Crab Knight

Okay, this is nuts. These last few threads make it look like being with a Crab will always end in a hot mess of a train wreck, with their lover always drained and damaged.

Look, I get moodiness can be a hassle to deal with but it comes with the territory. Cancer is ruled by the moon,the luminary that chances signs the fastest out of all planets. Waxing and waning, their emotions and moods are easily swayed like the tides.

Young crabs have the crappy job of learning how to roll with it. One day they may feed you and have sex all day with you. Next they may need a week to recover from the emotional overload of it. Seriously, they don't they can really just learn what overwhelms them and what they can do to stop from burning out for days from situations. Its a learning process that takes time. If you can't handle it, don't date a crab.

If you want, you could try watching moon transits to see how they affect your crab. Keep up with the lunar calendar and see how they behave with each moon phase. Or just accept them as they are and just inspire them to strive to get a better handle on things, out of love.

If you can't handle the relationship saying it's toxic, leave. Its not your job to fix people, so don't.

Ok fair enough ...good point ...if my cancer would've said this ...NO PROBLEM ... I could be all he needs a more.... but he doesn't and leaves a really eerie feeling... but may I ask ...recupperate from what emotional overload?? It was good wasn't? You enjoyed the connection — So what is it that you guys feel the need to hide to regroup or neutralize your emotions?

I personally love being a crabette...it is hard work though I aint goin lie with our emotions and all..but I find that underneath my emotional turmoil and intensity I love DEEPLY because I feel DEEPLY but yet I also hurt DEEPLY. .I just wish other signs will get thats how Crabs are...Don't confuse us with your butter and learn to respect our emotions and our Space..be kind, have patience and understanding and we will be fine...All we crabs need is love and understanding thats all..

Posted by SirHorns
Okay, this is nuts. These last few threads make it look like being with a Crab will always end in a hot mess of a train wreck, with their lover always drained and damaged.

Look, I get moodiness can be a hassle to deal with but it comes with the territory. Cancer is ruled by the moon,the luminary that chances signs the fastest out of all planets. Waxing and waning, their emotions and moods are easily swayed like the tides.

Young crabs have the crappy job of learning how to roll with it. One day they may feed you and have sex all day with you. Next they may need a week to recover from the emotional overload of it. Seriously, they don't they can really just learn what overwhelms them and what they can do to stop from burning out for days from situations. Its a learning process that takes time. If you can't handle it, don't date a crab.

If you want, you could try watching moon transits to see how they affect your crab. Keep up with the lunar calendar and see how they behave with each moon phase. Or just accept them as they are and just inspire them to strive to get a better handle on things, out of love.

If you can't handle the relationship saying it's toxic, leave. Its not your job to fix people, so don't.

Touch?.~
I enjoy having a highly psychic moon because whenever something goes on inside myself I can do something about it beforehand. And the bliss is ecstatic. (:

Posted by crabRiot
I personally love being a crabette...it is hard work though I aint goin lie with our emotions and all..but I find that underneath my emotional turmoil and intensity I love DEEPLY because I feel DEEPLY but yet I also hurt DEEPLY. .I just wish other signs will get thats how Crabs are...Don't confuse us with your butter and learn to respect our emotions and our Space..be kind, have patience and understanding and we will be fine...All we crabs need is love and understanding thats all..

Yeah the love is very deep. But when a person truly loves..does the sign really matter? Since it's always intense.
Hehe yeah I love my nest space. ^^ It's important to me. x3

Another thing about cancers: Don't make them feel guilty for taking time to themselves.

Posted by JJ141214
Ok fair enough ...good point ...if my cancer would've said this ...NO PROBLEM ... I could be all he needs a more.... but he doesn't and leaves a really eerie feeling... but may I ask ...recupperate from what emotional overload?? It was good wasn't? You enjoyed the connection — So what is it that you guys feel the need to hide to regroup or neutralize your emotions?

The emotion overload comes from something other than the relationship. Most likely energy they have absorbed from somewhere else even if they didn't leave the house.

"recupperate from what emotional overload?? It was good wasn't? You enjoyed the connection —"
Also, your worthiness as a person doesn't come from what other people feel.

Posted by JJ141214
Ok fair enough ...good point ...if my cancer would've said this ...NO PROBLEM ... I could be all he needs a more.... but he doesn't and leaves a really eerie feeling... but may I ask ...recupperate from what emotional overload?? It was good wasn't? You enjoyed the connection — So what is it that you guys feel the need to hide to regroup or neutralize your emotions?

Just feeling too much, too soon, too fast, like a tidal wave.

When they're content, ask what to do when they close off. Mention its hard to read them and that you can't always tell when they need alone time or need you. Mention you don't wanna smother them and just want a heads up so you won't bother them when they NEED alone time.