Here is my thing. Its hard for me to intimately like someone. Im very hard to get. Im very private and secretive at first until im comfortable. I feel.id i dont like you like that which is rare im not clingy at all. I move my space i wont call or contact you i dont care. But on the other hand if i do like you maybe im clingy or just showing interest. Why do people have an issue if someone buys them flowers, takes them on trips asks about their day, wants to keep in touch, wants to make you feel appreciated and courted, isnt this normal when you 100 into someone? Why would that be clingy? Why do i need to text you 2 timws maybe 3 times a day with no response like you see my messege why not just say hey leave me alone. I think people dont see or understand cancers and clinginess whatever you call it. If someone is into you, you will know it, and if the feelings were mutual you wouldnt mind a little clinginess and affectionate or attention being spoiled.
