Cancer Men.....where to start??

If anyone can shed some light on cancer men, that would be great! : )

I just met a cancer man. We spent the evening together, talking, having a few drinks, getting to know each other.
He was smooth, said everything a woman would want to hear, and talked of doing things in the future.

He was really hot, and I believe, possibly looking for a one night stand, but I did not let him have his way with me.

I did not hear from him, so sent a facebook private message, to feel him out, see what kind of response I would get. He responded, but not to the part about getting together in the future.

Did he respond out of politeness? Is he not interested?

I've read that they take their time, and also, from what I've read, they sound very much like scorpio, with the push and pull. That is scary, as I just went through that for the past couple years with a scorp.

What can you tell me about Cancer men? Thanks!

Thanks MoonMan, I appeciate your input.
You really think I should come right out and ask him if he was only looking for a one night hook up??
I'm not sure I'm comfortable with that, but feel that if he was in to me, as he seemed, then I would have heard from him.

Moonman....your sooooo right....I think misconmunication has ruined alot with relationships especially via txt

This scenario......a caner man is directly told up front...if your looking for a good time...im not her...dont waste our time....if your looking for more & to make & enjoy good times...lets proceed....and he does.....he gets to know you a little more each time..spends time with you...but respects you and does not initiate untilalmost 7 mos later....chemistry is banging...he almost eats you up alive and then goes...comes...goes? Why....not the answer cause i let him....it hasnt been that long....im giving him that "time" you speak of...but over analyzing the why part

Man in the moon...yes...he aleays kept in touch....getting to know me but at the pace of an injured turtle.....I knee I wanted to know more so patiently waited and went along at the crabs pace....For the first almost 3 mos.i let him initiate...i didnt want to push....our chemistry undeniable....after maybe T dates he made his move and wre kissed literally for about 4-5hrs....it was evident to both of us how undeniably attracted we are to eachother from the start....he always kept in touch..chcked in but hardly asked me out in the beginning...workaholic focused on goals..i started thinking he was married until he introduced me to his group of very close friends and their kids and sig others....it went soooo slow...wr were intimate about the 7th month....i was in love..i am never sure what hes feeling ...he gives me so mant mixed feelings?.....after that encounter he disappeared for 2 weeks then it resumed.....

We have stopped talking at least 3 times for a few mos. But seem to always start this thing again...he is the most closed off person ive ever met...he will open up to me about personal private and just when i think we are growing closer...poof he disappears on me.....

Thanks again Moon Man, we haven't exchanged phone numbers, he only added me to FB, which is how i sent the private message.

He did not follow up on the part of my message, reminding him that I'd like to get together again, as he stated the night we met.....so....I guess I have my answer. And if he has not made contact due to the fact that I did not engage in a one night stand with him, then he's not the man for me anyway.

As for what misscorps said, I am not willing to engage in that type of "relationship" again....just went through something very similar with a scorp...never had been in a "relationship" like that in the past, and will not be in one again in the future.....too many head games and hurting of the heart.

SLAP!!

That IS a great comment re: injured turtle. So true.

Divine Sun...if he does contact you again, Id say something like:

"I enjoyed geetting to know you the other night. In order to save us both time and energy, Id like to ask what kind of relationship you are looking for with women. Something casual or long term?"

Something along those lines....and then listen to what he says, not does.