Cancer men - randomly distant

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Angeleyes17 on Thursday, May 15, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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Its happened twice now with 2 different cancerian men. When I was chatting to them or messaging we would have fun conversations and actually clicked well..wasnt flirty or anything, then randomly that communication just stopped from there ends. Is that what they do?

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Posted by xMoonMan
Posted by Angeleyes17
Its happened twice now with 2 different cancerian men. When I was chatting to them or messaging we would have fun conversations and actually clicked well..wasnt flirty or anything, then randomly that communication just stopped from there ends. Is that what they do?

Not even a little flirty?

...need more info. What other correlations are there between these two events?

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ok..a lil from his end lol few compliments which was nice

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Posted by notyourtype
Texting/messaging all the time can be really time consuming and distracting, so if it "wasn't flirty or anything", then maybe they just got bored or they got busy with other things.

I wouldn't take it personally and focus my energy elsewhere, as well. Obsessing over a guy's texting habits is just a recipe for disaster.

lol not taking it personally..just something i noticed.

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Posted by Angeleyes17
Its happened twice now with 2 different cancerian men. When I was chatting to them or messaging we would have fun conversations and actually clicked well..wasnt flirty or anything, then randomly that communication just stopped from there ends. Is that what they do?

Well since you don't get the body language there is obviouisly a lot lost in translation. Something completely random may be interpreted completely differently or blown out of proportions on the other end... or both ends. Especially when Cancers are involved!

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Well maybe they got bored with the non verbal communication. Perhaps they had other things to do. Why don't you try verbal communication for now on. At least then, you can tell if they wanna talk or interested in the conversation. I know I hate texting lol. If I can't hear the person voice, ill think they hiding something or they Don't like my voice. But o think they probably wanna hear your voice. So try that

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It's so hard to connect via text. So much miscommunication. He's probably busy. I'm working 3 jobs right now. Tis the season!

Just send him a random hi or funny pic. Let him know you're there.