Ok you guys I really need advice plz I will try to make this short but alot had happened in these 6 months. First off I was in a previous relationship for 11 yrs. My cancer guy gave me strength and hope to leave my abusive relationship. I have 5 kids also. We were friends first but I instantly fell for him. He encouraged me, made me laugh, supported me. I knew I was in love for the first time in my life. I have never felt this way before not even in my previous relationship. We moved kinda fast. I am 28 he's 26 one child. We have talked about a future together he told me I would be his wife one day, he was the first to say I love you and even talked about another child. But when we would have an argument he would always break up with me I would try to console him apologize and we would make up even when he was wrong(more than once). Sometimes he would say mean things to hurt my feelings though.OK he lost his job about 2 months ago he became distant i think he was depressed he told me he didn't think he was the man for me because he didn't have anything to offerand we can't live off love. I have my own everything I simply told him I can support myself I just wanted his time and attention he still pulled away. I love him and don't want to let go but I feel like he has just given up on us so easily. I also have kids and he is great with them they adore him but I don't want them hurt in the process. Help plz ??!!?? Also we texted alot instead of talking...can u be overly affectionate to a Cancer man ?
