SamSamSam - do you mean that it is most likely more than a typical booty call if it is completely sober and at their place?

Would other Cancers consider this to be true as well?