Cancerian girls handle competition?

I'm concerned for a close crab friend of mine. She's feeling this Leo dude, but there's a ruthless Gemini chick also vying for his attention. I'm not sure if she can REALLY deal with this.

She acts tough, but I'm worried about her soft centre. What do you think? Help me help her!!!

she will withdraw like a beaten dog... cancers will never compete for the following reasons..

* they can't live with someone who can choose between them and others, someone who's undecided.

* they're obsessed with security .. they can't endanger it or risk it by going all in.

Gemini girls are everywhere!! god they're annoying !

Posted by the17er
she will withdraw like a beaten dog... cancers will never compete for the following reasons..

* they can't live with someone who can choose between them and others, someone who's undecided.

* they're obsessed with security .. they can't endanger it or risk it by going all in.

Gemini girls are everywhere!! god they're annoying !

Except for the comment on Gemini women, I agree with his assessment here. I'm allergic to competition and the moment I get the vibe that a man is playing me off against another, I label him "bitch made" and walk. Love should never be a competition and no man is worth cutting another woman to get. If he were all into you, there'd be no competition. Competing for a man is the flip side of settling, actually and it's usually about wanting what you can't have, because you can't have it.

Yeah I don't do competition. If he chooses the other he has lost me forever. This past couple of months I've been pestered by dudes who realized the girl they went for instead of me were a few bricks shy of their foundations. Not my problem!

Posted by Este8

Posted by the17er
she will withdraw like a beaten dog... cancers will never compete for the following reasons..

* they can't live with someone who can choose between them and others, someone who's undecided.

* they're obsessed with security .. they can't endanger it or risk it by going all in.

Gemini girls are everywhere!! god they're annoying !

Except for the comment on Gemini women, I agree with his assessment here. I'm allergic to competition and the moment I get the vibe that a man is playing me off against another, I label him "bitch made" and walk. Love should never be a competition and no man is worth cutting another woman to get. If he were all into you, there'd be no competition. Competing for a man is the flip side of settling, actually and it's usually about wanting what you can't have, because you can't have it.

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yes to all of this and the forum is still on meds.

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Posted by Este8

Posted by the17er
she will withdraw like a beaten dog... cancers will never compete for the following reasons..

* they can't live with someone who can choose between them and others, someone who's undecided.

* they're obsessed with security .. they can't endanger it or risk it by going all in.

Gemini girls are everywhere!! god they're annoying !

Except for the comment on Gemini women, I agree with his assessment here. I'm allergic to competition and the moment I get the vibe that a man is playing me off against another, I label him "bitch made" and walk. Love should never be a competition and no man is worth cutting another woman to get. If he were all into you, there'd be no competition. Competing for a man is the flip side of settling, actually and it's usually about wanting what you can't have, because you can't have it.

yes to all of this and the forum is still on meds.

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Ha ha ha! Yeah, I'm seeing that. Some things never change.