Cancer woman DESPERATE to hear your love stories

Hey all.

I have just broken up with a lovely Capricorn guy. I ended it after four months and miss him terribly but I wasn't sure if it had a future and he hasn't exactly come rushing back. I posted about all this in another thread.

Anyway...I'm 38 and keep getting it wrong and I am very low and running out of hope. I'm starting to really believe that I am going to be one of those people who never finds love....who misses the boat.

What I could really do with right now is hearing from people who felt like I do now. But who went on to find love. Please share your stories and give me something to hope for because I'm in tears here.

Thanks. X

That's so me! Or was. I kept meeting the wrong guys, wasting my time on them, and getting my heart broken because I'm an emotional cancer. The last guy was a cap too....

I've been labeled single for 7.5 years. Last Saturday I met a guy on bumble. We've had 3 dates and now he's my boyfriend. We are the perfect match. I couldn't have found a better guy and he feels the same way about me. It was fate. I did pray a lot recently though and I'm totally a believer.

Posted by pinkbird03
That's so me! Or was. I kept meeting the wrong guys, wasting my time on them, and getting my heart broken because I'm an emotional cancer. The last guy was a cap too....

I've been labeled single for 7.5 years. Last Saturday I met a guy on bumble. We've had 3 dates and now he's my boyfriend. We are the perfect match. I couldn't have found a better guy and he feels the same way about me. It was fate. I did pray a lot recently though and I'm totally a believer.

Thank you PinkBird and I SO hope this guy is the one for you and vice versa. It's early days so take it slow but I think and hope that 'when you know, you know'.

I'm SUCH a sucker for heartbreak. I almost wallow in it and torture myself with it way beyond other people I know. Maybe it's a Cancer trait.

Hello my Cancerian sister, well I know you want to hear something inspirational but I don't have that exactly. But I am in your same situation so if you want some emotional support I could do that for you.

I always say... love is around the corner, you just don't which corner. Keep going and keep hoping because when you are at this point is when you find ❤️

Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I remember my first heartbreak that took me two years and a half to get over with.

It took me a while to get back to stand up on my two feet again. I was in shock and slowly recovering, depression was really bad and I always had anxiety while I was in that state.

While in depression, I actually thought no one wanted me. But I got over that, cause I realize I was letting that one dudes criticism get to me.

I'm sorry to hear that SentimentalCrabby.

Sounds like a combination of low self esteem and basic crab tenancies to take everything to heart. I think Cancer is a sign which is constantly FEELING. We can be sponges for other people's emotions. I too have had some heartbreaks that I thought would kill me. But I survived and so did you. Did you ever go on to meet someone nice?

Posted by Moonbutter
I always say... love is around the corner, you just don't which corner. Keep going and keep hoping because when you are at this point is when you find ❤️

Oh Moonbutter I hope you're right.

I've actually heard the opposite.....that you find love when you are NOT looking and you LEAST expect it. So if I keep looking round corners then maybe it won't come to me.

I've been really torn the past few days about whether to reach back out to my Cappy ex. But I'm scared he is dating again even though it's been less than two weeks since the break up.

I'm always amazed how quickly guys can move on 😢

Posted by aquarius_man
i knew a crab girl in london who was infatuated with a cap sailor.

they kept in touch via e-mail and phone calls.

she was extremely faithful to him, always thinking of him, etc

until one day he returned from the sea and didn't even bother to say hi to her

hope this helps

Ha ha ha . Thanks aquarius_man

I'm not sure it helps but it certainly made me laugh!!

I've been heartbroken soooo many times in my life but not because the guy hurt me. It's because I fall in love too fast and see things that aren't there ? For example, if a guy just smiles at me or tells me something sweet I assume that he likes me. And after it turns out he only saw me as a friend and It was all in my stupid head ??

I'm really romantic and I have high expectations so I assume that everyone is nice and has morals like me. And then the guys turn out to be players or big jerks!!! So I feel like I create a fantasy on my mind instead of taking my time to get to know a guy well.

I need to improve on this. I need to STOP FALLING IN LOVE TOO QUICK

Hi Cancer girl from London, I just returned from london yesterday. Sorry to read about what you are going through. Don´t loose hope, I´m about your age, cancer, with 3 long term relationships with capricorns. They are the opposite sign of cancer and there´s a strange attraction between these signs. 2 of the 3 dumpt me but guess what, I could go now to any of them and start something out of old times sake. The thing is that you need time to get yourself together and be the same as you first met, or better. Caps really like and get intriqued of the cancers way of switching from all inn to just friendly attitude. They think they know you and you prove them wrong. The truth is that there´s nobody better then cancers when it comes to please somebody, all the little details, friends and family loving us, let him miss you and try something else and see the difference. I liked the attraction part with the caps. but all were the pesimist type and too much into their career and financial stuff. I would not consider dating caps. now. Anyway, he´s coming back to you and you might reconsider if you want him or not. They all like hard to get so if you really want him make him work for it 😉