Confused by a Cancer man

I have liked this Cancer guy for about 6 Months now. I’m a Pisces girl myself. We started off as friends, he was really nice to me in the beginning. We often went for long walks and he would speak a lot and I’d listen but I enjoyed his company. We cooked together and enjoyed it. He loved cooking. He was also a workaholic and very ambitious, so he spent large amount of time working. With time as we startled getting comfortable with each other he started being rude to me. The respect and quality in the friendship started disappearing. He would speak long hours about his work to me and I’d just listen and he would whine if I ever spoke about my work. He would behave insensitively.

But I like him for the few good times we had when his mood was ok. It was very hard to read this guy. He kept saying he liked some girl, but being a piscean I had a strong gut feeling he liked me, I’ve noticed him get angry if I had any male friends accompanying me. He would check on me if I’m out late and question the gender of the person I’m with. He would want me around everytime he started cooking or started any work. Now I’m away from him...in a different country and for the first time since I’ve known him we are apart and he messages me saying he misses me and thinks about me. But this is not very often. He knows I like him from a common friend and he even acknowledged that to me. What’s going on? Any advice?

Hmmm that’s what I hear...thanks 🙂

No hard feelings, appreciate it.. 😊

Posted by mars_in_cappy

He sounds like a douche.

Honestly, get rid of him. He's a typical pathetic, wishy washy, game playing mamma's boy.

Not sure why you're wasting your time on him?

I agree!

Posted by mars_in_cappy

Posted by Mojito

Hmmm that’s what I hear...thanks 🙂

Sorry, i know i was a bit blunt, but i'm sick of women getting played by these sort of 'childish charmers'. Like their appeal lays in the push-pull dynamic, designed to throw you off centre in order to weaken you so that you'll accept their crap. And "boo hoo", you might up and leave him.. his worst fear.

At very least, he sounds like an abuser. Turning "mean" and mentioning another woman. Using you as a sounding board.. Oh, hang on, maybe he wants an 'audience'?

Insight is: he is a childish 'manchild', afraid of intimacy, who wants an 'audience' rather than a partner, and he will use women to serve this purpose, and he is an abuser.

Outlook: not looking good!

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This!!!