Curb ball slamming in my face.....

Ok this its by far the most ludicrous thing he has done. Its so left field I did not see it coming. Cancer people please help me pull apart what has happened here...I am so angry and sad all in one... don't know my next move... it has shaken the ground a bit. Ok recap on my situation.... my cancer man is separated but living in the same house as wife ...i am in the same situation.... yesterday he said he loved me.... last night ...i sent a text saying ' sorry I forgot I am not available this weekend or next' I apologized at 12 am he sends one back that says "please don't ever call my phone or text again.Go and love your husband and father of children.You have no clue what love is a.Stay with your husband and love him. Don't love me . I DO NOT LOVE YOU.STAY IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND FIX IT!!!' he knows knows I'm not with my ex why would he say such a thing out of no where ....WTF......

Iwill you're funny ...let me pick your mind ...i know you have a few thoughts.
Aquavita ....so you thing cancer man will go to the extremes of saying they dont love you for such a petty thing

Thanks Iwill.. Cray Cray is understatement..... dramatic YES....BUT I wonder ...i never met wife whom he claims to be separated ...what if ?? Just what if ....he is not and is actually cheating ...omg ill kill him....lol ....what if tensile wrote that ...idk a...he got me F@#ck up now!

What if the wife wrote that—***

Over sensitive man, being immature and hurt assuming shit out of a simple change of plans... Im not cancer but I perfectly now the reaction...

But we never made plans set on stones..... he never fully said yes to spending weekend together so I made plans because I want to do something over the weekend..... but will they go to the extreme to tell you they do not love you—?

Yessss cancers!!!——

For what Ive been reading here about cancers + my experience and they can correct me if I'm wrong...

Still annoying but when you make plans with them god forbids you don't follow through they will forever remember and you will hear nagging every now an then... but if they do it to you, they'll be like "man! chill is not like is a big deal, we didn't even have a set plan and things change you know"

Scorpions and cancers are mirror images .....

Wow.i am always telling him I love him ...geeeeze.....so now what— Give him a century and get back to him— Ugh I HATE THIS!!!!!

Yes... it happened ...we.. fell inlove.....butterbhappens.....especially for two water signs ...think that was first mistake

Posted by JJ141214
my cancer man is separated but living in the same house as wife

lol

Its not manipulation ...self preservation.....I'm not playing games with him....I dont make him jealous (that I know of) unless he jealous of my ex..... what I do in my privacy is just that my privacy ...i refuse to sulk but I also refuse to give up

"my cancer man is separated but living in the same house as wife ...i am in the same situation...."

Ok, this part should tell you everything you need to know.
If he is still cohabitating with his wife, although "separated", I don't quite think "my" should be used when referring to the Cancer man.

Yes cancers are cray cray but you love it when they drive you mad. Cancers are like a drug that's highly addictive. If I knew what my cancer friend would do to me before I met her, I would run the other way. Or maybe not. 🙂 Sounds like he's swimming through his emotional water waves. Plus he probably thinks you're dishonest with him about really being separated and he's probably now doing the same thing just to get it out if his system. Cancers need to be out first or else they self destruct (and destruct everything else in the process). You got to put him first because with that reaction it sounds like he did the cancer thing and put you first.

Starchild...damm drugs feel good when your high but then when your coming down and fining and kind get to the drug you go mental...LOL.....please expand on " by his reaction it sounds he did the cancer thing and put me first" how did he put me first—?

Yes go read my comments in the thread in the cancer board hanich out up about sleep an rest. If he's upset and told you to go back to your husband and fix it after he thought you rejected him then he probably thinks you didn't come through because you're too busy for him. And why be busy when you have the love of your life waiting an wanting to see you? Could be nothing other than someone else who's worth more, like your husband-the one you chose and have kids with. Probly thinks you chose him. So now he's probably going to mess with his wife for spite or because he felt like you were fixing your life and getting back with your husband so maybe he should do the same. I don't know if he put you first or not. I'm just saying cancer people have a bad habit of giving their complete all to people and when try feel it's not being reciprocated they go ape shit

Agree with Starchild... Plus you are both in highly charged emotional situations so everything is going to be heightened...emotions are gonna be outta wack and unreasonable (hence him freaking out on cancling plans) I bet he was looking forward to seeing you and prob already planned it in his head and then you cancelled and he got disappinted, hurt and angry. Cancerians get angry when frustrated and feel no control over the situation. He had plans with you and you crushed them. I'm not going to give advice how to make things right because honestly you guys shouldnt be seeing eachother. Best to leave him alone until you are both divorced otherwise just will be more of this bullshit to deal with.

How many Cancer guys are you dealing with? I thought there was only one? Why are you tree trunking with a man that still has a separated wife in the picture?

Do you really want this guy or are you just screwing with him? I'm finding Scorpios like to tree trunk with things then you end up standing there alone wondering what happened. Cancer men hate drama I know I hate it, you cause drama in our lives we don't like it.

You tree trunk with us we will get you back never screw with a Cancer man, maybe that's what excites you Scorpios that we are not scared of you, your intimidation doesn't phase us you can't snap your fingers and we jump. You Scorpios think you have everything in your control when the Cancer man yanks the control back and he has the ball in his court you are shocked.

I not tree trucking .....no ...we have been friends for a year and half and we fell form one another ....yes our situation is very sticky.... and yes considering having a plan b to drown out pain... we scoops also swim in depths of emotions..... strong and overwhelming... so yes... just being honest entertain the idea of Cancer B ....right or wrong is crated in purity there is not such concept ...but only exist in human logic.... human logic sometimes is a prison.... be free as long as your freedom do not hinder another persons evolution and happiness.... As far as I know I'm not hurting anyone .....

Not hurting anyone? What about his wife? Kids? Your husband? Everyone else that is involved like friends, in-laws...not only that you are hurting yourself and him. This is not a good situation and quite honestly the fact he is having this emotional relationship with you shows what kind of loyalty he has to his relationships in general. If you guys do end up leaving your marriages in divorce then don't you think if you guys get together there will always doubt that if he did to his ex he could do that to you and visa versa? Karma can be a bitch so stay on her good side 😉

Sorry but he split 3 years ago.....I separated for other reasons(husband alcoholic).... we DIDNOT LEAVE OUR PARTNERS for each other...... that's very clear

Ok but legally you guys are still married, right?