A crazy pairing that is really working out, but I'm slightly concerned

Okay, I'm a:

Cancer Sun, Leo Moon, Gemini Venus, Scorpio Rising.

3 months ago I started dating a:

Sagittarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Sagittarius Venus, Scorpio Rising.

Now all signs would typically point to this pairing going sour right? I always thought Cancers and Saggs wouldn't be able to stand each other.

But alas, me and my sagg are working out better than any other relationship I've been in at this point. He trusts me, gives me my space, likes to plan outings and go dancing on the weekends, makes me coffee in the morning, texts me all the time, is really super duper sweet and romantic. He says I'm the least crazy girl he's ever been with (he's dated lots of scorpio suns and said they were insane).

Are we a freak accident? I'm kind of worried that things are going so well, ,and that shit is going to hit the fan out of nowhere one day OR that maybe he's naturally attracted to crazy, and will possibly get bored of my lack of crazy? I mean I'm pretty chill for the most part. I might get a tad bit jealous if I'm really provoked but over all I don't give a fuck. Maybe my Gemini venus is keeping things from going sour?

It's only been 3 months. That's no real amount of time to decided if something is bad or good.

And you two have compatible placements so why is this considered a bad match up?

Your moons and suns are interchangeable. Your sun and his moon, your moon and his sun. And then the gemini and sag venus pairing is either going to be very good or very bad haha

I'm a cancer and started talking to a sag a few weeks ago. He's so dreamy! He's also very very honest and even understanding of my insecurities. It surprises me too!! I also am slightly concerned because I've read this pairing is bad!

Posted by CrabbyPrincess
Okay, I'm a:

Cancer Sun, Leo Moon, Gemini Venus, Scorpio Rising.

3 months ago I started dating a:

Sagittarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Sagittarius Venus, Scorpio Rising.

Now all signs would typically point to this pairing going sour right? I always thought Cancers and Saggs wouldn't be able to stand each other.

But alas, me and my sagg are working out better than any other relationship I've been in at this point. He trusts me, gives me my space, likes to plan outings and go dancing on the weekends, makes me coffee in the morning, texts me all the time, is really super duper sweet and romantic. He says I'm the least crazy girl he's ever been with (he's dated lots of scorpio suns and said they were insane).

Are we a freak accident? I'm kind of worried that things are going so well, ,and that shit is going to hit the fan out of nowhere one day OR that maybe he's naturally attracted to crazy, and will possibly get bored of my lack of crazy? I mean I'm pretty chill for the most part. I might get a tad bit jealous if I'm really provoked but over all I don't give a fuck. Maybe my Gemini venus is keeping things from going sour?

Oh God. Don't you have more important things to worry about then if you venus conjuncts making you a psycho or not?

Posted by DivaCanLeo
wait how are you a cancer sun leo moon and not crazy?

im confounded. and stunned.

I really don't know tbh. I've never been one of those girls who are super clingy & possessive. And like I said, I only get jealous if maybe a girl is literally trying to hook up with my guy or if he pays significantly more attention to another girl. I don't nag, I don't text him all the time. I do my own thing for the most part.

Posted by pinkbird03
I'm a cancer and started talking to a sag a few weeks ago. He's so dreamy! He's also very very honest and even understanding of my insecurities. It surprises me too!! I also am slightly concerned because I've read this pairing is bad!

Sagg's are super honest which is something that I'm really appreciative of. Mine is dreamy too, sometimes he'll just be playing a videogame or pouring a cup of coffee and I'll just stare in awe at him 😆

I feel like the fact that I'm a venus gemini keeps us on common ground. He doesn't feel like I'm too possessive and vice-versa. However he is extremely affectionate and loves to just cuddle at home a lot of the time, so that soothes my cancer sensibilities. Then a little while later him or I will spontaneously be like "lets go out!"

I love Sags. I just lost one I dearly loved since my teenage years Sunday morning in a horrible wreck.

Go with the flow, enjoy his company, don't be passive aggressive be direct. Respect each other. Stop looking at astrology as a road map when it's just a slight guideline.

There's a connection so just enjoy it. You're alive. Be stoked about it! -quoting my sag love rip

Posted by CrabbyPrincess

Posted by pinkbird03
I'm a cancer and started talking to a sag a few weeks ago. He's so dreamy! He's also very very honest and even understanding of my insecurities. It surprises me too!! I also am slightly concerned because I've read this pairing is bad!

Sagg's are super honest which is something that I'm really appreciative of. Mine is dreamy too, sometimes he'll just be playing a videogame or pouring a cup of coffee and I'll just stare in awe at him 😆

I feel like the fact that I'm a venus gemini keeps us on common ground. He doesn't feel like I'm too possessive and vice-versa. However he is extremely affectionate and loves to just cuddle at home a lot of the time, so that soothes my cancer sensibilities. Then a little while later him or I will spontaneously be like "lets go out!"

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Aren't they fun? Have a great time. 🙂

Posted by PoopMcPoopFace

Posted by CrabbyPrincess
He says I'm the least crazy girl he's ever been with (he's dated lots of scorpio suns and said they were insane).

Don't worry about this guy. He's got a brain in his head. Enjoy your S(w)ag guy.

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Hehe "s(w)ag guy". 😄

Posted by kissmygrits
I love Sags. I just lost one I dearly loved since my teenage years Sunday morning in a horrible wreck.

Go with the flow, enjoy his company, don't be passive aggressive be direct. Respect each other. Stop looking at astrology as a road map when it's just a slight guideline.

There's a connection so just enjoy it. You're alive. Be stoked about it! -quoting my sag love rip

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I love that quote though, good words. We are all alive so lets be stoked!