Dear Crabs, I rely on you to tell me what do you think about Virgos. What do you like, what do you hate, and all the other things. Thanks.
Cancers about Virgos
I have been with my Virgo guy its going to be two years and he is sweet kind and smart but he likes his space i'm a cancer.
They are highly good with details especially when it comes to a hobby they really like.
They are highly good with details especially when it comes to a hobby they really like.
My mom is a virgo moon and her and I butt heads. She's a very caring and conscientious person, she never leaves things half done. She really is a good person, but she always takes it a little too far. She works non stop and that has always been her priority, she never wants to slow down and just enjoy life. I personally don't think I could ever date a virgo, I'm usually so laid back and it would be extremely difficult. I hardly have a relationship with my mom because of the way she is!
I'm a Cancer with a Virgo Moon. That is all.
Posted by MoonBunny
In relationship it is the same. Manipulation, mind games, strategies, we play it with each other. Wanting to know who loves who more. Cancer observes, reflects, and we can be deceptive on purpose. Virgo observes and analyzes. Underlying this all is goodwill. We don't intend real harm and that's most important above all else. It's both our cleverness, wisdom, quick minds that conclude that moral righteousness is the "best way".
I'm going through this right now. There is so much truth in what you said!
Posted by MoonBunny
Virgo: George S Patton
WW2 general that the Nazis were scared to death of.
In relationship it is the same. Manipulation, mind games, strategies, we play it with each other. Wanting to know who loves who more. Cancer observes, reflects, and we can be deceptive on purpose. Virgo observes and analyzes. Underlying this all is goodwill. We don't intend real harm and that's most important above all else. It's both our cleverness, wisdom, quick minds that conclude that moral righteousness is the "best way".
tl;dr
I have great respect for evolved Virgos 🙂
http://www.generalpatton.com/biography.html<BR> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_S._Patton<BR> http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/2WWpatton.htm<BR>
Unless I'm missing something Patton was born on November 11th.
I find virgos very judgmental and annoying.. They are such a perfectionist that it annoys me. And veryyyyy boring.. I am sorry, but one sign i would NOT date is a virgo
Dislike:
Mind games- cancer,scorpios are known for mind games but i think indeed Virgos go beyond both...
when you really open up to a virgo usually they do not appreciate it so best strategy is be friends (not close friends)
Argumentative- i never had long useless arguments with any other sign but virgo...Tauruses are supposed to be stubborn but i never feel that with taurus
Likes
Critical Thinking , in moderate doses only ! They can see the flip side of a coin.
Dependable
Stable
Do not mind discomfort that you cause to them...Oh, they always return what they borrow, even a penny 🙂
Love the giving spirit
Love the ambition
Love the loyalty
Love the sense of adventure
Love the love- when they give it, you definitely feel it.
Hate the lack of emotion, and respect of others emotions/feelings
Hate the criticizing (everyone doesn't want to be like you, or care to live up to your standards)
Hate the affection rationing
Hate the Judging
Hate the constant need for perfection
Hate the inability to see their faults as well as yours
Hate the martyr syndrome
Love the ambition
Love the loyalty
Love the sense of adventure
Love the love- when they give it, you definitely feel it.
Hate the lack of emotion, and respect of others emotions/feelings
Hate the criticizing (everyone doesn't want to be like you, or care to live up to your standards)
Hate the affection rationing
Hate the Judging
Hate the constant need for perfection
Hate the inability to see their faults as well as yours
Hate the martyr syndrome
Posted by Brown69
Love the giving spirit
Love the ambition
Love the loyalty
Love the sense of adventure
Love the love- when they give it, you definitely feel it.
Hate the lack of emotion, and respect of others emotions/feelings
Hate the criticizing (everyone doesn't want to be like you, or care to live up to your standards)
Hate the affection rationing
Hate the Judging
Hate the constant need for perfection
Hate the inability to see their faults as well as yours
Hate the martyr syndrome
Great answer! I did learn a lot about my criticism, and I use it only on good things and if someone asks for it (still I can't stop my mind to do it also on the bad things, but I keep it for myself). And yes I do lack of emotion - but maybe I don't express my emotions until I will know for sure that it will not be used against me. I also work on my constant need for perfection - I use it only when things are very very serious.
Would you please explain the "Hate the martyr syndrome" for me? What do you mean? Can you give an example maybe...
Great answer! I did learn a lot about my criticism, and I use it only on good things and if someone asks for it (still I can't stop my mind to do it also on the bad things, but I keep it for myself). And yes I do lack of emotion - but maybe I don't express my emotions until I will know for sure that it will not be used against me. I also work on my constant need for perfection - I use it only when things are very very serious.
Would you please explain the "Hate the martyr syndrome" for me? What do you mean? Can you give an example maybe...
My friend and my mother will do anything for friends and family, however if they feel they are going out of their way, and maybe the person doesn't get that, they will say something like
"Well I wasn't going to__________, cause I am just so___________, But I went ahead, and __________anyways...." ...marytr! If you don't want to do something, then just say that instead of making the person feel like they've put you out.
I overall LOVE Virgo influenced people. I will say though that they complain about EVERYTHING lol, and tend to always have an aliment. Plus they are VERY genuine, and if you show even the slightest bit of caring, or concern about them they light up like a christmas tree lol. It is really adorable.
I don't like how critical Virgos are, but my 4th house is in Virgo...so if you were to ask my roommates they'd say I'm VERY Virgoish about our apt and everything having a place lol, and even having a list of what type of qualities I seek in a guy lol.
I don't like how critical Virgos are, but my 4th house is in Virgo...so if you were to ask my roommates they'd say I'm VERY Virgoish about our apt and everything having a place lol, and even having a list of what type of qualities I seek in a guy lol.
Posted by Brown69
Would you please explain the "Hate the martyr syndrome" for me? What do you mean? Can you give an example maybe...
My friend and my mother will do anything for friends and family, however if they feel they are going out of their way, and maybe the person doesn't get that, they will say something like
"Well I wasn't going to__________, cause I am just so___________, But I went ahead, and __________anyways...." ...marytr! If you don't want to do something, then just say that instead of making the person feel like they've put you out.click to expand
When I help somebody is because I want to help. But still, when I need help from that person, and he is not willing to help, I can't stop remembering that once I helped too without asking nothing in return. So ... either I get the help I need or never ask my help again because I will never try to do anything for you. Usually I don't say this loud, but only in my mind. It's like "ohh... so this is the kind of friend that you are"
Posted by sucha_d0llPosted by mr.crabby
I'm a Cancer with a Virgo Moon. That is all.click to expand
me too
And a Roosterette. 😉
I have a virguy friend of nearly 4 years. We work together, but also socialize outside of work, sometimes alone at his house, sometimes out with his friends. We talk a lot about everything under the sun, including personal issues. Sometimes I find him incredibly frustrating, because we're close enough not to have any game-playing but he'll still try to control the emotional aspects of our interactions.
I know he's committed to me as an important person in his life, but he still does that advance/retreat thing. As a cancer, once I decide someone is 'approved' I don't go back & forth on them like that. I guess it's his way of keeping in control of his feelings, and I'm kind of used to it now.
He's a bit hypocritical in his standards for other people vs. himself. I can't believe how disorganized his house is, but he makes snarky comments about other people's clothes or appearance etc.
One thing I can empathize with is his desire to keep his vulnerability to himself. Being a cancer, I know how hard it is to talk with someone about fears & weaknesses, so when he does with me I try to just take it in as a friend and not get too emotional about it. But I think that is something virgos & cancers have in common, trying to keep safe while looking for a kindred spirit. I know he expects a certain amount of 'empathy', comfort, etc but also an intelligent response. It challenges me to blend intellect with emotion, and that's good for a cancer.
His wit is very dry & sharp and he always has me laughing at very strange things. Again, a good challenge, and I love being able to make him laugh in return.
I know he's committed to me as an important person in his life, but he still does that advance/retreat thing. As a cancer, once I decide someone is 'approved' I don't go back & forth on them like that. I guess it's his way of keeping in control of his feelings, and I'm kind of used to it now.
He's a bit hypocritical in his standards for other people vs. himself. I can't believe how disorganized his house is, but he makes snarky comments about other people's clothes or appearance etc.
One thing I can empathize with is his desire to keep his vulnerability to himself. Being a cancer, I know how hard it is to talk with someone about fears & weaknesses, so when he does with me I try to just take it in as a friend and not get too emotional about it. But I think that is something virgos & cancers have in common, trying to keep safe while looking for a kindred spirit. I know he expects a certain amount of 'empathy', comfort, etc but also an intelligent response. It challenges me to blend intellect with emotion, and that's good for a cancer.
His wit is very dry & sharp and he always has me laughing at very strange things. Again, a good challenge, and I love being able to make him laugh in return.
Also....my partner is cancer with virgo rising & moon. OMG.
I've never been so satisfied in a relationship, but she can be moody and bitchy and negative sometimes. I like her work ethic, her nobility, sharp judgement, but sometimes it's hard to cope with virgo pickiness piggybacked on cancer moodiness.
We've known each other over 20 years and been partners for nearly 8. In that time she's learned to loosen up a bit, and I've gotten better at follow-through with tasks etc.
I have come to rely on her high standards in everything from housework to building to cooking. Sometimes I get impatient, but I know she balances out my flexibility.
I've never been so satisfied in a relationship, but she can be moody and bitchy and negative sometimes. I like her work ethic, her nobility, sharp judgement, but sometimes it's hard to cope with virgo pickiness piggybacked on cancer moodiness.
We've known each other over 20 years and been partners for nearly 8. In that time she's learned to loosen up a bit, and I've gotten better at follow-through with tasks etc.
I have come to rely on her high standards in everything from housework to building to cooking. Sometimes I get impatient, but I know she balances out my flexibility.
Right now i am LALA for one,....*that is all* .............*cough,cough,cough*
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