Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Christmas message
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberNo he not very broke up with me.were not in a relationship yet were still in contact.
Uh, did he break up with you?
If he broke up with you, then you should say NOTHING to him.
Sending text messages to a person after they broke up with you is GROVELING.
Remember what Tecumseh said,
Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:
Posted by britneybabe26What is the nature of your relation to this guy?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.
*Psycho theme music fills the thread*
Posted by kissmygritsYeah. Brought back a Gem flashback. *shudder*
*Psycho theme music fills the thread*
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspWe are seeing each other but its long distance, its casual
Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:
Posted by britneybabe26What is the nature of your relation to this guy?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
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Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberYes dinner and we were intimate once
Hmm, so what in the hell are you two?
Does he take you to dinner and buy you flowers and stuff like that, or what?
But I don't think you have to be In a relationship to say Merry Christmas...we know each other 3 months now, but I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?
Posted by scorpx3I guess its the Gemini in me...I keep saying its OK and then I think no maybe you shouldn't haha
If you're on fairly good terms, I don't see the reason why you shouldn't send a Merry Christmas text message to your crush...just saying. It's not like he broke your heart or anything, so what made you ask this question?
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspWhy not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. 🙂
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.
Posted by britneybabe26Only if you have had direct contact in the last week or ten days. If no actual talking (not FB likes), then I say no. See if he wished you a Merry Christmas instead.
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Posted by britneybabe26Ok. Then there shouldn't be a problem with a simple wishing of a Merry ChristmasPosted by CancerOnTheCuspWe are seeing each other but its long distance, its casual
Ok Gemini, that confused me when combined with your OP:
Posted by britneybabe26What is the nature of your relation to this guy?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
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Posted by GalOnTheCuspI thought about that after I posted.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspWhy not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. 🙂
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.click to expand
A bit sensitive to that-too many threads het posted here that start with "my Cancer man" where it is obvious sad Cancer was not truly "her's"
Posted by britneybabe26Y are you making simple shit hard.
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Just fucking text him it
You won't look like a creeper
He will either think it is sweet or generic and superficial ( not because you are Gemini),
Because it is a generic phrase.
Don't get too mushy would be my advice.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspYes, it gets a little stalker-possessive. I'm sure I'm guilty of having phrased it that way as well.Posted by GalOnTheCuspI thought about that after I posted.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspWhy not? He is HER Cancer crush. The 'crush' is the subject of the question, 'Cancer' is the adjective. 🙂
BTW, if you're NOT in a relationship, "my Cancer" is not the correct terminology.
A bit sensitive to that-too many threads het posted here that start with "my Cancer man" where it is obvious sad Cancer was not truly "her's"click to expand
Posted by frostey91Yeah you're right.Posted by britneybabe26Y are you making simple shit hard.
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Just fucking text him it
You won't look like a creeper
He will either think it is sweet or generic and superficial ( not because you are Gemini),
Because it is a generic phrase.
Don't get too mushy would be my advice.click to expand
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberOooh I like that.
Uh, did he break up with you?
If he broke up with you, then you should say NOTHING to him.
Sending text messages to a person after they broke up with you is GROVELING.
Remember what Tecumseh said,
Posted by britneybabe26He hasn't called?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Posted by M00NchildIt depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.
To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.
It's really a coin flip.
She has nothing to lose .
She will soon see his true character
Posted by frostey91I agree it's just Merry Christmas , I thought cancer Men act like they are the prize? They like that you care. Its not like I'm saying Merry Christmas I want to fuck you nowPosted by M00NchildIt depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Just saying Merry Christmas or something
short like that should not be a big deal.
To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.
It's really a coin flip.
She has nothing to lose .
She will soon see his true characterclick to expand
Posted by MontgomeryNoPosted by britneybabe26He hasn't called?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanksclick to expand
Posted by M00NchildSeriously? A merry Christmas message? Its not like I'm saying Mery Christmas I want to fuck you
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Posted by frostey91I don't text him everyday noPosted by M00NchildIt depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.
To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.
It's really a coin flip.
She has nothing to lose .
She will soon see his true characterclick to expand
Posted by britneybabe26Never said you didPosted by frostey91I don't text him everyday noPosted by M00NchildIt depends on how lavish and over the top she is with hypothetical text and future texts.
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
Just saying Merry Christmas or something short like that should not be a big deal.
To your point with showing interest too early that happens with any sign.
It's really a coin flip.
She has nothing to lose .
She will soon see his true characterclick to expand
Posted by britneybabe26Sooo.... this feels like a good way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.Posted by MontgomeryNoPosted by britneybabe26He hasn't called?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanksclick to expand
I wouldn't do it, personally.
A short Christmas wish without any particularly personal message is just fine.
Posted by britneybabe26....what a strange world we live in..
I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?
Posted by incandescentcancerThank you!
A short Christmas wish without any particularly personal message is just fine.
Posted by BlackNovaExactly!Posted by MontgomeryBut they've been intimate and going out!Posted by britneybabe26Sooo.... this feels like a goodPosted by MontgomeryNoPosted by britneybabe26He hasn't called?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.
I wouldn't do it, personally.
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Posted by BlackNovaAnd, lo!Posted by MontgomeryBut they've been intimate and going out!Posted by britneybabe26Sooo.... this feels like a good way to make some kind (any kind) of connection.Posted by MontgomeryNoPosted by britneybabe26He hasn't called?
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
I wouldn't do it, personally.
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He still calleth not!
Posted by duchesslibroTell me about it. Both men and women have made the whole relationship process garbage, it's not even worth it anymore.Posted by britneybabe26....what a strange world we live in..
I'm just wondering if its cool to send a text like that or better just put it on Facebook?click to expand
You were intimate one time and he lives in another state. I gave you my opinion based on what you told me, but you're gonna do what you wanna do.
Posted by BlackMambaPosted by M00NchildSounds like what a Virgo would do!
No. You'd be better off walking away from him. When a Cancer isn't serious about you, gestures like that are taken as interest in your part which is then used at their convenience for entertainment. When they know you care and will be there for them when they want you to be, they'll use you and leave you when they feel like it, because they never made a commitment to you, and you made yourself available to them. Don't be part of that game.
It's just a text nothing crazy! You guys make us out to be insane!
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Thank you mamba!
Uh if u know them why not
Well I didn't send him the Merry Christmas text after all to see if he would first and he didn't so I am bummed.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Thank you but its so hard when I am so attracted to him. We were intimate, he wanted to see me, he persued and now criquets... You would think at least a Merry Christmas..:-/Posted by britneybabe26Nothing would have come from the text. So even if you had sent it you would still be bummed. Just like even if you had called him you would still be bummed. Cux he isn't in to you.
Well I didn't send him the Merry Christmas text after all to see if he would first and he didn't so I am bummed.
Go watch a funny movie and kiss someone on New Years! Not him though! Cux even if you kiss him ....you will still be bummed! Kiss someone else!!!!! Can't stress this enough!
You are lovely
gorgeous. Lots of guys want to kiss you on New Year's!click to expand
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