Cancer stubborn

I recently broke things off with this cancer I was dating. He lied to much and I was over him trying to blame me for his mistakes. He asked for space and I told him let's just end it. Told him off pretty bad and even ended the friendship. I would have gave him space if he was right but you can't lie, try and blame me, then want space with out appologizing. Now he has me blocked and said he is going to give me back my stuff but has not returned it. We live walking distance from each other so he could bring it by at anytime. What should I do? Any advice or has he shut down? Is he holding on to it so he has a reason to return? Idk this all seems childish to me.

I'm not giving in. You can't blame others when you do something wrong and then try and run into your shell. I'm all for space but not when you're playing games. I just want him to return my stuff. I thought cancers where the best zodiac. And he was amazing up until the lies and other girls came out.

Posted by Fishouttawater
(...)said is going to give me back my stuff but has not returned it. We live walking distance from each other so he could bring it by at anytime. What should I do?

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

You girls should stop dating cancers... you seem to never learn the lesson...

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Posted by Fishouttawater
(...)said is going to give me back my stuff but has not returned it. We live walking distance from each other so he could bring it by at anytime. What should I do?

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

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Jacket, video game stuff, make up bag (expensive make up) and hard drive. Any ideas on why a cancer would act this way?

Posted by Secret
You girls should stop dating cancers... you never learn the lesson...

Aren't you a cancer? Why shouldn't we date cancers? So you all are this way?

Posted by Fishouttawater

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Posted by Fishouttawater
(...)said is going to give me back my stuff but has not returned it. We live walking distance from each other so he could bring it by at anytime. What should I do?

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

Jacket, video game stuff, make up bag (expensive make up) and hard drive. Any ideas on why a cancer would act this way?

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Ok forget about the jacket and the games. But the expensive make up is a concern... have you tried going to his house in person and collect the make up yourself?

Posted by Fishouttawater

Posted by Secret
You girls should stop dating cancers... you never learn the lesson...

Aren't you a cancer? Why shouldn't we date cancers? So you all are this way?

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I'm not this way, but the rest are, let's say 96% are like that. It's going to be hard to find the other 4% , but once you do it's going to be the best thing that has ever happened to you.

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Posted by Fishouttawater
(...)said is going to give me back my stuff but has not returned it. We live walking distance from each other so he could bring it by at anytime. What should I do?

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

Jacket, video game stuff, make up bag (expensive make up) and hard drive. Any ideas on why a cancer would act this way?

Ok forget about the jacket and the games. But the expensive make up is a concern... have you tried going to his house in person and collect the make up yourself?

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I was trying not to just pop up at his house. He said he was going to leave it in my apt downstairs area but still nothing. And I really want it all. It's not yours and you clearly don't care about me so why not let me be free of your madness. I'm also blocked in his phone so I have no way of knowing if he is home. I could email him and stalk him for my stuff. Just seems so dramatic. How long do these shell visits take?

Well it's sad so many of you guys are like that. I loved him but you can't treat ppl bad. I don't understand the point in all this. Looking through this forum I feel so bad for these women. Lol maybe I should have come here first.

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Posted by Fishouttawater
Well it's sad so many of you guys are like that. I loved him but you can't treat ppl bad. I don't understand the point in all this. Looking through this forum I feel so bad for these women. Lol maybe I should have come here first.

Cancer sign has to evolve passed it's insecurity and emotional mood swings.

Once it does they become unstoppable, a lot of people don't look at themselves though and even attempt to try.

This is what separates the wolf pack like words i was using, alpha / beta version of Cancer.

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This actually makes a lot of sense. He has a lot insecurities and parental issues. And he's very moody.