canci girl with aqua guy

hi there...
This is a cancerian in need of ur help.
i was goin out with an aqua for the past two years...we had frequent break-ups.he'll suddenly say some reason and disappear from my life.after two months he'll come back.this keeps happening.

i lost trust on him because of this.can u list me good and bad points about these aqua guys.

need help
sangicrab

what sunsign is kafta's bf by the way...i don't want libra or sagi by the way .lol.

Sangicrab,

Twinflame2 here again, well if you have had a relationship with a male libra I dont blame you for not wanting another one. I am a female Libra and I would not want to go out with one, to wierd.

No realy male libras are not suposed to be very faithful to their partners for the most part. That is not to say that all libra males are like that, but quite a few are I would say. And they are terrible flirts. I mean bad enough to get someone upset with them over it.

The male and female counterparts of this sign are quite different in many aspects. I kind of feel like the libra male gives us a bad rap sometimes.

TW2

Hi,

This is Aqua... just read your answer to my post, thanks!

I know there are some differences between aqua males and females.

As I mentioned in my reply to you to the "Cancer friend" post, all my best friends are cancers... and I can tell what turns me off as Aqua with them... Well it used to, until I realized that I care for them the way they are and didn't expected them to fit my schema...

Let's put it this way. Aquas, altought they may not admit, have a pretty good idea about how their world has to be. And they will fight for years to fit the whole world into their vision. They will get sad in from of ugly and superficial things and will lost themselves in endless phylosophical discussions... that lead to no action. They sometime live in a dream land, but this is a source of inner energy not an attempt to desilusion themselves.

If they do not draw a line between the wish-world and the reality (i.e. friends, partners etc) they will back off... Feeling hurt and misunderstood they will seek refugee in their inner world.

I myself found my Crab friends very detached sometimes. At the beginning it hurt and I pulled back... On other occasions my Crab friends would do unexpectedly nice things. It's a mix of heat and cold that I cannot figure out completely. It leaves me puzzled sometimes as I tend to be so warm and affectionate.

So, to conclude... just try to find out what emotional support your aqua guy expects of you. Make him talk - Aquarius like talking about their ideas. He may have a beautiful world to share with you and may not find the common ground, this is why he may shut the door from time to time. Also find out his honest feelings for you. Only when an aqua deeply cares/loves someone they will totally commit themselves. Also watch for his "claws"... as simpathetic as Aquarius can be, we are also capable of coldness and rigidity. Find out what triggers this in him. Is it something you are or something you are not?

Cancers offer a great emotional support to Aquarius sometimes. Try also to connect with his mind.

I hope this helps.

Good luck!

Hi,

This is Aqua... just read your answer to my post, thanks!

I know there are some differences between aqua males and females.

As I mentioned in my reply to you to the "Cancer friend" post, all my best friends are cancers... and I can tell what turns me off as Aqua with them... Well it used to, until I realized that I care for them the way they are and didn't expected them to fit my schema...

Let's put it this way. Aquas, although they may not admit, have a pretty good idea about how their world has to be. And they will fight for years to fit the whole world into their vision. They will get sad in from of ugly and superficial things and will lost themselves in endless philosophical discussions... that lead to no action. They sometime live in a dreamland, but this is a source of inner energy not an attempt to disillusion themselves.

If they do not draw a line between the wish-world and the reality (i.e. friends, partners etc) they will back off... Feeling hurt and misunderstood they will seek refugee in their inner world.

I myself found my Crab friends very detached sometimes. At the beginning it hurt and I pulled back... On other occasions my Crab friends would do unexpectedly nice things. It's a mix of heat and cold that I cannot figure out completely. It leaves me puzzled sometimes, as I tend to be so warm and affectionate.

So, to conclude... just try to find out what emotional support your aqua guy expects of you. Make him talk - Aquarius like talking about their ideas. He may have a beautiful world to share with you and may not find the common ground; this is why he may shut the door from time to time. Also find out his honest feelings for you. Only when an aqua deeply cares/loves someone they will totally commit themselves. Also watch for his "claws"... as sympathetic as Aquarius can be, we are also capable of coldness and rigidity. Find out what triggers this in him. Is it something you are or something you are not?

Cancers offer a great emotional support to Aquarius sometimes. Try also to connect with his mind.

I hope this helps.

Good luck!

hi dear aqua...
thankx for ur sweet and long letter..i always wanted a long reply...
sorry for my late response i saw it jus now...

so....we have lot of issues to discuss now....
i find my aqua guy getting detached from me...and u are saying canci's get detached...

he is so tricky...he comes to me when i ignore him but when i'm back he moves away.
i really don't understand so i keep ignoring him and try to retrieve into my safe shell..maybe that is what ur canci friends do to u....and that's why u feel they are detached...
well don't mistake dear aqua...i din't mean to say u are tricky too but i'am jus trying to analyze the situations....

keep telling me what u feel too...

love
sangicrab

dear aqua...
i'e tried all stuff with this guy.
first we were friends...then became lovers...now something in between!

one thing i know he comes back to me and finds great comfort in my support and doesn't be with me always.
now he is goin behind my virgo friend who seems very challenging for him.he is busy trying to win her.she never gives him way...so he gets hurt and comes back to me.then some days pass merrily...then again he moves his eyes to her and the story continues
he knows he is hurting me but does the same
i can't keep pulling him to me can i—
i feel totally helpless and stuck.

sangicrab

hey sangicrab.... im an aqua girl and was with an aqua guy and went thru the same thing he didnt seem to care much if i was with him but if id leave hed beg me back only to go thru the same thing again almost like hes scared of losing u but not sure he wants u this in decision led to making up and breaking up 100s of times til u reach breakin point and end 4 good hell realise what hes lost wen its gone that generally what happens wen uve been taken for granted, i cant speak for an aqua men but the relationship i had was quite cold and distant but in the same way he couldnt let go the best thing to do is show him what hes lost give him a taste of rejection and hell appreciate u more