but twice a week with voicemail messages saying" u don't care about your daughter anymore" or "she won't be allowed to come see you if you don't speak to me personally" or "you'll have to deal with me forever you motherxxx"
Cancelled our home phone -- It was getting ridiculous, at least 2 calls a week. X-scorpwoman sent a note via mail to our house asking again for $ $ for upcoming dances for their daugther. I have a feeling this won't be over, even when their daughter is "of age" - it won't ever be over. Again I say -- What the hell was I thinking getting with a scorpman that had an x-scorpwoman and had a child 2gether? I wasn't thinking!
OH WOW. Is this what I'm headed for? My daugther is 5 months old! Can we just stop right here! WOW.. Know what? my dad didn't allow me to watch Eddie Murphy "RAW" stand-up back in the 80's, he said that it was "dirty" -- still dealing with issues on that one! LOL
Lots of talk @ scorps "playing around" on the other hand, I read alot about their loyalty & trustworthiness in relationships. Is it really that they're like all humans -- some cheat more and some cheat less?
You're telling me! OUCH..I've been relatively calm but last night there was another message on our home phone saying "send me money, u have a 16 year old..or did u forget?"
I'm close to blowing my top. My Scorpman picked up the phone to do some serious yelling into the phone and I took it from him and slowly hung it up -- then I took the phone off the hook. I'm ready to cancel the landline..
i think most virgo women want stability. Financial and emtoional stability. We tend to be hard workers, critical, meticulous with our surroundings, picky, financially frugal. We like the cards on the table and we don't like to talk about deep feelings. We're honest (sometimes too blunt) and we're loyal to our family / friends.
I've heard that Virgo/Cancer is a tough combination. Lots of people say we're too "critical" for "sensitive crab". The Scorpio/Cancer relation is seen in a much better light. Alot of books will say how "moody" the cancer is and how "clingy" .. Does this tend to be true?
Maybe I need to find a way for me to get over it. I'm letting this entire thing suck me into a what I can safely call a fight. I try to keep my "fights" professional (I'm a lawyer) but I feeling everything BUT professional right now. Know what I mean?
I hear you about the sleeping together bit. I said this very thing to scorpman yesterday and he laughed & said "that wouldn't solve anything" so I said: "maybe/maybe not, but maybe it would relieve some of this bullb*tter" -- my past is exactly where it belongs, in the past. This of course made my scorpman look at me & say "huh? are you crazy?" Which is code for "don't you love me enough to be jealous?"
Some background : They broke up 15 years ago. They were never married, but had a daughter together. He and I have been together almost 5 yrs. & there's been some issues in the past with scorpwoman but nothing like since our daughter was born this year...
U aren't kidding. Vengeful! I wonder who's worse? Xscorpwoman or my scorpman...I swear, I thought I saw killer instinct in his eyes last night. Duh? He's a scorp right? LOL. My attitude right now is this: just sleep w/ her and put us all out of our misery!
Thanks. Yes, I've heard that Cancers are very sensitive & family oriented. We Virgos can be a bit "cold" -- but we are so trustworthy and loyal. She'll probably be morer similar to her Scorpio father..both water signs
I read your responses, all of which are interesting. This past weekend there were 3 messages on his cell phone from the Xgf, she said "Our daughter has a school dance coming up, you gotta pay for new dress/shoes". My scorpman calls her back and says "that's exactly what child support money is for, so that our daughter gets what she needs -- you apprently need to spend the money more wisely" You all know as well as I do that Xscorpwoman wasn't going to leave it at that. She called his cell phone back 11 times & his response? He deleted every single message without even listening to them. Both scorps, both vengeful. Here I am the Virgo, saying: WHAT THE F**K? Bottom line...Xscorpwoman is not "allowing" the 16 yr. old to see my scorpman -- xscorpwoman says "to see our daughter, u must deal with me, you will have to find time in your busy schedule to speak to me or we head back to court"