is he playing games or its typical cancer trait?

After a lovely time together..... getting really close... making love, talking about our goals... him asking me to help him organize his schedule ..ect.....he is being short with me.... ignoring me ...me don't like ...its so confusing... should I call it bluff or should I ditch the towel—

Games, Games and more Games.

Nanny you may be correct. I just sent him a text saying " I cannot do this anymore ....im lying to myself by allowing you to toy with my heart ...its not healthy and its not right ..i will always wonder what would drive a person to such games but I resign to the fact that not everyone has a good heart and pure intentions GAME OVER!

you said you were going to apply NC rule, but he sent you two messages and you jumped on the opportunity with no restrictions... even made love...he saw nothing had changed...why would he change than?

I dont understand either...I dont mind a little drama here and there but I highly dislike games..... back to NC until I get the answers and actions I want

Plus if is games he want to play...he is going to loose ...that I can guarantee.....scorpios can benserious if they want to be but because of our somewhat irrational views of justice we will repay that sh@t twice on his face so fast be wont know what day it is...——

Just admit it you get all wet and h*rny causing some drama in your life. Trust me Scorpio's seem to like drama, from what I'm reading a you are creating drama.

With cancers or at least my cancer NC doesn't always mean not interested or not in love. Sometimes it means the exact opposite

Cancer like mind games, like testing you. I've been told from someone on here to take it or leave it, and decided to leave it. If you can bare it, then don't complain lol cause there will be much more of these actions!

Much less of these actions when more communication and trust happens.

Is this the same guy that's married? Or a different Cancer?

Here's the thing with us Cancers...if we're upset about something you are doing or not doing you will see it in our actions...even if we voice our concern and feel you didn't either understand or do what we need/ want from you it will be voiced by our behaviour.

Hahahahahaha everyone ....got a good chucks!! You're all right..... drama over for now..... it was obviously a " misunderstandings " as he claims that he didn't see the text informing him of a venue he had asked me to get details on..... so he apologized and said he was busy all day painting and sent me the pic of the painting.... so ...yes ....we're good now ....lime someone said ...till next time.... thing is with each arguments I learn a little more ? yes this is the same cancer moonbutter

Moonbutter... yes I gather that you want to be understood but my thing is I may understand him but not necessarily agree.... and we are BOTH very opinionated LOL

married?! ooooooooookkkkkkkkkk

Separated ......but yes still legal sucky situation.....

What are his placements?

Dont knw his placement because I'm not sure if he was born at night or day.... He was born July 3 1977

Child, why are you unaware of your crown?

He found an excuse no one is that busy and the favorite line "oh I didn't see your text" we all use that when we don't feel like being bothered with a person.

Then he is still legally married take off those rose colored glasses he is a piece of shit and full of shit!

From scorpio to scorpio don't let a soft ass Cancer man play you like that!

Move on! Take back your crown! And show him who has the power. Women have the power and yet fall victim to spineless men.

Also, get off the merry go round if you still want him stop making the same mistakes make him step up make him work for your time! Stop giving yourself away freely!

Rising Sign is in 29 Degrees Virgo
You tend to be very shy and not very self-assertive. You are supercritical about how you appear to others. Even though you may think you are uninteresting and dull, you are actually quite soft- spoken, orderly, neat and very likable. You are a perfectionist with high standards, and at times you can be quite tactless in pointing out the faults of others. Very practical, efficient and purposeful, your appearance and bearing reflect your need to appear graceful, sensible and reserved. You have a crisp, no-nonsense approach to dealing with others. Never lazy or self-indulgent, you tend to be dedicated to the work ethic.

Sun is in 11 Degrees Cancer.
Very emotional and sensitive, you have an intuitive understanding of the "vibes" around you. You tend to be quite generous, giving, loving and caring, but only when your own needs for emotional support, love and security have been met. If they are not met, you tend to withdraw into yourself and become very insecure and selfish. Your home and family (especially your mother or the person who played that role for you early on) represent security for you and thus assume a larger-than-life importance. Very sentimental, you have vivid and long- enduring memories of the past. No matter how well adjusted you are, you will always need a secret quiet place of your own in order to feel at peace. Feeding others can give you great pleasure you would enjoy being part of a large family.

Moon is in 13 Degrees Aquarius.
Very freedom-oriented, you must always be able to do what you wish, no matter what. You become stubborn and recalcitrant when others try to force you into a mold. You are a true democrat -- you are not a follower, but you enjoy being with those who are like-minded. You appreciate emotional self-control -- you practice it yourself and you look for it in others. You solve problems, including emotional ones, with your brains and intellect, not your feelings. Try to be tolerant of those who have powerful and obvious emotional responses -- not everyone is as objective, cool, dispassionate and detached as you are.

Mercury is in 15 Degrees Cancer.
Your emotions tend to rule your thought processes. You have difficulty seeing life objectively. You have an excellent memory, especially about things to which you have formed an emotional bond. You prefer ideas and thoughts that are known and familiar, and therefore tend to dislike fads or radical ideas. The beliefs and

therefore tend to dislike fads or radical ideas. The beliefs and traditions of your family and culture are very important to you. Your thinking becomes quite unclear when you are emotionally shaken -- try not to make major decisions when you are upset. Let things calm down first.

Venus is in 26 Degrees Taurus.
You are known to be a warm and affectionate person, and you tend to form long- lasting attachments. The reverse of this is that you can also be quite possessive once you have made a commitment. The beauty, luxury and comfort of your surroundings are important to you and you will devote much time and energy to making your home just right. Beware of your tendency toward self-indulgence, especially with respect to eating incorrectly. You also need outside stimuli to get you in gear When things come too easily for you, you can be lazy and indolent.

Mars is in 19 Degrees Taurus.
Careful, slow and thorough about all that you do, at times you are also willful and stubborn when others try to alter your course. You are definitely not a quitter -- you will work long and hard to get what you want. Your possessions are very important to you. One of your continuing problems is that you tend to regard the significant people in your life much the same way as you do your possessions -- you become overly attached and much too jealous. You repress your anger when you get upset and that is not healthy. Try to learn to show your anger immediately in order to avoid painful explosions later.

Jupiter is in 20 Degrees Gemini.
You have a logical, detached, objective view of most things. Your interests are wide-ranging and you are an avid student, with expertise in many different areas. You love to work things out in your mind -- everything you do is reduced to an exercise in logic and reason. You have the ability to grasp abstractions and to deal successfully with the larger issues of life. Your overemphasis on developing your powerful intellect can cause your emotional and intuitive abilities to atrophy unless you consciously choose to exercise them.

Saturn is in 15 Degrees Leo.
Extremely self-reliant, you set very high standards of conduct and decorum for yourself, and you expect others with whom you associate to be that way, too. It is important that you had a strong father figure or role model early in life to mold your life course and direction. When you feel that those around you are unworthy or behaving badly, you withdraw, preferring s

That's him ...i ll do mines next

Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Capricorn
You are practical and reserved but very ambitious. An achiever and a hard worker, you respect success. Older looking and very serious as a youth, things lighten up and you relax more as you mature. You have a serious view of the world as being a difficult place to be in. Very envious of those who seem to have an easier life than you have, relaxation and play do not come easily. It is important that you had abundant parental support as a child so that you do not feel lonely and isolated as an adult. Generally, you have a good, earthy sense of humor that can carry you through when times really do get tough. You are purposeful, self-willed, industrious, realistic and responsible.

Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Intense and complex by nature, you have extremely strong emotional reactions to most situations. Feelings are often very difficult for you to verbalize. Therefore you have a tendency to be very quiet - - to brood and think a lot. You seldom get overtly angry, but, when you do, you are furious and unforgiving. When you make an emotional commitment, it is total -- you are not attracted to superficial or casual relationships. If you are challenged, you take it as a personal affront and tend to lash out and fight back in a vengeful manner. You love mysteries and the supernatural. A good detective, you love getting to the roots of problems and you enjoy finding out what makes other people tick. You are known to be very willful, very powerful and quite tenacious!

Moon is in 03 Degrees Sagittarius.
An idealist, you prefer the grand, the beautiful, the good and the noble. You get very disappointed when your high expectations in life are not met. Very curious by nature, you enjoy traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. Try to avoid your tendency to ignore the small but important details of living. You are independent and free, and you want others to be that way, too. Optimistic, buoyant and cheerful, others like to have you around. You have an incessant desire to learn as much as possible about metaphysics, religion, philosophy and any other broad, deep subject. Your life tends to be punctuated by bursts of energy and frenetic activity.

Mercury is in 29 Degrees Scorpio.
You are a born investigator. You are fascinated by secrets and mysteries and unanswered questions of any kind. When you become upset or angry, your emotional reactions are overpowering -- reason and logic disappear

Doesn't matter what his placements are he is a project you cannot fix him scorpio. You know he isn't great the image you created in your head is stopping you from cutting him loose.

THIS IS HIS ...CONT...FROM BEFORE (GOT CUT OFF)

Uranus is in 07 Degrees Scorpio.
You, and your peer group, demand to confront life at its deepest and most meaningful levels. Very compulsive and obsessive in your approach to everything, you will avoid anything that is casual or superficial, especially when it comes to relationships. You will seek out and explore new methods of healing as well as different ways to deal with deep-seated emotional problems.

Neptune is in 14 Degrees Sagittarius.
You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."

Pluto is in 11 Degrees Libra.
For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.

N. Node is in 20 Degrees Libra.
You find it very difficult to be comfortable being alone -- you would much prefer to be in an environment where many people are working together toward common goals. Your charming and sincere approach to others assures your popularity -- you have the gift of being able to ease tensions just by your mere presence. You're the perfect "team player" willing to sacrifice your own importance so that the group goal can be accomplished. Be careful, however, not to become overly dependent on your interactions with others -- you have personal private needs that should not be neglected.

AHH you know what I've messed up copying and pasting it anyways ..whoever can understand ....LOL... and Octoberbaby91. Yes ....I'm not sure yet... because as a Scorpio we do tend to want fix things that are crooked ...LoL but we also get carried away by emotions .... so either way are blinding but too early to tell

thanks Rachelann...will look it up alabe.com but don't I also need the place?

Oh gosh I'm late to the party..lol stupid phone is slow :/

Just you giving a fee details on this guy he is definitely a crooked picture you want to fix. That's why he is not behaving in the manner that you want he is a project and you can't change him. He will disappoint your expectations everytime.

Take off those glasses.

I know a close guy friend mine has cancer venus and mercury...super sensitive in terms of love...need constant reassurance and soft words. Ex bf has moon Aquarius...he's a strange one lol...but creative and original. This Cancer guy of yours is an insecure teddy bear :p

So have you got your fill of drama yet? The Cancer man your chasing has an Aqua moon that explains a bit of his behavior.